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Alright, here's the deal. My best guy friend has recently sort of been brushing his hands up against mine and stuff, I don't know if it's accidental or on purpose, but it's been happening alot. I like him alot, nobody knows it. I want to hold his hand so bad, but i'm afraid that if I do i'll look like an idiot....like if what he has been doing is accidental, ya know. What should i dooooooo? It's killing me! Whenever he does it I get all nervous and giddy!
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Look at him the next time he brushes his hand agains yours. Look at his reaction. His reaction will tell you if he's doing it on purpose or not.
That's the safest way to see if he really is doing it on purpose or it's accidental.
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Its not accidental. Hes just testing your reaction.
Next time go ahead and take his hand. I don't think you will be disappointed. :)
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okay what you do is the next time he does it you could grab his hand as a joke or like some how hold his hand without makin it in that kind of way. try walkin in front of him and grabbing his hand pretending to drag him along or something. you just have to be sneaky and find a way to do it without it becoming akward so if he dosnt want to hold your hand you can make it look like you were just been frieendly and mucking around
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here's what i would do: the next time he does that, hold his hand and wait for a reaction. if he gives you a look like, "what the heck are you doing?" then just make a joke out of it, like "you're the one that keeps brushing up against my hand" or something. so if he gives you a bad reaction, then just let go and laugh it off and make fun of him. but most likely he won't do that because to me it's obvious he wants to hold your hand. go for it :)
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Just grab his hand too so you guys just hold hands. & if you looks at you just smile, and laugh. Like its a joke and two friends having fun. If you don't try you will never know. & by holding hands you won't ruin your friendship either. So just give it a try. I hope everything works out for you =D
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