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Friends + Crush
Ok, the thing is I've become pretty good friends with my crush. We've hung out many times, and I've brought my friends at times too and he's met them. But now school is starting, and I'm afraid of him meeting some of my other friends, because honestly, I'm afraid he might start liking them. A lot of them are prettier and have good personalities. I know it's an insecurity of mine, but it's really bothering me. I don't know what to do, any advice will be helpful.
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Hey
I know where you are coming from with liking your best friend- because I admit- I too liked my friend
The thing is.. its not always the best thing to like your friend- it can turn out ugly (as I have learned)
Sometimes the best thing is to just try to stop liking your friend and try to find someone else to focus on...
Or...
You could talk to your friend and flat out tell him you like him- and see how it goes.. if he doesn't like you back.. just try not to give up on him..
the most important thing is to not loose your friend- STAY FRIENDS WITH THEM!!! Loosing friends is not a road you want to travel down- trust me...
Let me know how it goes!
--Jack
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I understand where you're coming from because I am very insecure. I have like 0 self esteem, and even though I know I am pretty, my best friend is WAY prettier than me, so it's really tough to get guys to like me. If a guy likes me right away he likes her too so it sucks.
What I think you should do is flirt with him more, show him the real you, let him no you like him, and get him to feel the same way without coming on too strong. Hang out with him as much as he wants to, or as much as you can. Do little things to boost your appearance and try to feel better about yourself because guys really don't like girls with low self esteem. But don't be conceided either!
Hope I helped. <3
sincerely, Abby
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Well what I would do is sit him down and talk to him. Tell him about how your feeling. and if your not comfortable doing that in person then theres always online. You never know he might feel the same way about you too.
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Yeah. I feltt that way too, but the guys usually ened up hating my friends, haha. So, then I always get him =) But, what you could do is, well thee obvious -> tell him you like him. orr, you could flirt with him alot. Do you know if he likes you by any chance? Do you get any like signs of him liking you? What you could do is be like.. yeahh, this kid likes me (just like make up a name, or soomeone who really does like you) but i dont like him. or something like that.. so your on the subject, of people liking people. i usually do that. & then i end up finding out if the person likes me or not. Thats what I think you should do, or something along the lines of that.
mmmk bye =)
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i know exactly what you meen. what you need to do is get closer to him. hang out with him more and try to see if he might have any feelings for you at all and if you think he does make your move!ask him out before he even has a chance to think about liking any of your other friends. good luck!hope this helps!TWEETY
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