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What did I get myself into?
A guy asked me to go to the movies with him this Friday and I said yes. Well we were talking and he asked me if I was going to bring anything with me. I was thinking, "Hm...I thought this was a date?" So I told him that I wasn't planning to but I will if he brings someone. So we decided that we both were bringing someone. Then, about 10 min. later he said that he'd really like it if we went alone. So at that point I was just like, "Uh, wtf? Does this guy not know what he wants?"
Well, I've talked to him for at least an hour and half each day since Monday and now I don't think that I really like him. Like, at all. Not even as someone I'd hang out with as friends.
So my question is, do you think it's too late to cancel? Or would it be rude of me to cancel the day before? I was also thinking about saying that I want to bring a friend after all. What do you guys think?
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Okay, here's what I think happened. He asked you out to the movies but then after thinking about it, realised he didn't specify it was a date and was worried you only said yes because you didn't know it was. Worried about this and too scared to ask, he asked if you were bringing someone and when you said you were, he thought you didn't like him so agreed to bring someone too. He finally worked up the courage to make it clear was a date so told you that he would prefer if you could both go alone.
It sounds to me as though that is probably what happened. He knows what he wants but is too scared to ask right out.
As for your change of feelings towards him, I would suggest that you go out with him. The reason you aren't so sure now is probably because of the way you felt he was messing you around. Give the guy a chance and he may end up being someone you really care about.
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I wouldn't cancel because it is pretty late, but I would call him up and let him know that he needs to bring a friend because you want to bring one too. It can serve as sort of a buffer for the both of you, and if you actually happen to like hanging out with him, you can give it another go alone some other time.
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YES, it would be rude to cancel the that...first make him pay for everything...than after the date...the next day ignore him and say that you have to go home to watch your grandma or say any lie...trust me it work for me....HOLLA...
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I's sorry, but yes, it is rude to cancel. Bringing someone would be almost as bad as canceling so just go and give him a chance. I understand you don't like him, but you never know, your opinion might change. Good luck with your date and I hope this helps.
-cindy <3
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I think it would be rude to cancel. Go and give him a chance.
My guess is he is really nervous. He wants to go out with you but maybe suggested friends go along to prevent it being awkward.
Then decided that wasn't really what he wanted. He is nervous. Maybe he hasn't been out with a lot of girls, or maybe he considers you special.
Go and see what comes of it. You can always politely say no next time. Let me know how it goes! :)
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