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I ask my sisters something but they will never listen to me.
Everytime I ask my younger sisters (8 and 10) something they never listen to me!!!! WHAT DO I DO??!?!?!?!?!
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It would help to know what kinds of things you ask them. Do you ask them to do things for you? Do you ask how they are doing, what they think about something, etc.? Sometimes younger siblings don't feel like answering back if they feel like you are asking them to do something for you, or if they feel like they are underestimated because of their age. Also, if there is a large age gap or they don't feel that close to you, then they might be more reluctant to answer back.
I think a good idea would be to bring it up with them in a nice, casual way. You could start by saying that you value what they say and want to be closer to them because you love them--they will feel valued. That way, there's a higher chance they will warm up to you. Then maybe in a less direct way, you could ask them whatever it is you plan on asking. You could change your wording to something like "I wonder...." Or even start off by telling them what you think about the topic, and then asking what their opinion is. This takes the pressure off, because you've already gotten your thoughts across. These approaches (changing your wording and talking about your opinion first) might help your sisters feel more comfortable opening up to you. Good luck!
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