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Age: 15
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Member Since: August 26, 2006
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my mom is a freaking loser!!!!!! when i go shopping she makes me buy theres freakishly large sizes!!!! im only 110 pounds and 14 and a girl and im 5`3 so i thought i would fit into an extra small shirt since thats what the lady working at abercrombie and fitch said i should try! i tried it and it fit great and there was even a little extra room so if i gained a few more pounds I could still wear it and my mom started screaming at me in front of everyone in the store and made be buy a large and i looked like a goon wearing it because im nowhere near a large!!! and then i was looking at the skirts i tried on a 1 and i was like mom can i get this she said what size is it and i said 1 and i said and it fits me see and look its even a little big and she started screaming at me again and made me buy a 4 and do you know how big a 4 was on me!!!?? i wore it to school the next day and i got atleast 20 comments about how big the skirt was on me and i spent the whole day pulling it up and then the skirt fell off me when i stood up in social studies class and there i was standing there in my underwear and i cried!! and yesterday i bought a pair of sweatpants at hollister and they ran in xs,s,m,l, & xl and my mom was making me buy a large and she and the lady working at hollister got in a fight because the lady working at hollister said i wont be able to fit into that and my mom was screaming at her so i went in the dressing room and tried it on and it was so huge for me and i rolled it over 4 times and it was still loose but my mom said i will get tons of use out of it and i will never grow out of it!! but ill never grow into it either! i cant stand it all my friends come over they look through my closet and see all these larges and size 7 jeans when im super skinny. they think im trying to be fat and make fun of fat people... my moms a maniac and it gets me so mad that once i called her a whore because it just slipped out because shes so stubborn. and if i buy my own clothes without her there she says theres no way im keeping them because she says they are "too small" .. i cant stand her i just feel like punching her she gets me soooo angry. my moms a mad woman what the hell do i do??? and do you think shes being unfair and retarted? because i do!

holy crap your mom has freaking issues.. i would have murdered her by now if i were you lol. but seriously i would be like mom im getting this and i dont care what you say.. im not a large and never will be.. stop trying to live my life

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Okay,this is kinda long.But here it goes.
I like this guy named Tray and Im not sure if he likes me back.He looks at me sometimes..But i think he likes my friend lacie,because today he hit her on the head with a peice of paper but he did the same to codie his guy friend,and he usually flirts with a girl he likes I think but i do know that like 3 to 4 days ago.Tray and Codie was looking at me and when i looked there way they both turned there heads and than codie kinda hit tray in the shoulder but tray looks at me sometimes but not a whole lot but i would keep liking him but I dont know if he likes me or not I hope he does but i need advice HELP!!!!

well.. go up to Tray and try and start a conversation? and let him know you are interested in him, but dont be like "I LOVE YOU" or anything lol.. because if he is single of course he is gonna flirt around with girls it would be a different story if he was taken.

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im a female thats 14.I know a guy named robert that I knew since 4th grade.He's my bestfriend and I really care about him.Near the beginning of 5th grade I found out from one of his friends that he really likes me.Robert didnt know his friend told me and he didnt want me to know...yet.I just acted like I never knew he liked me and nothing changed.

A year later robert and i got to go to the same m-school,and we started to hang around more.robert was really shy for some reason and people started to tease for that.I stuck up for him and people stopped cause i was one of those people that every one called `popular`.he started to like me even more and he finally got the courage to ask me out.I said yes cause i started to like him too.

Now 2 more years later wich is right now weve been going out since then.I find out he's cheating on me with some bitch.and then i find out its true.I break up with him and tell him i dont even want to be his friend.he is pretty emotional so i find out from one of his guy friends that he was crying in the bathroom.im one of those people that hate when people cheat but im also a nice person that hates to see people cry.he ends up going to my house after school and begging for me to forgive him.i tell him ill think about it.now should i forgive him or not?

alright well this is what i say about a cheater, if they cheat on you they obviously see somthing else in that other person that they dont see in you, like if he really loved you he wouldnt even THINK about cheating on you

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im 15 hes 17 were both really shy but im the kinda shy that doesnt get noticed alot but hes popular, my friends think we could be a cute couple but everytime we hang out we never talk, how can i start talking him so that maybe i have a chance with him

that is exactlyy how i feel. i am the kinda shy that doesnt get noticed in school but i do have a good amount of friends. and he is shy but he is pretty popular. well at first it seems really weird if you have nothing to talk about.. and im not gonna sit here and tell you exactly what to talk about likee what is his favorite sport or whatever.. just talk about things that happened in your past,present, and talk about the future.. but dont say i want to marry you or somthing he might get scared.. trust me it will get better if you guys can just stick together for a little while longer..things more exciting will happen and that can be more for you to talk about.

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Is it possible for a young alto with a really low voice to later develope into a coloratura soprano?


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PLEASE HELP IS NEEDED AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.


14/f- lives with mom, aunt, grandma, grandpa, dog.

today i went over to celebrate my 2 month anni with my boyfriend. we were going to go swimming and then out to dinner at the mexican resturant guatalajara. my mom dropped me off about 11am. about 2pm we get a phone call at his house saying that my grandpa was mad and wanted me home at 5:30. i asked if i could stay later so we could eat dinner. he said flat out no and that he was going to pick me up right away. i was lke then can you wait til 5:30. he said no. my mom came to pick me up from his house in tears. he had pushed her out the door to pick me up. once we got home, we yelled an cussed at he which led up to him hitting me, my mom, and my aunt, who had to separate me from my grandpa. he hurt my aunt and broke 2 of my mom's fingers. the reason he is so mad is cuz i was out with a boy. just that. nothing else. he yelled at me and told me to move out. like he wants me out on the street without a home.

does he have the right to hit me like that? why would he be so mad that i was out with a boy? what should i do? should i tell someone that he hit me, enough to possibly cause a bruise? what should i do?

okay i think that he seriously is having some problems and needs to get checked out by a doctor... no person in the right mind would ever get that mad about someone going out with a boy that they had to hurt 3 family members. i think he needs profesional help. i have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 months also and i am actually also 14.. if my grandfather were to ever lay a hand on me like that or especially my mom or aunt i would call the police

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ive been like really sad today and i dont know why. i just feel like crying and theres no reason for it at all, nothing has happened to make me upset. so why am i feeling this way?
thanks to anyone who tries to answer this.

aww well actually i have been feeling the SAME EXACT way.. i get these little crying spells like it feels like im gonna cry one minute then it goes away and come back... and im not even PMSing! it might just be your hormones making u moody or upset.. and also it might be because it is the end of summer and school is starting up again ?

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Homecoming is coming up soon and I would really appreciate some help with finding a cute hairstyle! My hair is naturally straight & shoulder-length. I would prefer to have a hairstyle with some hair down because I don't like how I look with all of my hair done up. Picture sugguestions would be the best =) Thanks sooo much!

http://img206.imageshack.us/my.php?image=memehm6.png

look at the girl in the blue dress all the way on the left hand side that is me and how i got my hair done because i am never going to wear my hair all the way up for any dances because im always afraid it will come down.. i am a wild dancer!

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I'm currently in a relationship. And i think i'm in love... But how can i tell? What the signs that a girl's in love?

well where shall i starttt.
you will think of him almost everytime a love song or sad song comes on

if you see couples in the mall or somewhere it will remind you of him and you.

if you watch a cute love movie you will realize you HAVE to call him because SOMEHOW the movie relates to real life.

you will think of him randomly or even when a subject likeeee hotdogs come up.. you could start thinking wow i like hot dogs i wonder what food he likes (that was an example lol)

and most likely you will think about him before you fall asleep

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ok. i have brown hair, it's almost a chestnut color, and it's a little past my shoulders, i also have side swept bangs. i sort of want a new haircut for school, but i'm not sure what kind.

if anyone has any ideas for a cute new haircut, please send a link to a picture.

THANK YOU!

hair that is cut just resting above ur shoulders, with short layers and angled. and also with the sidebangs would be adorable

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okay i'm 14 and female.
i have this guy friend that is really fun, and hot. but there was all this stuff (nothing bad) that went on between us last school year. and of course we hadn't talked for 2 months (summer break) then at lunch yesterday (we were outside), he came up to me and started talking to me (for the first time this school year)and then he started flirting with me BIG time. and i mean he was hugging me and wouldn't let go (and yes i liked that but that's something he normally wouldn't do) and he said something that i liked but i'm not going to say. of course i like him, and i asked him out last school year and he said no because he told me his last gf cheated on him. he's way more outgoing than last year and i think he likes me more than last year too.

but with the flirting...when guys act like that, what's it supposed to mean? and when we start talking more this year, should i ask him out again at the right time if he shows more signs of liking me? or would that not be such a good idea? thanks for the help.

i think if he is flirting with you alot then he must like you alot. and if he likes you alot then i think he would make a move and ask YOU out.. i'd wait for him to ask you out.

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When ever I am doing somthing i always hear music in my head, even during the most important exams before I used to be a straight A student now i'm failing my freshman can someone some advice to get my life back thank you

well if its a song you have stuck in your head, go on the internet and play the song over and over then it should be out of your head.

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hey i can do my eyeliner on my bottom eye lid, but i have trouble doing on my top eyelid, wich is the main one, and it takes me for ever!! any tips on putting top eyelid eye liner??

well all you have to do is close your one eye that you are doing it on and if you are right handed get your left hand and get 2 fingers and put them right near the corner of your eye and pull (while its still closed) so that ur eyelid is tight and doesnt move around.. then use your right hand to apply it. its that simple. and if u dont get it ill even show you a picture

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My boyfriend left my friend a picture comment on myspace that said "your so sexy shortii." I'm really jealous. Should I be jealous? I don't want to seem so clingy but I'm kinda jealous.

well i would be jealous.. any girl in the right mind would be and if they arent, thats tellin you somthing lol. i would just joke about it to him and say.. haha cute comment on so and so's myspace or somthing and hope he gets the hint.. thats what i would do.

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