That is a difficult situation to be in. I don't see why you two shouldn't go out- since there is a mutual attraction, and she already wants to go out with you, you should at least see how things go with her. You even mentioned that you think she's awesome, which is a very good sign. I am sure that you know what kind of a person she is already. Just because she is your best friend's sister, doesn't mean that she is off limits. You aren't doing anything wrong in this situation. I think that you should talk to her about it and let her know that you feel a bit uncomfortable going out with her behind her brother's back, and see how if she is okay with maybe having the two of you explain to her brother that you really like each other and get along well, and that you are interested in seeing each other. You don't have to tell him that you have already been going out, but that you are going to-- but you should definitely talk to her first, and then come to an agreement on how best to let her brother know. It might be awkward for all three of you- but the important thing to remember is that you two like each other in more ways than one, and that nothing should get in the way of your relationship. Your friend will have to accept it... and considering how long you two have known each other, it might be a lot easier for him to do so. Doing anything behind anyone's back is never really the way to go.

I grew up in the LA area, and hey, I made it out alive. All jokes aside, you don't have to worry. Sometimes there are no earthquakes for years, as the answer below mentions, and other times, you might get one or two small earthquakes. The small ones hardly feel like the big earthquakes that you might be thinking of. It's hard to explain what an earthquake feels like...it's basically a big shaking. In LA, there hasn't been a really huge earthquake since January 1994, the Northridge quake, which was scary- it felt like our house (within 20-30 minutes to Northridge) was swaying. I was 9 years old, and it was in the middle of the night. Our whole family went downstairs and sat under the dinner table for a while. So, while it is unpredictable when an earthquake will hit, it is unlikely that something big will happen in the immediate future. And buildings are earthquake safe. If you are concerned, you can read up on earthquake safety tips as a precaution, but don't worry. I wasn't ever scared of encountering an earthquake, and if it does happen, it is usually quick and pretty small....and rare. There are some earthquake fault lines, which is of course why California is known for its earthquakes. But that shouldn't make you feel worried about moving there. Think of it this way- some states in the midwest and south are known for tornadoes and/or thunderstorms, but I don't think that deters people from living there. Nature can be unpredictable, of course, but the chances of encountering something like a major earthquake or tornado aren't THAT big... it might happen, but it's not something you should be totally worried about.

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder." We've all heard it before, and it may seem cliche, but there is a lot of truth in that simple saying. One cannot define beauty. The reason you are feeling down about yourself, is that you are putting beauty into a very narrow category. I understand why you feel this way. You might walk by magazines at the supermarket or newspaper stand, and see models and celebrities all glammed out on on the front cover. You might see girls at school (I know exactly how they can be) dolled up on the runway that is high school. What do these two groups have in common? Well, for starters, "perfect" hair, "perfect" clothes, "perfect" makeup; you get the picture. But why should they be the only ones considered pretty? What about you?

By the sounds of it, you are down-to-earth. A lot of popular girls who constantly get praised for being so pretty, practically fall in love with their reflection in the mirror- they don't necessarily have their doubts about being pretty. And then you get the rest of us, who sometimes question if we are pretty or not, because we don't necessarily fall into the narrow category of "beauty," that society has set up (and high school or middle school being a product of this, of course). You know what? Over the years I have realized that confidence is the most important factor, just like the first columnist said. Once you feel good about yourself, you will stop constantly having doubts about your beauty. And really, it absolutely is what is on the inside that counts. If you are confident in who you are, you can feel pretty anytime. You will realize that it's more than what's on the surface that matters.

I am sure that you are a pretty girl; you might be at an awkward age, in which case it is normal to feel that way. I felt that way too in middle school and part of high school. When I was 12, our English teacher was passing out our class photos, and she said something about how I looked nice in my picture, and this girl squinted, and said, "no," as in --no, she doesn't. Trust me, I know how cruel girls can be. And i know where they are getting their ideas. That might be part of the reason you don't feel pretty. But you know what- by feeling that way, you are giving into their distorted perception of beauty. Just understand that you are beautiful. No body can or should make you feel otherwise. Remember, as the first columnist mentioned, confidence is beautiful. And as you grow, you will come to feel at one with your true self, and care far less about what other people think, your looks included. I am sure that you have a lot to offer, on the outside and inside. Do not ever change yourself for other people, whether it is to act a certain way, or look a certain way. In the end, you are only comfortable with being YOU. I agree with the first answer- if you want to do something for yourself looks-wise, then make sure to only do it for yourself, and not just to impress everyone. But remember- if you look the world in the face, and feel comfortable with yourself, then you will feel beautiful, inside and out.

I completely agree with the answer below- many, if not most guys would find that to be an awesome quality in a girl. For one thing, it would mean not having to be dragged to chick flicks at the movies, and more importantly, it means having a girl who might actually have taste in film. I love mob flicks, dark comedies, dramas, independent/foreign films, etc., but I dread chick flicks-- and I'm a girl too. So nothing wrong with that. One of my friends ( a guy) is really into film, and we could go on and on talking about it...one common denominator: Hollywood blockbuster flicks bend the concept of love and relationships way out of proportion (you could say that about other things too), mainly to attract viewers, which means more profit. Unfortunately, as you mentioned, the same plot plays out time and again in a "no thinking required" fashion. I think most of us have enjoyed a chick flick or two here and there (mainly the funny ones, or the ones from the 80s, for example), but overall, they are dull and predictable.

If your boyfriend brings it up again, you can let him know that you happen to like mob flicks, and lots of other things, but find chick flicks to be dull and predictable. Just because lots of other girls like chick flicks doesn't mean it's weird for you not to- quite the opposite.

For starters, and as the person below mentioned, stop worrying so much. It is unlikely that you are so addicted to masturbating that it is taking over your life. However, if you feel like ALL you want to do is masturbate ALL the time, and that it is getting in the way of your daily life, then there are things you can do to reduce how often you masturbate. Note that completely stopping masturbating is not only negative, but harmful. It is a normal, human urge to want to have sexual release (e.g., being horny), and masturbation in a perfectly healthy way to go about it. So, definitely don't stop-- i mean, if you do, you're sexually starving yourself. If you masturbate everyday, that's fine. If you do it several times a day, and it's all you want to do, and is getting in the way of life....then you can try doing other things to get your mind off it. Go out, do some homework/studying, take part in some sort of hobby, etc., whatever you want to do to take your mind off things.

If, however, you feel like you might just have some sort of a legitimate addiction to masturbating (in the same way as, say, compulsive gambling, drinking, drugs, etc.), then there is help.. a quick google search helped me find this site:

http://www.teengrowth.com/index.cfm?action=info_advice&ID_Advice=1706

I am sure that there are good links/contacts listed on that site.

But unless you feel like you are to masturbating, what a chain smoker is to cigarrettes, you might not have a serious problem. It is held that masturbating every day is okay, and that it only becomes an addiction when it interferes with daily life and activities, and it's almost all you think about. Think of it this way: if you like to socially have a few drinks with friends once in a while, you are not an alcoholic...but if you constantly drink to dull the pain/run away from life, are extremely drunk a lot of the time-- in other words, alcohol runs your life, then you are an alcoholic. So how this ties in- people masturbate, it's part of life. If you masturbate every day/every couple days or so, simply for sexual release, you're fine. But when masturbating become a compulsion, or addiction (for different reasons), and is something you do several times a day, whenever you can--and at the expense of other activities, then you might need to seek help.

There is nothing gross about your question, so don't worry about that. Anything that appears abnormal should be checked out- having blood in your poop, is certainly abnormal. There are too many possible complications for me to list- but that could be a sign of a potentially serious condition. The only person that can diagnose your symptoms is the doctor. So, don't be shy, and don't hold back. Go tell your parents- it might seem embarrassing, but it really isn't; they are only there to help you. Definitely see the doctor right away- they might have to do a couple tests, and probably even take a sample of your stool. This could be nothing at all, or a sign of some sort of infection, for example. No body on any internet site can diagnose anything. You will have to first let your parents know, and then go with them to the doctor's office to get everything checked out. Best of luck.

* To add, some of the major signs of an infection or illness presents itself in your urine or feces (pee or poop, just to not sound so much like a doctor, haha), which is why doctor's sometimes ask patients if they have noticed anything while going to the bathroom. So, please get this checked out right away- the doctor, if needed, can prescribe medication or antibiotics, or let you know what, if anything, needs to be done.

(a few years ago, i had to stay in the hospital for a week, after having my appedix removed (it burst, and there was a big infection)...the doctors and nurses tested my pee and poop literally every day, and monitored any changes. Just to let you know how important it is for your pee and poop to appear normal).

I know how strange it is for you to have come across your dad's porn, but it is his right to watch it, and as long as he isn't absolutely addicted to it, there's nothing wrong with it. And I know he's your dad, but he really isn't old at all- actually quite young, especially since there isn't a big age difference between the two of you. Regardless, he has a right to watch porn in his free time, and as difficult as it might seem, you're going to have to let it be. Forget about it- and don't look through it- it's really a privacy issue as well. It certainly is not alright for you to watch his porn. Think of how upset you would be if your dad found your porn and watched it behind your back (and as the columnist below mentioned, you do have to be 18+ to legally access porn). And to add, it is perfectly fine for him to watch porn- he is an adult, and he is fully capable of making his own decisions, including watching porn. So, bottom line, leave it to him- don't question it, and accept the fact that he is a grown man, and grown men sometimes enjoy "grown up" things.

Yes, shaving does cause pigmentation in the underarm area, particularly if you have darker hair. It can get worse if you shave frequently. The best way to get rid of pigmentation is to start waxing instead. Not only will the skin appear much lighter, but your hair will grow in thinner overtime, and your skin will feel much smoother. I generally alternate between shaving and waxing. If I absolutely have to wear a nice top while going out, for example, I just go ahead and shave. But i try to wax as much as possible, since it makes my underarms look much smoother and I don't have to worry about the hair growing in too quickly (or having stubble, for that matter). So, I would recommend waxing- you can get waxing strips, or go to a salon, if you don't want to do it yourself. You will notice a big difference.

Most likely, you will be able to transfer money online. Once you sign on to your online banking account, there is tab at the top of the site, "transfers." Once you click on it, there is a drop down menu for "from" (account), and "to"...so you just choose which account you want to transfer from and to. Right below that, you enter in the exact amount, and that you want a one-time transfer (the first option). The good thing is that once you have entered the information, you can confirm everything before you actually go ahead with the transfer.

If you don't have an online account, I highly recommend you get one- it's easy. You can check your balance and pay bills online as well. If you would rather not transfer money online, you can always go to the bank and have them do it for you. You can also transfer money between accounts at the ATM, by choosing- transfer money, or something along those lines.

No, that is definitely not how people should treat their girlfriends in any serious relationship. Something has to be wrong, since he is no longer including you in some important events and is constantly making excuses for why he can't go out with you. A number of things could be going on, and unless you confront him about the issues you just mentioned, there is no way of knowing. He might have lost interest in you due to the long distance (but LA to SF is not REALLY long distance, come to think of it). He might have met someone else, and is hiding it from you.. but you should not assume anything. You need to talk to him, preferably in person, and sort things out. He is not taking you, or the relationship, seriously. That is unacceptable.

If the relationship were going well, he would be excited to see you, and to include you in as many events as possible. He would make much more of an effort to make you feel loved and wanted. By the sound of it, he is doing neither. You will need to let him know--calmly, but firmly-- that you feel that things have not been going so well- that he does not include you in events (white coat ceremony), or make an effort to try to visit you when he can...and that basically, it seems that he is not interested and is not making an effort. But in the end, you need to let him know exactly how you feel, and what's bothering you, whichever way you want to put it. Do not let this turn into a fight, but don't be a pushover either. Try to see what's going on- if he is not interested in continuing with the relationship, if he met someone else, etc.. In the end, you will have to do what is right for yourself. If you feel like he continues to make you feel this way without putting an effort into improving the relationship, you might just have to step away and move on.

Unfortunately, those two scumbags are the only ones who know exactly what happened, since you were supposedly too drunk to remember anything. How drunk were you, really? They could have slipped something in your drink. Do not keep this to yourself- tell a trusted adult, or at least a nurse who can guide you in the right direction. If they did, in fact, even TRY to rape you, they can be arrested.

Now, down to the details. Do you honestly think that someone who has a history of raping/trying to rape girls is going to be honest with you? Saying that they would not try anything, since they didn't have a condom, is total bullshit. Nothing would get in their way- they don't give half a shit about you. Also, a HUGE warning sign is that these two tried to rape your friend before at a party- "supposedly??" NO. Shit like that does not "supposedly" happen.

LISTEN. You HAVE to do the following- don't think that you can put all this behind you, and that it won't bother you years down the line. It can, and it will. What you have to do now, is look after yourself. You cannot allow them to get away with their bullshit- it can happen to other girls too, you know.

so,:

1) File a police report immediately. Any and all details you have can help (i.e., their age, names, what they look like, what gym you saw them at, and what do you remember from that night). Think long and hard about ALL the details you can possibly think of, and do NOT keep anything to yourself.

2) Please, if you haven't already, DO NOT wash yourself down there just yet. Whatever you have with you can possibly help- clothes, etc., Go to a gyno/doctor/nurse or whatever, get thoroughly examined. They can find traces of semen as supporting evidence, cause honey, these two might have raped you.

3) Tell someone- a counselor, trusted parent/adult, friend. You need support. You might be in denial or shock now, but this might come back to hurt you down the line.

4) Go get plan B (morning after pill at a clinic or planned parenthood- better safe than sorry)- it is effective up to 3 days after unprotected sex. Then, assuming this is a recent incident, wait about 2 weeks, and go get a pregnancy test at the doctor's office, gyno., or planned parenthood or other free clinic.

5) Get screened for STD's- no matter how worried/scared you are. If you got something, it might not even have symptoms, and can cause irreversible damage to your reproductive organs if left untreated. Get tested for Gonorrhea, Chlamydia, Herpes, etc...all you have to do is go to planned parenthood or your gyno, and ask for STD screening- they'll ask some questions, and do a swab and urine test.

6) After 6 months, GO get tested for HIV- with guys like them, you never know. Many clinics offer free testing.

You do not know anything about these guys aside from the fact that they're 18 and in college. All the warning signs indicate that you may very well have been raped: they tried to rape your friend (people don't just make that shit up), you feel sore down there---- and honey, guys like them, why would they care about only fingering you?? they were with you PURELY for their OWN benefit---getting laid. , you felt SORE. Please wake up, you were probably raped. This is a good commentary on an online newspaper (Guardian, UK), by a woman who was raped, and too drunk/traumatized:

http://www.guardian.co.uk/lifeandstyle/2009/may/16/experience-rape

I know how hard this is on you, but you have to do something (well, lots of things). Seriously, if it helps, make a checklist, or even print out this advice. Literally do everything that I suggested, one by one. Think of it this way: if you keep this to yourself, you are only allowing them, and guys like them, to get away with their shit...which means more girls to screw over. For future reference- avoid sketchy guys like them AT ALL COSTS. They're only bad news.

That is an interesting topic for an essay. I cannot outline everything for you, but I can give you some suggestions that might help you. Try to brainstorm reasons why shoplifting is a bad idea- jot down reasons on a piece of paper, and then go through your list any narrow it down to a few really important things you can write about. For each of those reasons, write down maybe a couple of points/examples that help to strengthen your argument. For example, if you were to write that shoplifting is bad because it is against the law, you could give a couple of consequences, such as prison time, lawyer fees, bail, etc. Think of some important reasons- legal, moral, etc.., and ellaborate on those.

As for how you can make better decisions, that is a hard one.. try to think of some things yourself, ie.: what could you do instead of shoplifting, how you'd be a better person/citizen by not shoplifting, etc.. I think a good way to organize your essay would be to start of with an introduction that briefly introduces why shoplifting is a bad idea (without going into too much detail) and just briefly mention that avoiding shoplifting is the better and more moral option (or something like that). You could divide your essay by writing maybe a couple paragraphs (the body) on the negative aspects of shoplifting, and the last body paragraph should discuss how to make better decisions. Your conclusion should very briefly tie together whatever you mention in your essay- rather than introducing new ideas, it should only restate and reinforce what has already been said.

Before starting, it would be a really good idea to make a brief outline of your essay- it helps organize your thoughts so you can write a coherent essay. You can organize according to paragraph (ie., intro, paragraph 1, 2., etc., conclusion), and for each section, make bullet points (main ideas) and sub-points, or examples you will use to strengthen each bullet point (main point). While writing, keep in mind to have good flow (ideas should follow each other logically and sort of blend into each other), and to have enough supporting information to strengthen your essay.

Good luck, and let me know if you have any questions.

I also had a friend like that a while back- she would say rude, sarcastic remarks all the time, indirectly put me down, etc., I thought that was "just how she is," but I learned that she was getting away with being that way because I let her. My mom and sister mentioned they didn't like the way she talked to me- she even talked sarcastically, in a "yeah, no shit" kind of way to my sister, who told me she doesn't like the way she talked to her. I hardly saw her at the time since i was away for college, but when I did see her (that is, when she didn't flake on me), it was always the same. Long story short, I finally came to the realization that I was better off without her- she was just not a good friend (always flaking, making excuses, being rude and sarcastic, etc.).

All of these behaviors, including those of your friend (or rather, "friend"), stem from a deeply rooted insecurity. It's a call for attention; a way of bringing herself up by putting others down. You know it's a problem when you can sense a pattern; you aren't the only one she puts down. Bottom line, there are no excuses for a friend to mistreat another friend. My best friend is a therapist, and she mentioned something that one of her old professors told the class: (something along the lines of: bad friends can be extremely draining, and put a lot of stress on you.- and that ultimately, you're better off cutting out the bad people in your life, if they are totally unwilling to change).

You mentioned that you aren't sure if she's joking or not- putting people down is not a joke, whether she claims to be joking or not. You should have a good talk with her, and tell her upfront that you feel she is putting you down a lot, and that it really bothers and hurts you. See if she is totally stressed out or is going through something very painful that could be causing her to be on edge lately. Maybe she needs someone to talk to. But even then, she should not be treating you this way. You need to make it clear to her that it hurts your feelings, and is not something you are willing to put up with. She might deny it, because sometimes people don't fully realize how hurtful they can be. You still need to firmly (without yelling) address this- otherwise, she will continue with her ways. If she doesn't take it to heart, and continuously puts you down, then you really should re-evaluate the friendship. It isn't worth it for you to feel miserable and put down due to someone else's insecurities. Trust me, I have had a few negative, insecure friends in the past, and have learned that A) they are insecure, and B) i would have to be strong and not put up with their crap. You are young enough where it's understandable for you to be going through these things, but old enough to really take a stand for yourself.

You just have to be patient with her. If she isn't really responding to sex, she is not ready yet. You two have only been dating a few months- she seems like she needs to really get to know you and feel totally comfortable before she takes things further. Of course she felt upset when you told her you would just watch porn and masturbate, since she isn't having sex with you. There is nothing wrong with doing that, but she was right to be bothered when you told her - basically, the message she got from it was that you are not being patient with her.

It is okay to bring these things up with her- it is important. But there is a certain way to go about it. You have to be patient and supportive of her choice- and if you cannot possibly wait, then be honest with yourself, and see if she is really the one you want. If she is, you will have to wait. If not, then maybe you need to move on. Only you know the answer.

Do you guys do other things? Make out? If you guys aren't doing ANYTHING, she might have intimacy issues. You should be honest with her (and also very nice), and ask her if there is any reason why she does not physically take things further- communication is the key to any healthy relationship. You are sexually frustrated, and she may or may not have her own personal issues....the only way to clear things up with her is to talk to her.

You might be over-cleaning your hair. What you described can happen to your hair if you wash it every day- every other day is enough. Also, If your hair looks dull and lifeless, it is probably damaged due to over cleansing, product buildup, hard water buildup, etc., The shampoos you are using are not very good for your hair in the long run, so it might be doing more harm than good. It's very common for damage to the hair to become apparent after months. This might also be due to lack of nutrients..that I can't say for sure. You should take a multivitamin and maybe even a fish oil capsule daily- these, along with a healthy diet and exercise, can help in maintaining the health of your hair. You might also be due for a haircut or trim- you should get a trim every 2-3 months to keep hair healthy.

Overall though, I would recommend sticking to a good shampoo- not HE or Pantene. Try using a natural shampoo, which is free of some damaging chemicals. Or maybe use Neutrogena Clean Shampoo (either moisturizing one, or volumizing- there are two kinds). Those are very good, as are Paul Mitchell products. Just remember, do not over-cleanse your hair, eat right and exercise, use good hair products. If after a while you feel like none of these things help, then maybe talk to a dermatologist, who can recommend some good products for your hair/scalp. Even an internet search can help.

If he starts talking about his dad, how he misses him, etc., it would be a good idea to tell him that you are always there to listen and support him- and that you are very sorry for what happened. You never really get over the death of a parent, especially if it happens when you are young. Because of that, it is difficult for your boyfriend to bring it up; it simply hurts too much to talk about it. Still, it would help him to open up to you about it- it would really help him to have someone to lean on.

At the same time, it isn't really a good idea to bring it up if he isn't really ready to talk about it. He has to be willing to open up- my guess is that it's just a matter of time before he does. Again, what you can do is wait till he brings up his father, and then let him know you are always there to listen to and support him. At that point, asking something like, "would you mind if i asked what happened to him?", would not be rude, especially if you bring it up gently and politely.

Just like the columnist below mentioned, Plan B can seriously mess with your cycle- it's like taking a super high dose of birth control. Chances are, your period is off, and might be for a little while. It wouldn't hurt to wait another week and get a pregnancy test, just to be sure, as plan B is not 100% effective, more like 95% or so...you can never be too sure though. Don't only take a home pregnancy test- go see a gyno., or go to a planned parenthood clinic for a urine test. It's very stressful to think that there is even a slight chance of being pregnant- chances are you aren't, but if even just to ease your mind, go get tested.

I know how much you want to help- it only makes you a good friend to him. But as concerned as you are about his well-being, you cannot push him to do anything; he is the one who needs to make a conscious decision to change, and then do something about it. What you can do, however, is express your concern and worry. Adults, no matter how wrong and troubled they may be, do not want to hear other people tell them what to do or not to do. What he needs is your support. I recommend setting up a time to meet with him, whenever/wherever he wants, so you can let him know how you feel. Just tell him that you understand how hard things must be for him, having to deal with so much at one time...but that it concerns you that he is smoking a lot of weed to deal with his pain. Although weed temporarily dulls emotional pain, it cannot erase what is already done. He needs to understand that he needs to confront what is hurting him in life, instead of ignoring it. You can be a great source of comfort and support for him, if he is willing to talk to you and open up. He will be a lot more likely to turn his life around if he confronts what is bothering him- he can start off by talking to you. If he is completely unwilling to talk to you, however, you can always just make plans with him, without telling him upfront that you need to talk to him (going out for fun, etc.)- -then when the time is right, you can let him know how you feel. Hope it all works for the best.

If I understand correctly, you were only nine years old when you first had sex. Nine. And knowing that nine year-old boys do not have erections, how old was the guy?? Not only is that morally wrong on so many levels- you were still a kid, it's illegal, you (and every other nine-year old) could NOT have possibly been ready for it AT ALL. I am still shocked that I read about a nine year-old having sex.

You are 15 now, and even THAT is too young for many, if not most, teenagers. Sure, teens now are having sex like it's shaking hands, but that does not mean that they're ready. Nope, not even a bit- at least not for the majority. You need to focus on growing up and experiencing life rather than dwelling on when you should be having sex. You can when you are emotionally ready for it. And sorry to break it to you, your question basically implies to me that you are not emotionally mature enough to deal with the risks and responsibilities of having sex.

Please, if you must, talk to a school counselor or trusted adult about this. Don't be pressured into doing things (including sex) that "everyone else" is doing. Just because other kids are doing it does not mean it's okay at that age. And to add, if the experience of having sex at NINE had a negative impact on you emotionally (I will assume it has), talk to a counselor about it. Be safe, and just be a 15 year-old. You are not an adult, so do not try making adult decisions just yet.

I agree with the answer below- popular guys (jocks, pretty boys, etc.) are definitely as (if not more) self-conscious than the rest, but are better at hiding it. They exude this arrogance that makes them appear confident. I cannot say this of all the jocks/pretty boys/popular guys, but I can say that many of them embody these traits.

The reason why so many of these guys APPEAR to have too much confidence, and have such an inflated ego, is that people around them (friends, popular girls/guys, etc.) feed their ego. By making a big deal out of who they are (popular), how they look, what they do, who they date/have dated, etc., people inadvertently make guys like that more and more arrogant overtime. Certain guys are just predisposed to being arrogant, and when people go ga-ga over them for one reason or another, it only fuels the arrogance.

As for why they are so good at wooing every girl...well, I don't know if I can give you a definitive answer (there are probably many). I can say though, that a lot of arrogant guys think they know what girls want and/or want to hear, and they just become better and better at fooling certain girls into thinking that they are in love with them, when all they really want is one thing. Afterall, trying to fool people is an arrogant thing to do. But, as the previous columnist mentioned, guys at that age are pretty much predisposed to wanting sex ALL the time, so I would say that to a certain extent, you might find this wooing thing to be common among a lot of teenage guys. Decent guys do not constantly woo girls to get inside their pants- but arrogant guys tend to do so. Think of it this way: wooing is fooling, and fooling someone is an arrogant act. Arrogant boys do arrogant things.

HELLO (or ciao!), I'm Roya, 25 Female

I am here for no other reason than to give honest, straightforward advice. What I say may not be what you want to hear, but that is not of my concern. My only purpose is to give logical, sound advice, and only when I feel I have something to contribute.

I am probably one of the more random and eclectic people out there, so my interests (and thus, what I like to give advice on) range from music to politics to sex to life to....almost anything, as long as it's deep, meaningful, fun, a little crazy...and a lot like life. So, in short, with my eclectic personality, there's not a whole lot I'm unwilling to answer.

**Bottom line: If I can help out, I am willing to give honest advice.

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