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I have been dating this guy for a while now.we are in a long distance relationship. Last night after I spoke to him,he said "be mine,always be mine".
What does that mean?I kinda got confused! If we are dating,am I not already his? (link)
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I agree with the previous individual. A man that says that to a lady just wants to express what's on his heart. And in a long distance relationship it means alot especially being so far away.
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It happened recently that guys just come to me and expect comfort or try to get me and sleep with them (in which they don't succeed.) It's like no one even considers me a girlfriend option. It's either the guys that are crazy about girls who don't even deserve them or the ones who think I'm young and naive and will just surrender to them. I am not that pretty,but I have a strong character,I'm caring,I'm intelligent,and I also have many other qualities. It's just that I'm pretty much invisible. Is it me,or is just the world overcrowded with idiots? (link)
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.......and THAT darling is what most men cannot handle. Some can handle it, yes. Other men on the other hand can't.
What I fail to see wrong with certain types of men these days is that they are afraid to commit to something good. You need to remind yourself that a relationship will come in time. As young people we have the strong trait of patience.
It's almost like being a small kid and wanting something that your parents told you to be patient for. Lol I know, lame analogy, but kinda true.
What I'm saying is good things come to good people. Yeah im gonna sound like a church bird but you gotta have faith, and you gotta keep good vibes in you. Negativity will do nothing but kill you!
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Hi there.I met this guy from childhood and re-connected with him some time later in my life,about 3 years ago.A month ago,I ended things,and have been feeling miserable.
This past week,however,I found photos of him kissing another woman from about 17 months ago,and the most recent of him and this woman were 11 months ago.From what I saw on his profile,he is still friends with this woman.And she appears to have a boyfriend.
My beef with all this is,is that he knew I liked him,and have been pursuing things.3 years we had talked and talked and what I thought,we liked each other. I saw her profile and she has photos of her and him at the beach saying''Were officially official! Hooray! We're having fun at the beach'' And other stuff.I had a feeling he was with her,but couldnt pin point it correctly.
Now,he and I,I thought were going somewhere,so I thought.
Should he have told me,that he was with someone?
And why did he stay friends with her?
Why did he never push me back if he was with her?
And why did he do this?
I just cant get over it.He had photos of them kissing,photo after photo.
All this time,I feel so dumb,because I thought he liked me. Im so angry about this,and its just unwavering to me!
Please,any advice?
Thank you in advanced? (link)
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From girl to girl, I'm going to be straight forward with you! CONFRONT THE BASTARD!!
No girl deserves to have her feelings played with ESPECIALLY if the guy likes you. I admit. There was a time in my younger days when I did play with man's emotion. I didn't enjoy it, but at the same time I was ruthless and had no ounce of remorse.
Take this from my experience. You don't need this psychological torture as a young woman. A young girl like you needs to be strong and have the willpower to move mountains. Don't let one man control the emotions God has blessed you with.
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I am 20 years old girl.2 years ago I met a boy (23 years) on facebook.He was from the another city of my country.I never add unknown people. Actually I was searching someone from his company. And I sent friend request to him. But after chatting I came to know that he was not the one. I decided to remove him. But from his old status I came to know that he lost his mother last year. I really felt bad. And decided not to remove him. We became friends. We used to chat for long time. He shared a lot of things with me so did I. He was a nice boy. He cared for me. I forgot to take my medicine. He asked me everyday that I took my medicine or not. He asked my opinion about his business card. I mean he gave me priorities. But after 2 months don't know what happened he started to change. He didn't reply me back like before. I didn't ask why. And I started to realize that I like him. I felt bad about it that how I fall in love with someone on internet. I decided to move on and not to talk to him anymore. But that time it seemed very difficult to me. I decided to remove him. One night I knocked him and told him something about my family and then told him that I am going to remove him. He said please tell me the reason. I told him and removed him.but still I used to message him and he replaid me. That time I came to know from other source that he hided things from me. He didn't told me that his father got married few days ago. He told me that he had a girlfriend for one year but he never loved her. But I came to know that after that he also had a girlfriend almost for 3 years. But he didn't tell me anything about it. After one months I added him again. He accepted friend request and talked to me like nothing happened. Everything became normal again. I gave him my number. We started to chat on whatsapp. Almost like before. It was my birthday. I asked for gift. He asked what I want. I told as your wish. He told me to ask for something. I told him that you won't be able to give me. He asked me what. I didn't want to tell him. But he forced me and requested me to tell what I want. I told him that I liked him seriously and I really wanted to spent my life with him. He told me that we didn't meet each other ever so we shouldn't think about it. One night I asked him,won't you ever love me?He said "you are a very silly girl,stop this childish,it will be good for you and relationship are really trouble thing for me". On reply I said I will wait for you because I am unable to love anyone else.He didn't say anything.One day I called him and we talked for the first time. That day he told me about his father marriage. We talked for 20 minutes. And he was nice. After that we used to talk. His birthday was coming I decided to send him a gift. I asked for his address but he refused to give it to me. But I knew his addressed already so I sent the gift. And he accepted it(There was his another female friend. She also liked him. She also send him gift but he didn't accept it.I came to know from someone.) And on his birthday he called me and said that I am crazy. But he was happy.Every thing was going well. One day I knocked him on whatsapp and after sometime he replaid. Like he always does. But I felt something is wrong. Don't know why!!! But my mind telling me that something is wrong. I felt that he was not replying me. Someone else was doing it. And the person talked to me little rudely. I knew that he couldn't talk to me like that. I end the conversation. I was so upset that he allowed someone to reply me by his phone. After 7 days I knocked him and asked about the matter. He told that it wasn't he. I asked who it was. He told it was his colleague. But he didn't tell the name. I got very angry. He tried to explain me that it wasn't intentional. But I didn't pay any heed to his talk. I asked him how could he allowed someone to message me. He said that his colleague borrowed his phone for some work and I knocked that time and she replaid. She also deleted the message but told him what she wrote. And she did it for fun. I was so angry. I shouted at him. And told him not to contact me ever. At last he also got angry and told me that I was just a facebook friend to him nothing else and he never thought about me.
After that I found out the girls name. She is 1 year older than him. She also proposed him. But he said no. I contacted him again almost after 3 months. He also did. One day he called me we talked for so long. And the next day the girl tried to commit suicide and admited into hospital but he didn't even go to see her. When I heard about it I really felt bad.I come to know that the girl is back in his life.They talk to each other.But they are just friend. He never tells me anything about it ever. I found it out from another source. I also ask him that if he has any problem to talk to me he can tell me directly I won't contact him again. But he says he has no problem to talk to me.
We don't talk like before.He never knocks me. I don't knock him much. I still have that feelings for him. I still like him. But it doesn't hurt me anymore. I am doing okay in my life. I call him sometimes(like once in a month/months) . And he talk to me nicely like before we used to talk. I wonder he still remembers little things about me. I talk to him like a friend. I never talk about my feelings and all this. But last time when we talked he asked me,do I have a boyfriend now? I said,no. He asked,why? On my mind I was telling,because I told you that I will wait for you. But i didn't tell him that. I told him that you know the answer but may be you don't remember it.I was a little angry.
Should I move on?Should I cut contact with him?
And yes I always feel that he has some feelings for me. May be its not love,but its special.Did/does he have?I accept the fact that he would never love me. But I still love him. And I am okay with that.
Tell me what to do now? (link)
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If I was in your shoes, I'd pray about it while still living my life.
As a young lady, you're still young and you have so much ahead of you. I admit, I have been there myself. I let my feelings become my brain. One thing you don't ever want to do is let your feelings take control.
Free yourself from the psychological torment this man still has over you and keep living a good life.
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There is a guy I have quite a bit of feelings for, but he lives in a different state. I know that he feels the same about me. The thing is that I don't know if I should continue talking with him or not. I don't believe that long distance relationships really truly work. I know we have something, it feels like way more than just a stupid crush or like, but I know it can't be love. I'm just unsure if this is a good idea or not. (link)
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FemaleKenshi here!
I myself have had feelings for someone out of my reach. I've tried many long distant relationships, and they were fine for a while. But then the topic of me moving to where they were came up.
In this situation you have three options.
1) Think long and hard about what you would like to do.
2) pray about it.
3) Put yourself in the other person's shoes.
The most I can tell you is to go with your gut.
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