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So, my boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and 2 months. I'm 16 and still a virgin. Hes 17 and isn't but has only done it one other time, we've both talked about doing it several times, but i'm a little insecure and think i'll mess up something or that i'll be betraying my morals. Even though, I got my promise ring, I really want to try at least once. So i don't know what to do. Any help.? (link)
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If you think you are betraying your morals then you should wait for the right time to do it. Whenever you feel ready. The question is "Do YOU want to do it?" If you want to do it and you don't feel pressured into it then do it. But make sure that after it happens you will be able to deal with the consequences.
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I heard on a movie once that if a guy breaks a girls virginity then she'll get emotionally attached to the guy... I was just wondering if it's true and if so then why do they get emotionally attached to the guy and why don't guys get emotionally attached to the girls they break their virginity with?? :) (link)
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First of all virginity is not something that you can "break" or "lose". When it comes to being attached to the person you "lose" your virginity to it's not always true. If you lose your virginity to some random person then you feel nothing towards them. If you lose it to someone that you already have deep feelings for then after you MIGHT feel those feelings getting deeper but not necessarily. I hope this was helpful.
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I have this ex boyfriend and his new girlfriend. We broke up 5 months ago and today is their first month together. Actually, they are just reunited. They have been together, before me and I just found it out after we broke up. My ex hide it from me. I'm the one who broke up with him, but then I realize I can't live w/o him so i tried to fix things up but he said he's tired of everything. Many people say that me and the girl have similarities in our appearance (which for me is not true). So I decided to move on and get out of their lives. Recently, the girl is chatting me on Feb, telling me things about them, giving me advices abt relationships, and like telling me straight to my face that I was just a rebound. And then there comes my ex. I already unfriend him on fb but he added me again. Talks to me like nothing happened, he tells me his problems then tells me to keep it a secret, calling me out (but i rejected). He even shows my picture to his friends. Then the girl now is blocking my friends, telling the boy that we are fighting and other bitter things. What should I do with them? (link)
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What you should do is make it clear to both of them that you want nothing to do with them. If you have to unfriend them from facebook do it but don't let them back in. Distance yourself from them and they will get the hint.
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I am single,and am a christian. However,I this guy makes me soooo happy,and comfortable,he totally gets me and we can have the most random discussions with each other,he says he likes me,he told me and also my friends,I wud definetly date him but he's 15!!,and am 18 ppl wud talk,my family wud judge,and u know iht wud be ockward, but I like him so much,he makes me happy,and we have innocent fun together.. What should I do?? (link)
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My opinion is that if you like him you should give it a try. Your parents and people might talk but make them understand that you are mature enough to make your own decisions. If you like him don't let superstitions destroy your happiness.
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I'm 15 (nearly 16) and I've recently broken up with my boyfriend, Ryan, of 3 months. I broke up with him face to face because I didn't want to do it over text and have him hating me, then when he got home we messaged and he asked why I'd left him and I told him it was because neither of us were happy anymore and he was getting very controlling and it was making me miserable so I told him that it would be better for both of us to call it a day. He said we could be friends again one day but it would take him a while to get over it, which is understandable. As me and Ryan are in a band with our mutual friend Jake we agreed to carry on with band practice etc. as usual.
2 days later at school I was in the practice rooms with Jake and I told him that as it wasn't an official practice day, Ryan would want me to leave when he got there so I said I'd find a different room. Except when Ryan turned up he didn't even come in the room, instead he sent his cousin in to pass on the message that I should "Piss off into another room and find my own friends" which upset and angered me because was going to leave when he got there anyway so he had some space, I don't see why he had to be so horrible about it?
At the end of that same day, some of my friends came up to me to warn me that Ryan was going round getting people to call me scampi (it's a horrible nickname he gave me) so I asked them if they knew why he was calling me that and they said they were talking to him at lunchtime and he said "Once, she gave me some gone-off scampi and lemon crisps and they tasted like when I licked her out"... I feel mortified...
I've never been able to get physically close to anyone because of bad childhood experiences but he made me feel safe. I was uncomfortable doing anything with him in the first place but he convinced me that I could trust him and that he'd treat me well. He was so nice at first and now I feel like a fool...
People at school keep coming up to me and calling me scampi and when I confronted Ryan about it he just said "Well I was angry" but that's no excuse for making my school life miserable. I just want to run far away and have a fresh start. He's telling me that he still cares about me and when I didn't turn up to school the day after I confronted him, he texted my mum telling me he wished me the best but it's all bullshit.. Surely if you love someone you wouldn't be able to do something like this, right?
I've already got a bad reputation at school from people telling lies about me but he's made it 100 times worse... And even when I found out what he'd been telling people about me, I didn't set out for revenge because I still love him, despite everything, and I know it's the wrong thing to do. I feel so helpless and alone, I even made myself ill so I didn't have to see him at school. I'm ashamed and embarrassed and I don't know what to do... Can anyone help me??? (link)
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I understand u love him but what he did was wrong and offensive. You should confront him again and tell him it's not okay that he walks around telling people those things about you. I think that what these people are saying and thinking is not gonna change no matter what you say. So you should just ignore them. You know that you're right and that you didn't do anything wrong and this is all that matters.
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