Member Since: March 4, 2007 Answers: 3 Last Update: March 4, 2007 Visitors: 721
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Alright, here's the deal. My best guy friend has recently sort of been brushing his hands up against mine and stuff, I don't know if it's accidental or on purpose, but it's been happening alot. I like him alot, nobody knows it. I want to hold his hand so bad, but i'm afraid that if I do i'll look like an idiot....like if what he has been doing is accidental, ya know. What should i dooooooo? It's killing me! Whenever he does it I get all nervous and giddy! (link)
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okay what you do is the next time he does it you could grab his hand as a joke or like some how hold his hand without makin it in that kind of way. try walkin in front of him and grabbing his hand pretending to drag him along or something. you just have to be sneaky and find a way to do it without it becoming akward so if he dosnt want to hold your hand you can make it look like you were just been frieendly and mucking around
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well this is really complicated...
my gf and i broke up because my parents dont want me going out yet.now, we would have been going out for 5 months if we hadnt broke up with at the time that we did. her parents told her that the only way to get over me is to not have anything to do with me.so i had done the same thing, ttaken all he stuff that reminded me of her, and either putting it in the very back of my closet, or throwing it out(cds, letters, cards, gifts, pictures,etc)so i didnt have to bare it, because everytime i see her or am reminded of her now, i get depressed. and she goes to my church(which is today) and i dont know what to do because im afraid to see her because i KNOW that i wont be able to talk to her. and shes all i think about so it makes it harder. i dont know what to do. i feel discouraged because of this. i feel useless. and i feel like i might as well let everything go.
plz help. (link)
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i no how it feels to want to be with someone so badly but u cant. im in the same situation but mine is different slightly. in the end i chose to be with him. if your parents loved you they would want you to have what makes you happy and by the sounds of it that is her. you have to fight in life to get what you want. and giving away the things that matter because someone dosnt want you to have it is not fighting. fight for what you love and stand up for what you belive in. in the end of the day it all comes down to how much you love her and what extent you would go to to be with her. no one here can really tell you what to do because its your feelings but if it was me i would not give up something like love. its hard to find and when you find it you hang on!
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ok ive had a crush on this guy and i didnt even know i was that obvious but obviously he found out, and he told one of my good friends whos practically neighbors with him that he didnt like me and only liked blonde girls. now im confused.. because i didnt even tell that many people, and the people i told, like more than half of them didnt even know the kid (they were in different teams) and the others i know wouldnt tell. otherwise.. how would he have known? also how would i act tomorrow? my mom said to act like myself but its kinda awkward since now i know. should i just act like nothing happened? im new at this, lol. like last year the same thing happened too, only i knew i was being really obvious, so it ended up with the guy knowing i liked him too. this is kinda a.. um flexible answer so just give me the best advice you got for my situation. (link)
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hey okay firstly the fact that he dosnt like you because ur not blond is saying something. hes decided he dosnt want to get to no you because of your hair colour. what kind of decent guy would do that? so i woudlnt bother. however i no when you really like someone that no matter really what someone else says about them never makes a differrence. its what you feel for the person that will help you decide. you only have to options either talk to him about it. or pretend nothing ever happend personally i would pretend nothing ever happend because if he dosnt want to even get to no you thers no point gettin all upset and worked up. your probably a beautiful girl and there is a guy out there that will want you no matter if ur hair was purple. people like that in life arent worth it. so go to school act like it didnt happen. find someone that will want to get to no you!!
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