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i hooked up with a guy now he wont talk to me
I really liked this guy in my school and then we went to the mall together and we kissed ( it was my first proper kiss) multiple times. He then wanted to finger me but i said no.
Now since then ( happened Saturday)he wont talk to me he just walks past me at school.
I told my friend butshe doesnt even live in the same city as me and she went on my instagram an commented " baby message me" as a joke on his picture so i told him my friend was commenting on a bunch of peoples pictures so he didnt realise i told her. So it could be that or it could be that he just wanted to hook up with me or something.
Please help i dont know what to do
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It can't be easy having to see him at school everyday, but know you did the right thing. You weren't comfortable taking things further with him and you rightfully said no. In all likelihood, he didn't get his way with you, so he sees no point in talking to you. Unfortunately, some immature guys act like that, but look at it this way: now you know what he's all about and that he only cared about one thing. How he reacts is on him- the only thing you should focus on right now is you. As difficult and awkward as it may be, ignore him back. Don't try to maintain contact or smooth things over with him. He's the one being immature and inconsiderate. Even if it was partly over the Instagram comment, it's still the wrong reaction for him to have. Let it go. Focus on yourself and your friends. You'll eventually meet someone who is worth your time, and who shows you exactly how you deserve to be treated.
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Assuming your in highschool..My guess probably 95% of the guys just want to hook up. They are immature and horny. I think he just realized that you weren't going to let him bang you so hes moving on to the next girl who will let him. Don't take it personally love you did nothing wrong and you have respect for yourself. If he liked you and actually cared about you he would take things slow and not flat out ignore you. Just move on from the situation your way better off and the way hes treating you now is not cool and he doesn't deserve you.
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