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ah love bites.
im 15 hes 17 were both really shy but im the kinda shy that doesnt get noticed alot but hes popular, my friends think we could be a cute couple but everytime we hang out we never talk, how can i start talking him so that maybe i have a chance with him
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umm well try to talk about what he likes or like talk to someone w=right beside him he'll hear your conversation and wanna come in and join..if he notices you guys have alot in common he'll ask you out!hope that helps =)
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that is exactlyy how i feel. i am the kinda shy that doesnt get noticed in school but i do have a good amount of friends. and he is shy but he is pretty popular. well at first it seems really weird if you have nothing to talk about.. and im not gonna sit here and tell you exactly what to talk about likee what is his favorite sport or whatever.. just talk about things that happened in your past,present, and talk about the future.. but dont say i want to marry you or somthing he might get scared.. trust me it will get better if you guys can just stick together for a little while longer..things more exciting will happen and that can be more for you to talk about.
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Well, just pretend like he's one of your friends [ don't ACT like he's a friend, just talk to him like you would a friend ] and ask him how his day was, what did he do, did he take that hard test in English, etc. And then start going off into other topics like what kind of music does he listen to? What his favorite band? Ask him what his hobbies are and what he likes to do, and once out, maybe invite him to hang out with you sometime. [Ex: He LOVES going bowling. Just be like,"Well, hey, we should go bowling together sometime. You can teach me!/I'll kick your butt!"] And then the next time you two see eachother after you hang out, you already have a starter conversation like,"Bowling was so much fun on Saturday! Hahaha, I totally beat you./You totally beat me. But don't worry, my game'll improve, and I'll beat you someday. :P" Which'll sort of initiating another hang out possibly. Another thing to talk about is maybe favorite movies, books, etc. Then, after awhile the conversation should just start flowing and you'll be able to talk about whatevers on your mind. I hope I helped. <3
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Welllll,
hello :]
In my opinion,
dont be shy.
I know right, way easier said than done.
But once you start talking,
it gets so much easier.
Ask him about his day,
what kind of music he likes,
about his family,
its good to have someone you like
talk about themselves, it makes them feel good.
So ask him about him, and dont talk alot about you unless he asks:]
And that should lead to some connection or something you guys might have in common.
<3
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