Member Since: September 25, 2014
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Last Update: September 25, 2014
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20/f
Every time I broke up with a guy he would date a girl who is much uglier than me,who he spoke ill of and never even paid attention to until after I broke up with them. It happened 3 times already. I'm not conceited or anything but I am good looking and smart and have many qualities,and those girls aren't half the woman I am. But they go for them very shortly after the break up. Like,the last guy I broke up with started dating this girl after barely 3 months since break up. And like I already mentioned,he spoke no nice things of her and barely paid her any heed. To clear things up,I have no feelings for him or any of my exes anymore,it's just that I'm curious about this thing that keeps happening every time I end a relationship. (link)
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Just wanted to answer although already have a few replies. Guys as well as girls tend to go for rebounds to mend their hearts or minds. Maybe these girls started giving him attention and when he was upset, made him feel better at the time. Regardless of what they looked like. Maybe you are the most attractive girl around and hence no one is as pretty as you so a guy has no choice than to date whoever. Men are very visual. As a female, I have the mind of a man I've been told and a lot of my friends have come to me for advice on getting, keeping, and questions on men. Sooo...guys may also put someone down to make you feel better! To make you feel secure that you are the only one and that they don't need anyone, but you cuz all the others are less than you. I think that is sweet. However, he has no choice if he can't have you to go elsewhere...could go on and on. As long as he was with you, he shouldn't have paid any other female attention either so he did what he was supposed to do in that department.
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19/m
So I recently started college about a month ago. I want to try to dress better a young man, right now I wear alot of cargos, t-shirts, sweatshirts.. but I only have so many so I rewear my stuff alot and feel like I'm constantly wearing the same thing every day.
What are some ways to dress better? I want to dress better to help look better just in general, but also cause I want to have variety and to look better for the women.
Where can I go that a student wont break their bank account? What should I look for, for clothing? I feel like if I had a girlfriend she would be able to tell me what women like and what looks good on me, but I don't and I also am terrible with my self esteem and confidence so I have no idea where to start and what does look good, in general I'm pretty lost when it comes to matching, and getting good looking clothes on me haha.
Any tips/advice is helpful and appreciated! :) (link)
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Hi there! I wanted to say that more important than the clothes is the man's attitude when he walks, talks, and the way he carries himself. Doesn't matter what he looks like. You could go to the thrift store and they have brand name clothing and super cheap. Even some days they have 1/2 off too! Just make sure to wash the clothes once you get them and if you can't get to the laundry mat and in college, spray AXe or favorite cologne on it. I love it when my man wears that! What you usually wears seems just fine for a college guy! Cargos, t-shirts, sweatshirts! That's college for you and sounds perfect!
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