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Why do boys go for uglier girls after breakups?
20/f
Every time I broke up with a guy he would date a girl who is much uglier than me,who he spoke ill of and never even paid attention to until after I broke up with them. It happened 3 times already. I'm not conceited or anything but I am good looking and smart and have many qualities,and those girls aren't half the woman I am. But they go for them very shortly after the break up. Like,the last guy I broke up with started dating this girl after barely 3 months since break up. And like I already mentioned,he spoke no nice things of her and barely paid her any heed. To clear things up,I have no feelings for him or any of my exes anymore,it's just that I'm curious about this thing that keeps happening every time I end a relationship.
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Just wanted to answer although already have a few replies. Guys as well as girls tend to go for rebounds to mend their hearts or minds. Maybe these girls started giving him attention and when he was upset, made him feel better at the time. Regardless of what they looked like. Maybe you are the most attractive girl around and hence no one is as pretty as you so a guy has no choice than to date whoever. Men are very visual. As a female, I have the mind of a man I've been told and a lot of my friends have come to me for advice on getting, keeping, and questions on men. Sooo...guys may also put someone down to make you feel better! To make you feel secure that you are the only one and that they don't need anyone, but you cuz all the others are less than you. I think that is sweet. However, he has no choice if he can't have you to go elsewhere...could go on and on. As long as he was with you, he shouldn't have paid any other female attention either so he did what he was supposed to do in that department.
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I wouldn't know whether they are attractive or not but obviously beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Most likely these girls your exes run to are rebounds since they went to them shortly after the break up.
But you never know, they might actually find those girls attractive. They might not be attractive to you, but they are attractive to somebody.
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I can't comment on these other girls being ugly because I personally do not believe there to be such a thing - everyone has their own opinion of what's attractive and what isn't however this sounds like nothing more than your ex's running to someone else on a rebound and this usually happens with the person going to whoever shows them some interest. The fact they might have been more ugly than you is simply a matter of opinion - to you they may have been not as pretty as you but to your ex's (and to others) it may well be the other way around.
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The easiest way to get over someone old is to get under someone new, as the saying goes. If the rebound is less attractive, that's less work they have to put into getting them. Sex feels the same regardless of how the other person looks. It sounds shameless and pathetic, and it is. But that's how it works.
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