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My name is Abby. I'm 14. I am a freshman at DHS. I live in MA. I like to sing dance, write songs and poetry and I play softball.

I can give you advice on friendships, school, sports, things on your appearance, and relationships/love life.

I'm here to be honest, and give REAL advice. I won't lie to you to make you feel better about yourself, I won't tell you that you are gorgeous and perfect, and I will not judge you just because of some of the things you ask me advice about are sleezy and what not.

If you have any questions just come to my inbox. I'll be happy to answer them =]

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Hey my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and my ex boyfriend jesse who is also 17 years old and I broke up,but we still like each other,the only reason we broke up is becouse his mom dosn't want us seeing each other anymore becouse she dosn't think iam good enough for him becouse my mom dosn't make as much money as she does his mom makes over 8 dollars an hour and she's always bragging about it and my mom only makes minimum wage which isn't very much at all so how can I make her see that the money dosn't make the person it's how the person acts?

If you love your boyfriend, money shouldn't be an object. Seriously, who cares about money. It's not you who's working at minimum wage. That's why kids go to school to better their lives, and get a career. Its not like you guys are married and you support him. I would talk to your ex boyfriend and tell him how you feel, and that you think this is unfair. He's 17. He can make his decisions on his own now. Especially when who he dates has nothing to do with his mother. Let his mother brag. She brags because thats all she has. MONEY isn't everything.

Try to improve who you are to impress him more. Tell her straight out how you feel. Call her up and talk to her. Really, it's your mothers life, not her. If she's supporting you and you are turning out fine what's the big deal.

You shouldn't have to prove to her your good enough for her son. And let her know that.

well theres this boy i like and my best friend knew him before me but never talked to him or anything. she said he was ugly but after i said he was cute and that i liked him she said it to and she starts flirting with him and kissin him on the cheek when im standing right there. He wants us to blow him but take turns. Have one of us blow him while the other one makes out with him then switch. my {best} friend is all like "ya lets do it sexy" and stuff like that and im soo freakin mad cuz she knew i liked him alot!! i told her about this and she just said that im makin a big deal out of nothing and that hes mine. what do you guys think am i overreacting or should i be mad? i mean would you want your best friend making out and givin bj's to the boy you like?

I understand where you are coming from. I know you like him but if he's going to flirt with your best friend, and ask BOTH of you to give him a blow job and shit, that's ridiculous. If I were you I'd tell your best friend how you feel, if she was your best friend she wouldn't have done that, and she would listen to you and understand why you feel that way. You aren't over reacting and you deffinately have a reason to be upset. But the thing is, he isn't yours. He isn't going out with you, he just likes you so its alright if she does that if you think about it. But as your best friend thats messed up and I wouldn't give either of them the time of day.

Just talk to your best friend and don't even waste your time with that jerk.

Hope I helped =/

Sincerely, Abby

im a female thats 14.I know a guy named robert that I knew since 4th grade.He's my bestfriend and I really care about him.Near the beginning of 5th grade I found out from one of his friends that he really likes me.Robert didnt know his friend told me and he didnt want me to know...yet.I just acted like I never knew he liked me and nothing changed.

A year later robert and i got to go to the same m-school,and we started to hang around more.robert was really shy for some reason and people started to tease for that.I stuck up for him and people stopped cause i was one of those people that every one called `popular`.he started to like me even more and he finally got the courage to ask me out.I said yes cause i started to like him too.

Now 2 more years later wich is right now weve been going out since then.I find out he's cheating on me with some bitch.and then i find out its true.I break up with him and tell him i dont even want to be his friend.he is pretty emotional so i find out from one of his guy friends that he was crying in the bathroom.im one of those people that hate when people cheat but im also a nice person that hates to see people cry.he ends up going to my house after school and begging for me to forgive him.i tell him ill think about it.now should i forgive him or not?

You guys went out for 2 years, that's really long for young kids. I'm 14 too. If I were you I'd invite him over, and ask him why he did it and talk to him calmly about it. I'm not telling you to go back to him but I think you should accept his apology, be a little more distant, and within time if you still love him and want to be with him than become friends with him again. Don't run back to him thought, let him come to you.

If you guys were friends that long he should have a reasonable excuse. I don't think cheating on anyone is acceptable but I deffinately think if you guys were best friends since 4th grade letting a friendship go to waste isn't worth it.

Just talk to him and try to get over him. If you can't then you most likely will want him back. Give him a second chance if you think he's worth it.

If he ruins your trust again then you'll know that you can't even be friends with him. He needs to know he was wrong so give it some time before you guys get back together or become friends.

Sincerely, Abby =]

Last night my step-dad beat me. He's done it before, but last night was the worst it has ever been. I called the police and they came to examine me, but they didn't find any marks. But TODAY my face is REALLY swollen and bruised up. What should I do to make him get in the trouble that he deserves? I can't call CPS because I've already had three cases with all of them with the same problem, but they have all been dropped. I'm tired of being hit and I want him in jail.

take pictures of all the damage he has done to you. call Social Services and tell them that you want to live with another relative. Talk to your mom privately about this, no matter wether you're right or wrong you deserve better. Your family needs help. I used to get beaten up by my step father. And everytime it gets worse and worse. I used to run away all the time. It doesn't help running from your problems. The next time he beats you its going to be so bad. A real man would never put his hands on you. Go to the police and show them what he did to your face. Bruising and swelling won't go away in a day. Don't be afraid of him.. GET HELP FAST. Call an aunt or an uncle, your dad, or your grandparents and have them pick you up.. pack up all your most important belongings and get out of that house.. go to a friend, anyone who will help you.

NO ONE DESERVES TO GET BEATEN.

=[ sincerely, Abby

hey I am 13 almost 14 and over the summer i fell in love with this guy and he really liked me to and we finally planned a dat and everything and then my friend x friend now stepped in and old this guy all this bad stuff about me that isnt true and i was so mad so then he told me nothing could happen and we could only be friends .... But the biggest proboblem was he was my 1st Real love what do I do I cant stop thinking about him and when I do I cry .....I also find it hard to talk to him like I use to when we were just friends please help me!!!! (I am from Canada)

Talk to your ex friend. Ask her what she said, and tell him that seriously, everything she said wasn't true and she only said it because she was jealous and she is mad because you guys aren't friends anymore. I'm sure he stil has feelings for you, it's just because of something she said made it really bad.

If I were you, I wouldn't fight with your ex friend, blow her off and act like it doesn't phase you. You don't need that bitchy drama in your life. You deserve a better friend than that.

Also, tell this guy how you really feel about him. Tell him that you think it's unfair to not give you a second chance, and how he didn't ask you if any of it was true. He just went straight to believing that asshole.

Get him to like you again like he did before. Be completely honest to him about everything, and tell him the truth if he wants to know something. He needs to know he can trust you before having a serious relationship with you.

I really appreaciate you coming to me with your advice. If you ever need anymore feel free to IM me at BabyyGqirlx3

Sincerely, Abby

ok i am 15 1/2 and my bf is 16 1/2 can my mom turn him for rape if we have sex? i live in california

No. He isn't 18. It's illegal once he is 18, but your mom could punish you and not allow you to see him anymore if she finds out. And you're 15, why do it until you know you are old enough, ready, and in love. If you know you are ready and you deffinately love him then do it, but is it worth getting caught and in trouble?

goodluck

f/13
this guy is to younge for me to go out with and he was so flurting with me and i really like him should i ask him out??

yeah.. if you like him what's the big deal, age aint nuthin but a number. WHO CARES? it's your business not anyone elses. DEFF GO FOR IT.

13/f
After the break up he seems to look at me alot.. and then ignores me, and then the 3rd day after the breakup he seems happier than i am. Alot of people says that he regrets it, and even my ex said he probably does cause its a guy thing. He aimed me and said that we can still be friends, but when i aimed him back he ignores me. AGAIN. i just found out today that hes 2 faced, and why he broke up wit me..
why?
okay.. well he thought that i was flirting w/ another guy.. when my sister says that shes sorry if i do cause i got it from her.. and thenn i just found out today by his friend.. he could of told me to stop so i could change instead of saying "its over." and he leaves me there wondering why and i try to be friends wit' him but he pushes me away.
i hope he regrets breaking up wit' me.. does he regret it?? if he doesn't, how can you tell.. that he regrets it. Aim:
: what happened?
him: mary
: ?
him: STFU!
: .............
: wthhhh?
PLEASE HELP ME.. ive never been this sad before, and its making me more sad.

OK? JERK MUCH... If you don't think you were flirting it was most likely innocent. And besides, he im sure has flirted with other girls, its natural. And if he looks at you, he does regret it but he's too stubborn to admit he was wrong. If he ignores you its because he is big headed and doesn't want to feel like he was wrong so he won't talk to you about it. Just IM him and say, wtf is your problem, I obviously liked you, and if I didn't I'd tell you, so why are you being a jerk, the least you could do is be MAN enough to tell me why you dumped me. Get your head out of your ass and grow up. - This way he will deffinately feel like a jerk and know he was wrong.

After that don't really talk, if you see him say hi, smile, and walk away. Act like he isn't important. Don't let him get to you because if he sees he is he will be happy.

TRUST ME.

good luck with it. I hope I helped

I'm obsessed whith a boy who doesn't even like me anymore. He and i used to like eachother and we hung out everyday, talked on tha phone and stuff. But now we hang out like once every 3 days, & rairly talk on the phone. I try calling him but he always says "oh i have to do this i'll call you later" but he doesn't call. So then i'll start to think maybe i'm annoying him i should just give him some space, so i won't call him but then he calls me and asks me to hang out but i'm busy with someone else. and so the other day i was like wow we never talk anymore and he said oh it's cause your too busy for me..& so now all i want to do is sit at home and wait for him to call because i really really like him.but now i'm wasteing my summer waiting for him to call. please someone help me not be so obsessed because i know he doesnt like me as much as i like him and i just want to know what i should do?

Seriously, call him, tell him straight out the next time he says I'll call yo later be like, well I won't be home waiting for you just because you know I'd wait. And then say you either like me or you don't, what's it gonna be?

this really shouldn't be all on you because it's his fault that you're busy. You didn't do anything wrong and if he's not calling you back then he's an idiot. He knows exactly what he's doing. You can still like him but seriously, don't waste your summer because he's being a jerk.

Talk to him about it and if it doesn't change find some friends to hang out with more, and start talking to other guy friends that have potential.

GOODLUCK

Im 15/f, blonde hair, blue eyes, im 110 lbs, im a size 0-3 in pants (depends on store), i have a slim body, im kind've flat chested (A36) and wanted to make them seem bigger haha. I just wanted advice on what clothes to wear, and what kind of make up to wear. I was a tomboy my whole life so, im not good at this. Please help, any suggestions would be appreciated. I have a picture on my advice column if you need a picture.

Hollister, Aeropostal, TJ MAX, Kohls, Walmart, they all have the vintage style right now. Its really popular and cute.

I'll send you links of clothes you should wear:

http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_297590_-1_12628_12552

http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_297564_-1_12628_12552

http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_293243_-1_12631_12552

http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_269003_-1_12595_12552

http://www.kohls.com/products/product_page_vanilla2.jsp?PRODUCT%3C%3Eprd_id=356003815&FOLDER%3C%3Efolder_id=237196455&bmUID=1155785005130

http://www.kohls.com/products/product_page_vanilla3.jsp?PRODUCT%3C%3Eprd_id=337510157&FOLDER%3C%3Efolder_id=237196455&bmUID=1155785030716

http://www.kohls.com/products/product_page_vanilla3.jsp?PRODUCT%3C%3Eprd_id=321445821&FOLDER%3C%3Efolder_id=302078471&bmUID=1155785093787

^ those are some great clothing styles that are in right now. Ripped jeans are in style too. As are mini skirts, and big sun glasses and jewelry.

For the boobs, were a push up bra.. Walmart has alot of them, so do Kohls.. they are cheap too. If you can't get a push up, get a water bra.

hope I helped!

okay, well i went to this one school up until 5th grade. i moved to a bigger city, and believe me, I CHANGED. at my old school i was popular, but everybody was, because about 400 people lived in the city, and there were about 15 kids in every grade. i had a couple little boyfriends, but i was young and they moved away. Well, my new town was BIG and everybody only cared about appearace. well i was pretty, wealthy, but never really realized it cuz nobody really cared at my old school. (dont worry im getting to it!!) in middle school i was very popular and all the guys liked me!! but when i moved back at the end of 7th grade, none of the guys asked me out. im not mean, because i get along with them GREAT!! all my friends say im cool, pretty, fun, nice, etc. so why do the boys with high standards like me, but the boys with low standards dont?

Do you brag a lot sometimes... just talk to some of the guys... I'm sure they like you. They're probably just intimidated because you've changed. If you like someone then go for it. Who cares, the worst that could happen is if they say no. Just try it. You never know.

Aight i liked this girl and we went out a couple of times to the movies and dinner but i dont know how or if i should make a move to kiss her. We go out to the movies a lot so when would be the perfect time to make my move???? PLZ HELP!!!

Well for starters, I'm a girl so I know that girls are very easy to please. Call her like all the time to make her feel important. Invite her to another movie soon.. Pay for it yourself, buy her a drink or popcorn, and tell her she looks beautiful.. If she smiles and says awww thankyou than you obv. know she likes you. So while your watching the movie put your arm around her, and if you guys walk around like after hold her hand. And at some point just kiss her. Look her into her eyes and tell her that you like her a lot. Then kiss her. Awww it would be so cute haha, I'm like getting excited for you.

GOODLUCK hun

ugh.. i don't know what to do! there's so many things that go wrong in my life, i just don't know how to handle it all..
first off my friends are making me feel like poop, just because i've messed up. they call me a slut and stuff too.. when i don't see how i am..
then there's this guy i like, and he just acts so mean to me, even though he knows i like him, and he told me that he doesnt want to be like all the other dick face guys that just use girls and be mean to them
also, there's this guy that i've had tiny feelings for since last year, and i just recently got over him, because he was so mean to me, and just used me. and then this girl told me that he never liked me and stuff.. but he's being so nice to me, and i'm afraid of liking him again, because i know that he'll just end up making me feel terrible again.. and i don't know how to stop myself from liking him
I just dont know how to handle life.. i used to not have anyfriends, because i was different and out there, and i was overweight and annoying.. but now that i have friends, and relationships, everything just seems to go wrong, its like once one problem is fixed another one pops up..
can someone help me with what to do to help straighten my life out?!

Ok I know the feeling, and I'm not just saying that to make you feel better. Let me give you an example. I liked this kid for about 6 years. Well for the last 2 and a half, he's been sweet talking me, getting me to do shit with him, and then as soon as I'm done he goes out with a different girl and treats me like shit. All my so called friends called me a slut, but I didn't understand because even though I wasn't going out with him, I liked him for soooooo long. He was my first kiss, make out and first bj. I didn't think I was that big of a slut.

Well anyways, he basically kept pushing me to the side making me think I wasn't skinny enough, or pretty enough, or popular enough for him.

All I know is that no matter what you do, people will try to bring you down.. People are fake and only care about themselves. If you don't see how you are being a slut, then you most likely aren't a slut. Don't listen to them... they are assholes anyways.

And if this guys keeps being mean to you, chances are he's like every other guy. Tell him how you really feel and tell him if he isn't gonna be straight with you, then you're gonna have to let him go.

And don't fall for this guy.. he's being nice because he knows it works. If he used you once, he will use you again trust me.

The first time you let someone fool you, its their fault... But the second time around they fool you.. It's yours.

To help you feel better, try to find some new friends that are supportive and caring. Boost your appearance by getting newer and prettier clothes, go on a diet or exercise more if you think that will help, do different things with your hair, and try to make your make up look natural but gorgeous for more people to notice you. It will help you have better confidence.

hope I helped

Ok, the thing is I've become pretty good friends with my crush. We've hung out many times, and I've brought my friends at times too and he's met them. But now school is starting, and I'm afraid of him meeting some of my other friends, because honestly, I'm afraid he might start liking them. A lot of them are prettier and have good personalities. I know it's an insecurity of mine, but it's really bothering me. I don't know what to do, any advice will be helpful.

I understand where you're coming from because I am very insecure. I have like 0 self esteem, and even though I know I am pretty, my best friend is WAY prettier than me, so it's really tough to get guys to like me. If a guy likes me right away he likes her too so it sucks.

What I think you should do is flirt with him more, show him the real you, let him no you like him, and get him to feel the same way without coming on too strong. Hang out with him as much as he wants to, or as much as you can. Do little things to boost your appearance and try to feel better about yourself because guys really don't like girls with low self esteem. But don't be conceided either!

Hope I helped.

well my "friends" Audrey and Emily got involved with a teacher harrasing them and he only said he wants to have sex with me. Well this guy Nelson told everyone about the harasing thing and some a couple of people came up to me and asked me if I got harrased and i said "He just said some things to me but it was mostly Audrey and Emily" but the people are telling my friends that i spread the thing about the teacher and they are saying i said I was the one mostly involved but i didnt say that. so now all my friends think i am a liar and stuff but i didnt lie. and they wont believe me, and they dont want to talk to me..
How can i make them believe me? i basically have no one to hang out with at lunch now because theyre accusing me of something i didnt do. i even told them that if they were my true friends they would believe me and theyre like "We just dont believe you"
please help me...

First of all, you are right. If they were your true friends they would believe you. But its a tricky situation and with everyone else who shouldn't be talking is, it gets hard to believe anyone. Trust me, I know...

What I think you should do is go up to them and say look, I don't care if you don't want to be friends with me, or if you don't believe me, but I have something to say. Obviously this happened to me to so I don't understand why you won't listen to me. Yes the teacher said something to me but its no one elses business, its a private thing and if I wanted to let everyone else know about it I'd be a jerk and scream it out loud. Does it look like I'm doing that, no. If we were friends you'd listen to me. I seriously don't want people to know that this happened to any of us, its embarressing and people are fake. So if you are going to listen to a bunch of idiots before one of your close friends go for it, be my guest. But I hope you know you guys are gonna feel like assholes when you find out I was telling you the truth.

Just say something like that. It makes them think hard, and really gets to them. Who cares if your by yourself, say it to them like that.. walk away like they don't phase you because you did NOTHING wrong. Just let it go, and when people see it doesn't bother you they will get bored of it.

I'm sure this will work.
And I'm very sorry that your own teacher is doing this bullshit to you guys... it sucks, I've been there before. GOODLUCK

hey. i was j/w, is there ne kind of birth control you can get w/o ne one knowing? i dont need it for sex, just to make my period regular. can u buy it at stores? and 3 questions..

if so..

where?
how much?
do u have to b a certain age?

I'm pretty sure you have to let a parent know you are taking it because certain birth control pills can effect your body in a bad way. They must be perscribed to you by a doctor, and you have to be 18 or older, or a parent has to get it for you. The only thing I could possibly help you with is that when you get your period take Midol for cramps, bloating, or fatigure. But that's about it. If I were you'd I'd just talk to your mom about.

K sweetie? Hope I helped.

how do you break up with someone you`ve been dating for 9 months and what are some easy tips for getting over someone?
thanks.

well its not that simple.. why don't you want to be with them anymore? like since you weren't specific all I can say is, sit them down, tell he or she how you feel, why you wan't to break up, and that if you still can be friends, try to be.

To get over someone, start hanging out with new people, or friends that you had ditched out on while you were with that person, and obv. find soemone you can crush on.. don't really talk to your ex for a while, and try as hard as possible to forget about your memories with that someone.

In the past, my best friend, used to ditch me alot. We had a big discussion on it. I said how it really hurt my feelings & all this stuff. So then she told me, she didn't mean to do it, & she was very sorry, & would never do it again. She promised & everything.

Then, just yesterday, she did it.
I went to this beach, like I don't know a week or two ago? & thats basically, all I've been talking about. & I kept saying I'm gonna invite you ok? & shes like ok, I can't wait. So I was all excited right? & then I'm like.. "I think were gonna go down there tomorrow. I was wondering if you can go?" & shes like "Yeah!" & so then.. around 6ish that day, I went to the park with my family & got ice cream. So, when I get back, shes all.. I can't go with you tomorrow, I'm sleeping over Kahlies house. & I got really really reallly really mad & upset. Because, I've been looking forward to it, for forever. So, since I was so angry, I just blurted out, I don't wanna talk to you anymore. & like stuff about being her best friend. So, then when she got to Kahlies shes all.. "Well, I can't believe your doing this when Kyle is about to dump me!" & then I just signed off. Because, I got mad.. that shes more worried about her boyfriendm, then losing her best friend? So yeah, I don't know what to do. I acted like I didn't care anymore, because I was tired, & wanted to go to bed.

What should I do? Should I continue to be mad at her? Or should I just forget about it.. & forgive her? I'm just upset, & need some advice. ASAP.
thanks

Ok, I'm going to give you true advice, even if it's not what you want to hear. My friends do it all the time. It's not just you who gets it. Seriously, all she did was ditch you. It's not like she went behind your back and started talking shit about you. Or spreading rumors or telling people your secret. If she's your true best friend. you'd let it pass over. It's not that big of a deal. Sit her down and tell her that you are really upset, and that she said she wouldn't ditch you again and then she did. Tell her you'll give her another chance and then that's it. If she is really your best friend then why get mad over something really dumb. So what if she skipped out on going to a beach with you, the beach will always be there, but best friends will come and go.

f/15

I want to date this guy who I have been quite close friends with for years. We have always liked eachother as more than friends (although it was sort of on and off since we went periods without hanging out) and that is what kept our friendship alive. We have always acted like we were dating (to some extent) and I'm quite sure it would be long lasting between us. I think he is going to ask me out within the next two weeks since we recently told eachother for the first time how we really feel.

Now the thing is that I have had two boyfriends in the past but never told my parents so they think I have never dated a guy. They know I hang out with this guy a lot and he calls my house sometimes asking if I wanna come over. My parents have never met him since I always go to his house and he has never been at mine (because I don't think my parents would allow it).

I am a really good liar and I know I could hide it if I was dating him, but should I? What would be the benefits of telling my parents rather than keeping it a secret?

If I tell my parents (if he asks me out) that we are dating and they don't approve they would probably think differently about letting me go to his house even as friends. If I keep it a secret and get caught they may find out other secrets I have since I basically live a double life (I am a straight A student but I drink and lie to my parents a lot, but they think I'm 'good' and don't do drugs).

Sorry about that being so long but there are many factors and I am running out of time to make a decision

I think you should tell your parents because even if it's just about a boy, you're 15 and a straight A student. If they most likely trust you then they will probably let you go over still. It's not a big deal. And I'm sure they already know what's up. You should just be real with them because telling them the truth will show that you respect their opinions and they will trust you even more.

im not so sure how to talk to a guy. im gonna be a sophmore this year and im switching schools. there was no problem at my old school because i knew everybody since Pre-K. but im prob gonna see a guy i like and wanna go talk to him but wont be so sure how to. no scratch all of that. how do i talk to anyone i dont know. im afraid im not gonna have friends too. im not a shy person on friends but i dont know how like the girls are. mean snobs or whatever. i really dont have any prob with girls just guys. at my old school everybody pretty much liked everybody wasnt really any mean person. just like the same. i would like to make new friends though. am i just supposed to go up and say hi and talk to him and be like im new here and what if he is a jerk or something and like does somethin mean or whatever. now at my other school i would just do it but then again i knew him and like what he liked or whatever. i just dont know how to handle new ones. it would be nice if i could like learn how to get him to like walk me to class or sit with me at lunch but... any ways please give me good answers. most of the time they arent that great. thank you to anyone who helps. by the way i start next week.

Well, I don't know how it feels to go from knowing everybody since Pre K to going to a new school and knowing no one; But i do know how it feels to have to make new friends all the time.

To make friends, be nice, curtious, polite, funny, and obviously yourself. Introduce yourself to people. If you get lost ask someone where to go and when they give you your answer or show you, tell them about yourself, or ask about them. I'm sure someone will come talk to you if you look like a nice person. The key to gaining new friends is staying away from drama and keeping secrets. And most importantly, be yourself, don't lie to gain popularity.

It's easier to talk to a guy if you become friends with them. Get to know them better by talking about them. Then when he says something you like, tell him you like it. Like if his favorite sport is football, and its yours - tell him its your favorite too. It's really not that hard. Once he knows that you have a great personality, let him know that you are interested, without telling him. Flirt with him, boost his confidence. Be mysterious and leave him wanting for more. Compliment him A LOT. It's that simple.

If you are nervous and quiet no one will talk to you. Be yourself and don't be afraid. It's really easy. Hopefully my advice helps you!

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