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he doesnt like me.
ok ive had a crush on this guy and i didnt even know i was that obvious but obviously he found out, and he told one of my good friends whos practically neighbors with him that he didnt like me and only liked blonde girls. now im confused.. because i didnt even tell that many people, and the people i told, like more than half of them didnt even know the kid (they were in different teams) and the others i know wouldnt tell. otherwise.. how would he have known? also how would i act tomorrow? my mom said to act like myself but its kinda awkward since now i know. should i just act like nothing happened? im new at this, lol. like last year the same thing happened too, only i knew i was being really obvious, so it ended up with the guy knowing i liked him too. this is kinda a.. um flexible answer so just give me the best advice you got for my situation.
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Okay if a guy say he only likes blonde girls,get over him fast.Thats so shallow,that means he only likes girls for what they look like.Do you really want that? But tomorrow when you see him smile at him,but act casual.And about the whole "how did he fnd out situation?" even if you told people on a different team,one of the people might of told another person and then that person told him blahh and it continues.
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Same exact thing happened. Except my case was bit worse because the guy who found out I liked him happened to be one of my good friend. No clue on how he found out but he told this friend of mine that he didn't like me like that. So next day I was all worried and already feeling awkward but best advice is just ignore the situation as best as you can. Remember, I said ignore the SITUATION, not the guy. That might make it more obvious and might make you seem childish. So just go through a day like normal, even though we both know that inside you might be very nervous because that's how the case is with most girls, including me. But give some time and let things settle down and it might even help to keep you occupied with other things like having friends around you to distract you or read a book or something. Hope this helped!
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I completely agree with the previous collumnist: the fact that he says he only goes for blonde girls tells you something about his personality--seems shallow to me. That said, you could do better anyway. But I do I know you're in a difficult position right now; they don't call it a 'crush' for nothing. It's nerve-wrecking and embarrasing when your crush happens to find out, and especially from other people. Of course there's no way for me to know how he found out.. it could be that he had the feeling himself. But that's not the main issue..
Although I'm now 22, I completely understand how the High School (I'm guessing you're in HS?) environment is. You see the same people all the time, and people make too big a deal about your business. I know what it's like.
But you do have a choice here. Your mom is completely right. You should act yourself, even if it's difficult and awkward. Try ignoring him, being yourself, and above all- try not to bring up the issue, as it can make the situation even more awkward for you. Going about your life and not paying too much attention to these annoyances, can actually be the best advice.
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To answer your first question, someone told him or one of his friends etc, or mabye he just noticed you flirting with him or something. Thats not important.
Tomorrow, act like yourself. Dont bring it up if he doesnt, but don't deny it. Act like it didnt bother you, and it wont. And if he only likes blondes, he sounds like a guy you dont want to be with.
Good luck!
-Abby
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hey okay firstly the fact that he dosnt like you because ur not blond is saying something. hes decided he dosnt want to get to no you because of your hair colour. what kind of decent guy would do that? so i woudlnt bother. however i no when you really like someone that no matter really what someone else says about them never makes a differrence. its what you feel for the person that will help you decide. you only have to options either talk to him about it. or pretend nothing ever happend personally i would pretend nothing ever happend because if he dosnt want to even get to no you thers no point gettin all upset and worked up. your probably a beautiful girl and there is a guy out there that will want you no matter if ur hair was purple. people like that in life arent worth it. so go to school act like it didnt happen. find someone that will want to get to no you!!
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