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14/m

Ok..Me and this girl I like have been friends for about a year and a half. She used to think I was weird and what not, but now she's like my sister. But the thing is...I like her. But I'm not sure if she does...She tells me how sweet I'am and that anygirl would be lucky to go out with me...But she also gives me nicknames and what not (none of them are bad) and I'm not sure if she likes me or not..You think she does? Thanks in advance...

Hmm it sounds alot to me like she does like you.
Ive been in that situation many times ,[im a girl though]
Usually, us girls do like the guy.
But boys play so many games that we dont know if they like us back or not.
Most likely if she devotes her time to talking to you and stuff then she likes you.
If someone asks her if she likes you and she says no, she could still like you but not want anyone to know.
The reason she might not want anyone to know is because she might be scared you dont like her and she doesnt want you to get weirded out.
Honestly, if I were you i'd either make a move or let the move make itself ;; which means keep it at how you are now and then let the relationship come into place naturally.
But keep that string of hope that she likes you, im prtety sure she does :]

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What is so much better about a Chi straightener than one you would buy cheap? I'm debating if I should get a Chi but I don't know much about it.

I love my chi,its the best striaghter my parents have ever bought for me.Dont buy a cheap one,there is a huge difference.Its worth spending 150 dollers instead of buy a new one 3 times a year.
- Alex

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i'm 14/f. i weigh like 134 or something like that. i'm like 5,2. & my goal is to be 120 by june 1st. first of all i CAN'T run?! i don't know i have asthma, and i just can't do it. and i don't know the meaning of eating healthy. i ALWAYS eat mcdonalds! uhh. is there anything i can do? i wanna loose weight + shape up my stomache, and thighs. (and get rid of cellulite, uhh.) i'll try my HARDEST to limit the mcdonald's. any advice? tysm. :)

okay you defenitly should not eat mcdonalds!
try to eat salads (there actually really good)
if u dont really like salads think of stufff you like exp: apples stuff like that and put it on lettuce. and wraps are good to
maybe you could swim but you need to find something physical to do

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h0w l0ng sh0uld iit take 4 me t0 cum if my b/f is fingering me?

It ALL depends on you babycakes.
Theres no set time, everyones different lol.
Sorry I couldnt help !

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ok ive had a crush on this guy and i didnt even know i was that obvious but obviously he found out, and he told one of my good friends whos practically neighbors with him that he didnt like me and only liked blonde girls. now im confused.. because i didnt even tell that many people, and the people i told, like more than half of them didnt even know the kid (they were in different teams) and the others i know wouldnt tell. otherwise.. how would he have known? also how would i act tomorrow? my mom said to act like myself but its kinda awkward since now i know. should i just act like nothing happened? im new at this, lol. like last year the same thing happened too, only i knew i was being really obvious, so it ended up with the guy knowing i liked him too. this is kinda a.. um flexible answer so just give me the best advice you got for my situation.

Okay if a guy say he only likes blonde girls,get over him fast.Thats so shallow,that means he only likes girls for what they look like.Do you really want that? But tomorrow when you see him smile at him,but act casual.And about the whole "how did he fnd out situation?" even if you told people on a different team,one of the people might of told another person and then that person told him blahh and it continues.

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hiiii.
well i just want to know if u guys think this is okay.
well my boyfriend and i have been dating for about 2 months now. and well he tells me he love me. isnt it kind of early. i say it back but i dont know. I really doo like himm a lot i think i love him. but do u guys think we should be saying this already. plizz help me. Im confused.

"i love yous" are always given to the opposite person way to soon.Love takes more than two months maybe even years.He may love you but it seems a little to soon.Does he actully mean it?

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ive gained alot of weight in the last few weeks.
I really dont like it,
whats some good ways to exersise, my mom has a tredmile i could run, but for how long??
and whats some healthy things to eat, and when how every so often?

Running is good,and run as long as you can the more you sweat the more you burn.My parents have a Elliptical Machine,it works your arms,legs,and abs basically your whole body.They have them at like all the gyms also.And about the eating,try staying from sugary foods,natural sugar is good for you.Stay away from junkfoods.If you want to diet,I don't know if you have ever heard of it but I was on the "south beach diet" for a while.

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ok well i have 10 hours of sleep everyday but two years ago I was depressed for a week and got these bags under my eye but then my sleep pattern went to normal (sleeping gets rid of the bangs..) but it's been 2 years now and it still hasn't gone away and I'm 13 so I don't think i should be getting it right now what's wrong with me and are there any natural ways to hlep this? im poor and female

Wet tea bags and put them under your eyes.

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hey im 14/f
okay so. Im part asian, well mostly asian. i have brown hair and grayish eyes. my best feature is my eyes. but i have one problem. My nose is not extremely flat but its like a widish asian nose. and it does not go along with the rest of my face.

i was wondering if there is any makeup tricks to make my nose look slimmer and not as wide looking.


THANKS SO MUCH

Don't use foundation,it causes blackheads believe it or not.Wear powder.If your eyes are your best feature then you should wear a lighter eye color of eyeshadow,but dont over do it. And if you wear blush,wear very little.

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well i asked u the question if i was fat a couple questions down.

u told me that it sorta depends on my height [if im fat or not]

well my height is 5'4

so wats up doc?

am i fat?

Sorry,it depends on your weight and height.
If your 5'4 you should weigh around 120.

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what happens if you swallow cum?

nothing at all.

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Ive been dating this boy for 5 months & hes great, lil shy at school but at home hes amazing. Like at school he would never kiss me, thats just the way he is at school i dont really mind but is there anyway i can make him be more open during school?

Boys are always gonna be shy in front of their friends because at school thats where all the reputation is,Since everyone is watching him its gonna make him feel pressured and it will be harder to do more stuff.
Tell him that you want him to be a LITTLE more open at school, but he doesnt have to go ALL the way yet.
When you start off a little more open, it could lead to him being WAY more open.
If you see what Im saying, lol.
Also tell him that it doesnt matter what other people think,unless he cares alot about that.
But dont worry about him not being so open, as long as hes TRULY an amazing person it doesnt matter how he acts in front of his friends because all guys do that, no matter how tough they act ,they probably have a soft side at home :]

--Kendra

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whats the diffrence between cum and sperm?

Cum and sperm are the same thing trust me.
They just like different fancy terms lol


--Kendra

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well i havent measured my weight in a long time [not that long] but from wut i rememebr i weighed like around 110 or 115

and every1 says "oh u need to loose a couple pounds

cause my stomach, [if i dont suck it in] buldges out, but not that much cuz i lost sum weight since last year

my friends say ive gotten skinnier

but my friends DONT kno how to sugar coat things alittle so everytime they saay "no offense blah blah blah blah..... it hurts me

i have low self esteem since my last bf

he treated me like sh**

do you think that i weigh too much??

=/

Not at all!
your weight sounds perfect, depending on your height.
Dont listen to your friends, they are comparing you to a super model.
You gotta realize , you have beautiful features they dont have.
I have a low self esteem too, but if your gonna have one , you might as well try and enjoy it as much as possible.
Meaning, if they are gonna make fun of you whether you loose weight or not, do whatever you want.
Its all up to you because they have no say in what YOU should do with YOUR body.
So tell them that, and tell them if they are gonna complain then they dont have to be your friends.
Because friends arent there to make you feel worse, they are there togive you confidence.

--Kendra

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ok im not that fat i weigh 100 pounds and im 5'5
im 15 years old though i do want to shed a couple pounds
wight isnt the issue what im aiming for is a healthier lifesyle
my questions:
what excersice burns more calories

how do you know how many calories you are losing

how can you shed some inches and keep them off

if and when yu drink green tea does it temporarily boost your metabolism or does it just make your metabolism faster than it already is ?

do sit ups reduce inches or do they just build muscles

i have some gronchy cellulite under my ribby cage and above my belly bbutton *that needs to go
*how
thanx in advance ....
(no im not anorexic ppl that say tha are so anoying uggh!.)
i want to live a healthier lifestyle
and im not where i physically want to be
*keep it zen baby !
thanx again in advance!

Alright uh your like 20 pounds underweight.
I'm 5'6 and i weigh 127 pounds.
and i'm not fat you a
if you wanna get healthy though,try taking a vitiam everyday.Stay away from soda
sit ups- make you fattier because there pushing out your musles.And i also agree with one of the girls.DANCE WILL GET YOU INTO SHAPE.Along with running and any other sport.
And to the girl below me she is not classified as anorexic or however you spell it.
Sometimes people are just naturally skinny




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what is some fun stuff that I can do to my boyfriend to make him feel good

scarrable,any kind of card game.

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Hey yeah so I kinda like this boy. And he knows that I kinda like him,because he kinda likes me. And liek well today was my b-day and i was hangin out with some guy friends well when we were walkin alone he kissed me for my *birthday And like I like him but I dont know. I heard that he likes 2 other girls...his ex and my friend!
what should I doo ?

I would ask him about it.If he likes two other girls and you ask him about it,he will tell you.
But if it gets to you,I wouldn't let it. Act like it doesn't matter and push him into liking you instead of liking the other two girls or whatever.Hope ive helped !
alex

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im not a huge girlie girl. i just like looking nice from time to time..so i like hco and a&f (hollister and abercrombie & fitch) but i have like 36cs for boobs and i was wondering..is it possible to wear their tank tops? like is there a certain way i can wear their tank tops without my boobs like busting out? haha thanks so much

Hahah I know how you feel.I'm a 36b and my boobs are always falling out of those tanktops.
Thats why I layer my tanktops.I wear like one underneath the other one so my boobs dont bust out.hope ive helped !
Alex

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There's this strapless dress I want to wear.
How do people have the confidence to wear them? there's only one zipper in the back that could go down and your dress would slip or if someone tugged the bottom it would go down! And worse is that I have small boobs so it'd prob won't hold up. Help!

Its better to be smaller in that area wearing a strapless dress,only because you dont feel like your gunna fall out of it.And i'm sure nobody is going to tugg the bottom of your dress and make the zipper go down.
I'm sure it will look great on you!
Alex

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Well, kendra. you say most guys are assholes, no? well....most of my friends are girls. and they dont think im an asshole. you say most guys are assholes. or is it just that most of the guys you know are assholes? cause there is a very large majority of the guys that are polite. so your statement is a little biased. thats all. no comments

i know.
Well, they all can be assholes sooner or later.
But whos this

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