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why do we cry over a guy?


Question Posted Monday July 31 2006, 4:16 pm

why do we cry over a guy?
when i listen to a slow jam its always remind me of my crush and makes me cry so much hes a great guy but he didnt like me back do i really love/like him or just infatuation?
and when im around with my friends and when im sad but i pretend to be happy why?


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babyygqirlx3 answered Monday July 31 2006, 10:54 pm:
I think its most likely that you really like him / infatuation. I do the same thing. It's because when I hear a sad love song it reminds me of all our memories and why things didn't work out. And for the reason of being sad but pretending to be happy, is because when you are with your friends you are supposed to be having a good time, but you can't stop thinking about the boy you like; but instead of ruining the fun you go along with everyone so that way you wont be alone and more upset.

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charmed3fanatic answered Monday July 31 2006, 10:44 pm:
i would say infatuation;; cause if you say he's a 'crush' crushes are infatuations with someone who is usually out of your leage;; and you don't know them that muchhh.. you pretend to be happy cause you don't want to drag them down with youu.. and/or you don't want to talk about it. =]

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LilMia811 answered Monday July 31 2006, 10:32 pm:
i think you are probably just a little infatuated. its normal for this to happen when you are young and learning about love. normally when girls are older and wiser (more mature) they will know not to give a guy the time of day or the satifaction of knowing she likes him if they can see that he's not intrested. you probably cry and be sad and try to hide it because you are just lonely but you dont want anyone to know or feel bad for you. if i were you i would find a way to forget about this crush and try to give some guy you know or your friends know that is intrested in you a chance.

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iloveyoo17 answered Monday July 31 2006, 10:26 pm:
i think its because it either reminds you of memories or good times you had with that person. Also another reason would probably be because you want the perfect guy and when you hear the song it makes you think how he could or could have been perfect for you.

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