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Love problems
im a female thats 14.I know a guy named robert that I knew since 4th grade.He's my bestfriend and I really care about him.Near the beginning of 5th grade I found out from one of his friends that he really likes me.Robert didnt know his friend told me and he didnt want me to know...yet.I just acted like I never knew he liked me and nothing changed.
A year later robert and i got to go to the same m-school,and we started to hang around more.robert was really shy for some reason and people started to tease for that.I stuck up for him and people stopped cause i was one of those people that every one called `popular`.he started to like me even more and he finally got the courage to ask me out.I said yes cause i started to like him too.
Now 2 more years later wich is right now weve been going out since then.I find out he's cheating on me with some bitch.and then i find out its true.I break up with him and tell him i dont even want to be his friend.he is pretty emotional so i find out from one of his guy friends that he was crying in the bathroom.im one of those people that hate when people cheat but im also a nice person that hates to see people cry.he ends up going to my house after school and begging for me to forgive him.i tell him ill think about it.now should i forgive him or not?
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No because if he did love you, he wouldn't do it in the first place. Maybe take a break from your friendship too for a while and let things boil over. Hope I helped!
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well it all depends on how much you like him. if you really did love him and think that he wont cheat on you again than i think you should give it another try but if you dont really like him that much and think he may do that again than you shouldnt.
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Tell him how you feel. Obviously, he's telling you how he feels, and concentrating on his own point of view.
Tell him how he hurt you, and that he'll have to try and get your trust back, but that you forgive him [if you do forgive him]. If not, explain why you can't. If you can, then just say what comes to your mind.
If you end up being friends with him again, and you didn't really forgive him, you're still going to hold this against him. But, if you do forgive him, you'll be able to get past it, and maybe you guys can slowly re-build your friendship.
Good Luck
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You guys went out for 2 years, that's really long for young kids. I'm 14 too. If I were you I'd invite him over, and ask him why he did it and talk to him calmly about it. I'm not telling you to go back to him but I think you should accept his apology, be a little more distant, and within time if you still love him and want to be with him than become friends with him again. Don't run back to him thought, let him come to you.
If you guys were friends that long he should have a reasonable excuse. I don't think cheating on anyone is acceptable but I deffinately think if you guys were best friends since 4th grade letting a friendship go to waste isn't worth it.
Just talk to him and try to get over him. If you can't then you most likely will want him back. Give him a second chance if you think he's worth it.
If he ruins your trust again then you'll know that you can't even be friends with him. He needs to know he was wrong so give it some time before you guys get back together or become friends.
Sincerely, Abby =]
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well, whenever guys cheat, that usually means there's something about that girl that she has that you might've not had, so what's to say he won't repeat himself. and if he really had loved you, he would never have cheated on you. "once a cheater, always a cheater". but it does look like he's really sorry for what happened because of him crying in the bathroom and everything, so i would forgive him, but i wouldn't go back out with him. just tell him you want to remain really good friends, and then wait for awhile and see what happens. if you decide to go back out with him again, do so. but be careful and make sure he will never cheat on you again. i hope i helped. <3
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alright well this is what i say about a cheater, if they cheat on you they obviously see somthing else in that other person that they dont see in you, like if he really loved you he wouldnt even THINK about cheating on you
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