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Today I went to my friend Lindsay's party. It was a swimming party, Lindsay's friend from another school, Ashleigh, was thier. All the boys love Ashleigh. Im so jealous of her. Im kind of fat, and they were forcing me in the pool. I just said that I had my period. Ashleigh calls out "I hate fat people." Everyone always does that to me and I neved know what to do. Any ideas? (link)
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if you want to hide you stomach or whatever takinis work really well they cover your whole stomach to like your swim suit bottom its 2 pieces though there cyte too
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ok well im the counceler of a summer camp and at the end of it we're having this fun-dance and we have to choose a good dancing song from a movie to dance to. anything but highschool musical because another camp is doing it. and it cant have any swearing or bad stuff because theres kids in the camp.. just like from a disney movie or something like that. thanks! (link)
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any napleon dynamite music grease
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I have two weeks left until school starts and I want a real tan (NOT an instant tan or spray tan!). But I don't tan easy. It usually takes me a while to tan. Is there anything I can use to make me tan faster? I've tried all kinds of lotions and oils to enhance the tan and make me tan faster but it never works. Is there a certain brand that works better than others? Or is there something different I can use? Like, my friend uses baby oil and says it works really good and someone told me that lemon juice works (I dont believe that but just so you know what I mean).
Thank you so much!! (link)
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lemon juice willl give you freckles wear a darker swim suit or lay on a darker chair towel etc.
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Is there anything I can do to make my skin paler? I'm already pretty pale but summer has made me a little too tanned and I even use high spf sunscreen. I've been looking for some white powder but I can't find any and the lightest color of like all brands is still too dark. (link)
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try powder or liquid foundation
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i was looking at questions on this site and i came across one that i'm positive my "best friend" asked. she doesn't want to be my best friend anymore. i'm just really confused. we're going into high school, and i figured we'd both meet new people and if we grew apart, then so be it & if we stayed close, good. but why would she want to deliberately push us apart? i'm not holding her back from anything. what could have caused her to think like this? is it just a phase or should i move on? i mean, i have lots of other close friends but i'm just kind of surprised. why does she want a new best friend? can't you make new best friends without ditching your old ones? what should i do? thanks so muchh.
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ask her about it it might not be here or it cood be her you never know
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I know that I can sing really well when no one's around, but I'm too shy to sing like that when someone is listening. How do I get over this? (PS, I recorded myself, so I know that I can sing well. I don't even sing like that in choir.) (link)
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when you sing look over everyone watching so if your mom looks like shes gonna cry you don't get embarassed or if your friends or siblings are watching they won't make you mess up and laugh or something.
hope i helped
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I'm watching my friends kitten from saturday to wednesday. I'm going to have to keep it at MY house. I have to feed it, play with it, and all that stuff. How much should I charge? (link)
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If its like your best friend don't charge at all just make sure you don't have to buy all the kittens needs food toys etc. if its an ok friend i'd say 10$
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i dont know if i put this under the right category or not..but..my friend from school is having a little going away party for her..and theres gonna be guys and stuff and i just got the invite and it says, "COME READY TO SWIM" and the last party we had for the end of the year party..i didnt go to becuz i was self concious..now im 115 pounds and im 5'3 but i still feel like im wide and from the front i have all that lower tummy fat..and like everyone of my friends are skinnier than me and i just cant go to swimming parties cuz im always so down on myself! i dont know what to do! all answers are appreciated! thanks! (link)
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you cood wear a one piece or a swimsuit that hides some or just say you have a sunburn and wear atshirt you cood also just have fun and if anyone makes fun of you there not reallly your friends.
hope i helped
alli
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Ohk well before I asked a questio nabout telling the guy I like that I like him, but I rarley see this guy in person.
Well hes coming over sometime this week, and idk what to do. Theres no wayyyyyy I can say it straight to his face like that, seeing as home itll just be us two and if it was akward, well yea.
And well, even though he does have this girlfriend he like, tries to hold my hand and stuff and im just not comfortable when like hes seeing someone else, that i dont even know.. because half his town already thinks Im a whore just because i was hanging out with his friend before and now im hanging out with him.. hanging out.. as in sitting on a bench, talking, and getting coffee.. its not even bad?
But anyway, what should I do? Should I tell him even though it might make things akward, I mean, its usually kind of akward anyway, but I told him I enjoy akwardness, lol. JUST HELP ME FIGURE OUT WHAT TO DO! PLEASSSSSSSE! :] (link)
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you cood have some f your friendss and some of his friends over with you guyz if you don't mind or tell him at like the end of the night or hanging out time so like you don't have the whole night like ummm what do wanna talk about now.
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I would really like to brush and floss my teeth two/three times a day, wash my face twice a day, exercising.. etc and normally I am only doing it once daily.
Is there any way I can get myself to stick with this? Such as doing it to look my best for a guy I like or something like that. I have troubles sticking to it 'just because' I want to look/feel better.
Thanks, any advice is appreciated. :) (link)
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well you cood think since its summer you wanna impress everyone when you get back to school asmuch as possible and all the people who (if they did) made fun of you or were mean to you will look alll ugly cuz your washed your face and brushed your teeth more often.
alli
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Haha this is a very strange question but I tend to get hard nipples (when it's cold.. etc) and they show through my shirts. I have tried padded bras (they don't help much) and duct tape (doesn't work at all). It is also quite embarassing if I am wearing a swimsuit and they show through.
How can I stop them from showing.. I don't mind if it is uncomfortable but I do not like having to put on more shirts since it can usually even show through hoodies and what not.
Thanks for your help (link)
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i would say added bra and swimsuits idk anything else sorry hope i helped the least bit.
alli
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my friends are soo mean to people. like, there mean to like people in our group too! who they call their best friends. Like, ok.. we are the popular group in school, i go to a catholic school, so its small. so yeah, were the popular ones, & so like nobody likes the 2 of them. They like think there all great bc they belong to a country club, & have a big house. But, i have just as big of a house & belong to a country club, & i dont act like them at all. they get mad, if like me & my best friend, dont invite them to the mall. like they always cause drama, & basically me & my friends are sick of them.. how do we get rid of them? .. it will be our last year at our school, so we dont want them to ruin it. (link)
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they probaly want attention so next time for example they go omg look how fat that girl is shes so ugly their gonna wnat you to agree with them and laugh don't just be like well loook at her nails though there so pretty or something like that bring the good out of the person because there just probaly pointing out the bad stuff in people..
hope i helped.
alli
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ok soo im going to a wedding tomorrow and im going to a hair salon to get it done. any ideas? my hair is medium length w/ long layers. (link)
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i'd say have it curly ask the hair dresser though what type of hair style will fit your face.
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what are some good pop rock/punk songs??? like the type of music that aly & aj and the veronicas sing. thnks =] (link)
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all american rejects all there songs are good hawthorn heightss taking back sunday starting line my chemical romance. ask if you need more.
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are there any kits that can help me perfect eyebrows because I don't want to practice on mine.and also how do you shave or get rid of the hair under your armpits.sorry I haven't leanred yet and I am to embarressed to ask my parents. (link)
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put soap and water under your armpits and shave with a regular leg shaving razor make sure for awhile you use soap and water and once you get used to it you can shave without water or soap but if your don't use soap and water like your first time it'll get itchy in your armpit. don't pluck if your plucking your eyebrows on top of your eyebrows too much because it looses your original shape of you eyebrows.
hope i helped
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I need some help on which exercises work the best and fastest on toning by butt and inner thighs. (link)
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running up and down stairs!!
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I'm kind of "addicted" to Gatorade. Everytime we go to the store, I buy it. And, instead of buying cokes to keep around the house like I use to, I now buy Gatorade.. and drink atleast 1 a day. Ok, my question is.. Is Gatorade bad for you? And is drinking this much harmful? Should I cut down on any/all/how much? (link)
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i would think its good for you since it has water in it but maybe drink one every other day or drink half of it..hope i helped
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I'm 13 and obviously female and this afternoon I started getting cramps. At first I thought it was just a stomach ache and maybe I ate too much, but it felt kind of different. My mom suggested that I was going to get my period soon, and I already had boobs, hair on my body, and discharge. 3 hours later, when I went to the bathroom I noticed a big dried up brownish spot on my underwear. There wasn't alot of it but it wasn't liquid. Could this be my period? I don't know because people tell me the very first time you get your period you dont have cramps and you don't get cramps until like the 2nd or 3rd time. I didn't feel any blood coming out either. Not to gross you out, but in a way it looks like dried up poop but in a really light brown color. (link)
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thats most likley your period you just get a little at first and then maybe later that day or week you'll get moire blood wear a small pad just to be safe. heating blankets help with cramps and if you jjust like stay kind of low key or calm for awhile i'm sure it'll go away!! hope i helped!!
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I was wondering, what are some of the reasons why I am itchy 'down there'. It started being itchy about a week or so ago, and I don't know why. It's off and on and I should be getting my period sometime this/next week. Don't suggest going to the doctors or to my mom because those aren't options for me, I want to know what it could be. Thanks. (link)
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it cood be a yeast infection maybe wash more down there
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i didnt really know what category this was but i have a little bit of bacne(back acne in case u didnt know) and i have scars from it..how do i get rid of the rest of the bacne and get rid of the scars w/ out spending too much money (link)
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usually you get bacne from keeping your hair down when you shower and the conditioner or shampoos runs down your back if you get all of your shampoo or condition out put your whole hair upp in a clip off your back try not to scratch your back or rub your back if your do.
hope i helped
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