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ok, so i'm 15/f and i have never gone out on a date, been asked out, kissed, asked to dance, anything. I'm pretty -sort of, not extremely outgoing, but not totally shy either, i can be a bitch sometimes but overall i'm nice, i'm kinda crazy acting though, anyways I think my problem is confidence, i think that the only way anyone would ever like me is if i were amazingly beautiful and skinny, is this true? i think it's hurting my self-esteem because everytime i like someone i think, well they can't possibly like me back because i'm not as pretty as so-and-so.
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No, you dont have to be perfect for a guy to like you. You have to let them see the real you and eventually guys will realize how you really are and they will start liking you. Like you said it takes confidence :]
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ok so i wanna start by saying that i would NEVER cheat on my boyfriend.
ok dont get me wrong i like my boyfriend a TON,like i makeout with him and would do anything for him.
but sometimes i get the feeling like he doesnt like me even tho he says he does.
and sometimes he treats me like im stupid.
i didnt realize this until one of my best friends pointed it out.he told me that he really likes me and is always telling em how lucky my boyfriend is.
i hangout with him at him house and we have SO much fun,its almost like were going out already.
but i havent done ANYTHING to cheat on my boyfriend.
my question is,should i breakup with my bf for my best friend who would treat me better,or stick with my super hott amazing boyfriend that i could try to fix things with? (link)
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You should probably talk to your boyfriend about things and see if it gets better. Give it awhile and see if it works. If it doesnt then give your friend a chance and see if that works any better. Hope I helped :]
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i met this guy a couple of weeks ago and we hit it of right away and i went to go see him and his a really nice guy and everything i dont know what to do im confused i like him really lots but i dont want myself to get to the point where im to attrated to him to much cause where i was hurt before
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you cant always be scared of getting hurt because then you might miss out on some good things. Just see how it goes between the two of you. Hang out alot and see if he is boyfriend material and see if he is looking for a relationship also.
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i have had feelings for this guy and my bestfriend has known this for years
i've heard he likes me too but sometimes he's so sweet and sometimes he's an ass to my face and teases me........the only reason i keep having feelings for him is bc deep down i can tell he likes me.
my bestfriend just had her heart broken from another guy and i helped her through everything........i was always with her encouraging her and bringing her flowers and crying with her.
a week later we were at a part.....i walk into a room and she is hooking up with the guy i like!!!
i can't begin to explain how bad that felt. i mean he's the reason i come to that party. he's the person i dress up to impress. i've liked him foreverrrrr! and my bestfriend???
so the next day i talk to her and tell her that she really hurt me. and she says she was drunk and she didn't know what she was doing. i tell her whatever and just move on.
but then the next week. i was at a party and i can't find her again! so i go upstairs and she's hooking up with him again!!!!!
by now i am sooooooooooooooooooooooo mad and sad and frustrated i just leave. i figure she's doing this bc she had her heart broken and she's trying to do it to me so i can feel it too.
the next day i talk to her and tell her she's being so low and i don't know what's going through her mind!!! she says she has feelings for him too. she's never told me that. and there's no reason i should be mad bc he's not my "property" and that when he starts making out with her......should she stop and tell him i can't bc my best friend like you too!
and then she also says the reason he's an ass to you sometimes is bc he just doesn't like you! you need to come to realize he does not like you!
and now i think she's going to start dating him.
she's been my bestfriend for 9 years. and i do everything with her.i don't want this to ruin our friendship. but i think it is already.
i feel like i've lost the guy i've always wanted and my bestfriend at the same time and i have no one to talk about it with.
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i think that she was going through a tough time with her heartbreak and was desperate to find a guy that would help her het over him. She probably doesnt like him, she is just making herself think that to get over the other guy. If she would do that to you, she is not a good friend. Real friends dont do that even if they are desperate.
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why do we cry over a guy?
when i listen to a slow jam its always remind me of my crush and makes me cry so much hes a great guy but he didnt like me back do i really love/like him or just infatuation?
and when im around with my friends and when im sad but i pretend to be happy why?
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i think its because it either reminds you of memories or good times you had with that person. Also another reason would probably be because you want the perfect guy and when you hear the song it makes you think how he could or could have been perfect for you.
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