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I'm not very booksmart, and I'm definately not street smart. However, if there's one thing I am, it's PEOPLE SMART. That's why I'm good with this whole advice thing. You can ask me ANYTHING and I'm always glad to help. There's almost no question I can't handle, so ask away. Make sure you RATE and leave FEEDBACK, so I can improve my advice.infinate x's and o's,
cindy
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What is the fastest way to get a hickey to dissapear?
Hate to break it to you, but I don't think there is a way to make a hickey dissapear, however, thats the beauty of makeup. Just cover it up with foundation or concealer until it goes away. Hope this helps.
im in a bad situation. see my bestfriend of about 2 or 3 years just told me alot about her life and there is some things that i should tell someone about..but i promised her i wouldnt and,her life just keeps getting worse and worse.I love her to death but i dont want to loose her as a friend if i tell someone.
what should i do?
age:13
female
These situations can be extremely tough, however you have to use your best judgement for what is right for your friend. How serious are this problems? Does it need adult intervention? Are things getting way worse? Personally, I think you should tell a trusted adult, if things are truly wrong. I know you don't want to lose your friend, but in the end your friend will thank you. Think about it this way: You are saving your friend from what she is going through. If you love her to death, you wouldn't want her going through this pain she has been induring.
Also: Try talking to your friend. Show her your concern about the situation. Maybe she will realize she needs to speak up.
Hope this helps and if you ever need to talk, I'm here for you.
i'm 15 and i want to get my belly button pierced, i;m afraid it will portray the wrong image. i don't worry about how it will affect guys, because they're MUCH less judgemental then girls, i just want to know if i'm gonna earn myself a bad name by doing this.
No, definately not. Personally, I think belly buttons rings are cute, not trashy. A lot of my friends have their belly buttons done and they definately aren't judged. Don't worry. As long as you don't get some ugly, obnoxious ring, no one will judge you. You can be the trendsetter. Hope this helps.
theres this song that goes "shake your body like a bellydancer." it was really popular. i looked up bellydancer, like a bellydancer, and shake your body on itunes but it wasnt this. anyway, have the title, artist, or album. anything will help...
"Bananza" by Akon. Hope this helps.
what exactly is considered sexually active?
When you have sex. Hope this helps.
My friend and I want to put something funny or cute on the back of our class tshirts... The best thing we can come up with so far is "dumb" and the other would say "dumber". Any more ideas?
If you are looking for a pair type thing, here are some ideas.
Ideas for 2:
-tweedledum/tweedledee (alice and wonderland)
-mickey/minnie
-ernie/bert (seasame street)
-salt/pepper
-pimp/hoe (probably not appropriate for school)
-captain/crunch
-batman/superman
Ideas for 3:
-charlie's angels
-curly, moe, and larry (3 stooges)
-pink ladies or greasers
-3 musketeers
-3 blind mice
-batman/spiderman/superman
Ideas for 4:
-fantas
Hope this helps.
if you took a pregnancy test and it came out positve can you still have your period every month or does it mean you lost the baby
Pregnancy tests aren't always 100 percent positive, that's what a doctor's for. If you are getting your period though, you're not pregnant.
Hope this helps.
-cindy
okay I really like this boy but, I can't describe what I feel for him... Is it love? or just a 13 year old's crush?
TY in advance Jeni Lots Of love
If you're only 13, i bet it's just puppy love. I don't think he can be your true love. After all, you're only 13. I would wait awhile, at least a few years until you decide whether you are really in love with him. If it's meant to be, you'll end up together. Hope this helps.
-cindy
Today I went to my friend Lindsay's party. It was a swimming party, Lindsay's friend from another school, Ashleigh, was thier. All the boys love Ashleigh. Im so jealous of her. Im kind of fat, and they were forcing me in the pool. I just said that I had my period. Ashleigh calls out "I hate fat people." Everyone always does that to me and I neved know what to do. Any ideas?
It seems to me, Ashleigh (and everyone else that does this to you), is extremely trashy and rude to a person's feelings. Try to not let it get to you. Everyone has flaws your just courteous not to point them out. You could stand up for yourself and say something like, "Maybe I am fat, but at least I have the class not to point out people's flaws." That might seem like a waste of energy, so you can choose to ignore it or say something. It's up to you. Seriously, don't let it get to you, it's not worth it. Hope this helps and feel better.
-cindy
k i got this friend we been friends since school. Then a found out she lied to me about tons of stuff. During summer break she calls me to tell me she was sorry. We are friends kinda. Do you think I made a mistake by taking her out.
Lying is one of my major pet peeves but I also believe in second chances. How will she ever be able to try and make it up to you? I don't think you made a mistake, I personally think you are a strong person to be able to forgive her. After all, God wouldn't have created erasers if we weren't supposed to make mistakes. Hope this helps.
-cindy
ok well a couple of days ago i put on perfectly clean underwear and at the end of the day it looked like i had gotten my period. i havent gotten my period yet so i thought i was starting to get it. so the next day i didnt think i got it, so i put new perfectly clean underwear and it did the same thing. like it had little redish brownish stains on it. so then the next day i still didnt put a pad on and i put perfectly clean underwear and nothing showed up on it or whatever. is this normal? like it was for 2 days that i got those little stains on my underwear now it stopped. is this a sign that im getting my period soon? does it usually do this?
thanks im advance.
p.s.-sorry it was so long
You are probably just spotting, most girls spot before they get there period (minimal blood). You period is probably coming soon as well. Next time, just wear pantyliners or a pad, that way you'll be safe if it becomes heavier as periods do, and your underwear won't have stains. Hope this helps.
-cindy
Does anyone know of a workout i can do with fun excersizes like riding a bike ...but in a 2 hour time period..But i can do any swimming i hate it, thanks alot XOXOX
I don't know what kind of workouts you're looking for, but here are some things you could do to make a workout more exciting.
1)take a bike ride or run by the beach
2)take a class (yoga, pilates, ect) and change it every so often so you won't get bored
3)play sports (soccer, basketball, tennis are all great fitness activities)
4)rollerblade
5)go clubbing/dancing (it's a great workout)
Hope this helps.
-cindy
Does anyone know where i can go to a website and put in my height weight and age so i can find out if i am overweight?
This website is perfect for finding out your bmi.
http://www.cdc.gov/nccdphp/dnpa/bmi/index.htm
Hope this helps.
-cindy
hey !
if i run for about an hour a day for maybe 5 or 6 days [[yes-i do stretch and take precautions and make shure i am fully hydrated]] how long do you think until i will lose 5 pounds?
thank you!
It's great that you're trying to get into shape, but you also have to make sure you eat healthy as well. Make sure you cut back on the sweets and fatty foods and up your fruit and vegetable intake. If you eat healthy and exercise your five pounds should be gone within 2-3 weeks. Hope this helps and good luck.
-cindy
I'm going away for 5 days on Sunday. I have no idea how much to pack! I never pack enough and I run out of clothes by like the 3rd day! I don't want that to happen again!! It's going to be REALLY warm even at night so I dont need any long sleeved shirts. How many shirts, shorts, etc should I bring? I need a list please! If you were going away for 5 days what would you bring?? Please help!!! Lists only please.
Here's what I would pack.
-5 pairs of shorts
-3 skirts
-10-12 tops
-1 sweatshirt (just in case it gets chilly)
-1 pair of jeans
-1 pair of comfy pants (just in case it gets cold)
-a few pairs of flip flops
-underwear for each day
-a few bras
-3 swimsuits
-1 pair of gym shoes
Hope this helps and have a good trip.
-cindy
How do you kiss? How do you know if your a good kisser? No slopy wet ones and dont say if you can tie something with your toung or unwrape anything with your tounge.Also i wanna kiss my boyfriend how would i make a move what would be a cute way also it has to be sitting down because hes taller than me thanx
Try this sight.
http://www.kissingbooth.com/how_to_kiss.htm
Hope this helps.
-cindy
Hey! School will be starting soon and I want to start off a new year, fresh, organized, and fun. Mostly organized. Any tips?
FRESH::
a)I have to agree with the person below me and suggest making new friends. Just be friendly and sweet, and everyone will love you. Don't forget your old friends, but you don't have to cling to them either.
b)Get a new haircut to start off the school year. Ask your hairdresser what would look best with your face type, or pick a 'do you love off your fav. celebrity.
c)Pamper yourself. There's nothing better than pampering yourself when getting a fresh start. Go in for a manicure/pedicure, maybe a facial and massage or take a relaxing bubble bath. You can't go wrong.
d)Go shopping. What girls do best. Buy a bunch of cute new clothes for back to school. Make sure you buy clothes that fit your body type, that way you'll feel sexy in them.
ORGANIZED::
a)Clean your room. Go through your desk, drawers, closets, ect. I know this might be a hard and long tast but try pacing it. For example, conquer your closet one day, going through things you no longer wear or things that don't fit (that way you'll have space for new clothes). Another day, go through your desk, getting rid of old papers and things you won't need. If you do it in small parts, it won't be as overwhelming. After you accomplish this task, you will feel so much better.
b)Go out and buy new folders, pens, pencils, spirals, binders, markers, dividers, ect. Label things according to what they are, for example, have a sections or different folders or spirals for homework, math, history, ect. After everything is set up nicely, vow to keep it that way. If you put things in there right place, you will not only be able to find them better but you will be more organized and stress-free.
FUN::
a)Make plans for something to do each weekend. Even if you feel ridiculous planning ahead, things can be changed and flexible. Also, even if your schedule seems busy, it's better to be busy than bored, so if you plan ahead, you know you'll have things to do. Also, make sure you are social and hang with friends, that way, your weekends will never be dull. Plan fun trips to places like malls or amusement parks and you'll have a blast.
Hope this helps and have a great year. :)
-cindy
Alright, i just got a puppy, and hes 7 weeks old, hes a golden doodle mix (golden retriever/poodle), and he humps his blanket...and other random objects...hes only 7 WEEKS old...is that normal?
any advice you have, i'd appreciate!
thanks
It's normal. Just tell him to stop whenever he does it, that way he will know he is doing something wrong and it should happen less. Hope this helps.
-cindy
okiay, i'm gonna b blunt about it,
can you go pee with a tampon in?
Of course you can. Hope this helps.
-cindy
Wearing a thong will make me feel sexy around guys i know im only 13 but just about everyone wears a thong in my school that my age. Should i just go off and buy one or should i tell my mom i want one. Im afraid shell think im a slut because she dosent want me to date yet but i do behind her back.
I went through this as well. I personally would just tell your mom you want to wear thongs. When you are underwear shopping, just tell your mom that you don't want underwear lines to show because you think it's tacky or something. Tell her it makes you feel self-concious and you think underwear lines ruin an outfit. She can't think your a slut for wanting to look good. Hope this helps.
-cindy