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I badly need an advice.
I have this ex boyfriend and his new girlfriend. We broke up 5 months ago and today is their first month together. Actually, they are just reunited. They have been together, before me and I just found it out after we broke up. My ex hide it from me. I'm the one who broke up with him, but then I realize I can't live w/o him so i tried to fix things up but he said he's tired of everything. Many people say that me and the girl have similarities in our appearance (which for me is not true). So I decided to move on and get out of their lives. Recently, the girl is chatting me on Feb, telling me things about them, giving me advices abt relationships, and like telling me straight to my face that I was just a rebound. And then there comes my ex. I already unfriend him on fb but he added me again. Talks to me like nothing happened, he tells me his problems then tells me to keep it a secret, calling me out (but i rejected). He even shows my picture to his friends. Then the girl now is blocking my friends, telling the boy that we are fighting and other bitter things. What should I do with them?
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It's all pointless drama. She's jealous, insecure, ect. It's really something you don't need to be a part of.
So just end things with both of them. Don't message them if they message you. Unfriend him again. Block them if you need to. Just don't talk to them anymore.
You were right in the beginning to move on and get out of their lives. So do just that and don't go back.
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You need to keep your distance from them. Unfortunately, Facebook makes it really easy for people to create drama- even though the contact isn't in-person, it still hurts you. I think that your ex's girlfriend is jealous and manipulative, and is acting out to try to spite you. But the bigger issue is that your boyfriend is not letting go and respecting your boundaries, even when you explicitly unfriended him on FB. In my view, FB is a microcosm of reality; when you unfriend someone, it means you want to end contact. Period. I believe he cares more about the rejection (i.e., You broke up with him and decided to unfriend him) than anything else, and is simply trying to control the situation in his favor.
You know what? He and his new girlfriend are probably better suited to each other: they are both jealous and controlling. You can do much better and you don't need to put up with their immature antics. I suggest you not only unfriend them both, but block them on FB. This will prevent them from finding your profile at all. They will be out of your life, and you can move on.
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I agree, don't have anything to do with either of them. Both are nothing but drama. To prevent them finding you on fb or any other venue, you could make anoter fb account for example, not using your real first and last name so you cant be found by a name hunt Make something up like Heather Rose for a name and only tell everyone else but those two and any other mutual friends who know them of your new name. That way no accident in them finding how to continue to harass you on the net.
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What you should do is make it clear to both of them that you want nothing to do with them. If you have to unfriend them from facebook do it but don't let them back in. Distance yourself from them and they will get the hint.
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