hiiii.
well i just want to know if u guys think this is okay.
well my boyfriend and i have been dating for about 2 months now. and well he tells me he love me. isnt it kind of early. i say it back but i dont know. I really doo like himm a lot i think i love him. but do u guys think we should be saying this already. plizz help me. Im confused.
Additional info, added Sunday March 4 2007, 11:03 pm: I really love him but my best friend told me that i shouldnt say i love you that it was too fast.
what do you think?. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? CourtneyGlynne answered Tuesday March 6 2007, 5:09 pm: Love is a funny thing. Sometimes it can take years to love someone, sometimes only months. It really depends on the person, how much time you spend with them, and whether you're able to differentiate between love, like, and lust. But...if you have to question yourself on whether you love him or it's too soon to be saying it to eachother...then it definantly is too soon.
Alexandkendra answered Monday March 5 2007, 12:16 pm: "i love yous" are always given to the opposite person way to soon.Love takes more than two months maybe even years.He may love you but it seems a little to soon.Does he actully mean it? [ Alexandkendra's advice column | Ask Alexandkendra A Question ]
luvbug555 answered Monday March 5 2007, 1:17 am: if your in love, then who cares how long its been? i think your friend is jelous. if your in love with hinm then say you love him! sont stress about it
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Depressed_Poet answered Sunday March 4 2007, 11:14 pm: Ehh... I dunno if it's true or not. No one can tell you what you feel because only you can experience it! But I think it's way too early... that's like picking out a wedding cake on the first date or something. Sorry, lol
I guess what I'm trying to say is you should probably wait to say "I love you!" because two months of dating just doesn't cover much. By that time, you know what makes each other tick, what makes them laugh, and what makes them happy. But you don't really know much else. So the next time he says it, if you feel that emotion come right out and say it! Be open. But if you're really not sure then talk to him about it. He'll understand if he really loves you, so you have nothing to prove. But... then again there are several ways to view this situation, either view it as too soon (like I did) or say that love has no time limits or goals to reach for your emotions... which also makes sense but it takes more time I would think to really fall in love. But anything can happen... but there is a big difference between liking him a lot and loving him. So think it through and make sure you know. And trust me, when you're in love you just KNOW it. You don't have to come on to advicenators to ask opinions.
~ Hope I helped, Lauren [ Depressed_Poet's advice column | Ask Depressed_Poet A Question ]
bLue_in_tHe_faCe answered Sunday March 4 2007, 10:47 pm: Time doesn't matter if he really means it. Who knows, maybe he liked you before you guys started going out and fell inlove with you before that. If its true, thats all that matters, right? Don't say it if you don't mean it because you don't want to hand out "I love you"'s to anyone. Hope this helped [ bLue_in_tHe_faCe's advice column | Ask bLue_in_tHe_faCe A Question ]
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