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what do i do
I told my "Best friend" that i might be gay only because she said if i told her that nothing would change and that we would still be friends nomatter what but after i told her everythin was cool after the frist 4 day but after she didnt even wanna talk to me i told her that after i tolder she had changed and she said that she hadnt i really want to still be friends with her but i kno we may never be the same now she just dosent say nuthin to me she dosent even sit next to me what can i do to make her just lissen to what i have to say about it????
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This might be a lot, or even too much, for your friend to handle. She may just need time to be by herself and think about what you said.
If she just never comes around, then just let it be. There is nothing you can do about it if she doesn't accept you the way you are, then you should forget the friendship. I know it's hard to lose a good friend, but you'll be able to make new friends that won't ignore you when they find out that you're gay.
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girl..if that was your best friend she wouldn't betray you like that...cause i have a friend who is bi-sexual..and i don't treat her diffrent..as long she don't put her hands on me or make a move....but if that was really your bestfriend she would except who you were...cause every friend would be like oh..they will talk to you even if you gay..than when you tell them..they back off of you slowly..well sweetie,if she don't except who is...find new friends..that will....trust me...she is not the only friend you will ever have.....
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You can write her a letter or email. I know, I know. It sounds stupid. But you cant talk to her in person right? A letter or email is the best way to express your feelings because you can say whatever you want without having somebody not giving you a chance to get everything out. Plus, you wont be as nervous because it's not like your talking to her in real life or on the phone.
If she doesnt email you back or write a note back..or talk to you in person. I think you should forget about it. Nothing is more stupid than not talking to your friend because she told you she was gay. Yeah your gay but does that mean your going to try to makeout with your friend? No. I'm sure you'll respect her. But shes just scared. Basically shes acting like a little kid and if she doesn't want to talk to you -- thats HER problem.
Dont change who you are for her friendship, you dont deserve to be treated like this. Make new friends if she doesnt learn to accept it and continue on as friends.
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