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Fat People
Today I went to my friend Lindsay's party. It was a swimming party, Lindsay's friend from another school, Ashleigh, was thier. All the boys love Ashleigh. Im so jealous of her. Im kind of fat, and they were forcing me in the pool. I just said that I had my period. Ashleigh calls out "I hate fat people." Everyone always does that to me and I neved know what to do. Any ideas?
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Hello, I think that she or they are not real friends if they call you fat ect. we should be happy when we are around friends.
your new friend Faitheb
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Well you just have to except the fact that some people in this world are very mean.You need to find a good friend to help you get out of tricky situations.Maybe you could also try eating heakthier foods and if you believe in yourself you can loose a lot of weight by dieting and working out!
~Erin(fargo)
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WOW THATS MESSED UP! the next time someone says that to you be like I HATE PEOPLE WHO GET IN MY BUSINESS. IF I WANT TO BE FAT I CAN BE FAT ITS MY LIFE GROW THE HELL UP AND STOP ACTING LIKE ITS YOUR PROBLEM. Don't let them see that it makes you really upset because they will keep doing it to you. People are assholes. If they were true friends they would shut up and leave you alone. Maybe you have some weight, but its more to love lol. Tell them to screw off and shove it. Its not their body and not their business!
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AH! Ive been in the same situation, becuase Im kinda fat myself.But the best thing to do , is try a summer diet, or one when school starts again.
Have yourself a goal, of say 10 pounds, and then try to exercise maybe 15-30 minutes a day and have healthier eating habbits. But about being jealous of Ashleigh, I get jealous alot too. But if someone is going to be mean , like she is, then you shouldnt be jealous of someone mean becuase one day she will probably not being so great. So good luck!
--Kendra
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It seems to me, Ashleigh (and everyone else that does this to you), is extremely trashy and rude to a person's feelings. Try to not let it get to you. Everyone has flaws your just courteous not to point them out. You could stand up for yourself and say something like, "Maybe I am fat, but at least I have the class not to point out people's flaws." That might seem like a waste of energy, so you can choose to ignore it or say something. It's up to you. Seriously, don't let it get to you, it's not worth it. Hope this helps and feel better.
-cindy <3
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I'm sorry but that Ashleigh girl sounds like a bitch. even though she probably wasn't talking about you in particular, that's still ignorant and superificial. forget about her. and don't worry - you're probably fine the way you are and don't let other people bring you down. focus on the good things about yourself (like maybe you have really nice hair, or a pretty face, or nice teeth or something) and don't worry so much about the negatives. i don't know you, but who cares if you have a couple extra pounds? if you're really worried about it, you could start exersizing or eating differently (drop one in my inbox if you have any questions about that) but if not, it's up to you. don't worry about rude people like ashleigh and learn to love yourself. you probably have many good traits that people love about you :) good luck with everything and if you need anything else, drop one in my inbox.
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You should tell Lindsay that you can't be around Ashleigh anymore because she was being disrespectful,that she should talk to her about having some manners because it seems that she is not well educated,it's not right to make fun of others it's just so wrong.You're better than her you want to know why because she has like no life just making fun of others like a little brat and you will be a professional one day don't you worry she'll one day be suffering while you will be having a blast of a wonderful day.
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Ugh I seriously hate people are like that. Just tell them to screw off. Or walk away. haha if it was me i would have probally said something mean back to her and embarresed her right back. Most of the time I ignore things like that and just hang out with my friends and have fun not caring what people think or say.:]♥
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