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My name is McKenzie and I'm a freshman at Reedley College, I love to help people out with problems and to write. I want to be a writer someday. I love to make friends. Ask any question and I'll attempt to answer it.

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15/f

me and my boyfriends one year is coming up in october. i don't know if i should get him something i mean i want to i just don't know what. any ideas? i need some good ones, something cute. i know he has something planned too so yeah any ideas would be wonderful!

thanks a lot =]

You could plan a special evening for just the two of you. Or take him out somewhere and do something. What are you good at? Making him laugh, cooking, etc. Something like that. Movies are always a fun night out.
Good luck!
Hope I helped!

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22/m

sexy??

or slutty??

lets vote!!!!

im trying to firgure out if im the only guy who finds them slutty.

I personally do not like them, but other people love them. SLUTTY!!!!!!!!!!!

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If i wear a size 36 f bra size do i have big boobs?

Yes you do. Remember to get a mammogram every year. Here is a website that will show you the sizes of breasts.

http://www.afraidtoask.com/breast/breastsize.html

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17 yr old male im gay and the last few months ive become really close to a guy we hang out a lot together and i like him a lot and i think he likes me im a bit nervous about making a move in case he freaks out i am worried what people might think or a might get picked on because im gay should i go ahead and see if he likes me?

Go ahead! Don't care what people think, its your happiness and life that matters! See if he likes you.
Good luck!
Hope I helped!

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Hey, I'm 17 and I'm a junior. Everybody at my school thinks I'm hot. I play baseball and football so I'm also the jock. I really like this one girl but it seems like she hates me or is really shy? I dont know what to do to get her to notice me? What should i do?

You can try to be friends with her first of all. Get to know her, ask her what she did over the weekend. Let her know that you are intrested in only her. Jocks usually are extremely popular with other girls, this what may be turning her off to you. Let her know that you care about her and only her. In time, she may come to like you. If not, she's not worth it.
Good luck!
Hope I helped!

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I go to a small catholic school in indiana. I play volleyball for the school. I'm a freshmen, and im really starting to not like this school at all. almost everyone lives close so they go home almost every weekend, but i like 4 hours away and I don't have a car so im always stuck here.

I was wondering if its possible, and what the chances are of transferring to a new school next year, a bigger one, and playing a sport.

And how should I go about telling my parents about this? I don't want to let them down, and I do have a large scholarship for volleyball to this school. but i'm really just not happy here.

You can try to like it but you should try your BEST to like it.
If you ABSOLUTELY CAN'T STAND IT, talk to your parents; they should understand. They love you no matter what!
Good luck!
Hope I helped!

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when you wet a page, is there any way to get it smooth again?

I don't think there is a good chance. You can try to dry it with a hair dryer.
Good luck!
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Hi, I'm 15 years old, about to be sixteen in november, and I'm very active as I play many sports. I went to go get a physical in august where they took a bunch of blood and tested my hormones and what not because I have really bad periods. One of the nurses called my mom and told her that my hormones were elevated and that probably just means that I will go on the pill or she (my doctor) might want her to go see and endocrinologist. So that was a week or two ago and now they have sent in the mail that they have set up an appointment at Joslin Diabetes Center. The date is not right away it's in December, but this really makes me nervous. What is the likely hood I have some kind of cancer or diabetes? Or am I getting nervous for nothing?

This doesn't sound like any symptoms to diabetes that I know of. I have been Type 1 diabetic for 19 years. I'm not sure of the cancer. If it helps, bring a list of questions for the doctor. I have included a roguh symptom list for cancer and diabetes.
Good luck!
Hope I helped!

http://www.diabetes.org/diabetes-symptoms.jsp
http://cancer.about.com/od/causes/a/symptomscancer.htm

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Okay so I've got these two friends Jessi, and Kayne. And last friday our school had a field trip. Well on the field trip we had to be split into groups.
Niether kayne me, or jessi had the same group so the field trip was pointless. Well anyways on the bus on the way there jessi and kayne sat by each other and it was cool they talked to me, no problem there.

However the thing was that when we got back onto the bus they sat by each other AGAIN. Only this time they didn't talk to me once till half way back to school. Kayne said " hey how was your group today" and then before I could say horrible he and jessi were back together chatting. They didn't say another word to me after that. so once we were at school it was 3:05 we got out at 3:10.

I was fed up with it so I finally said, why won't you guys talk to me. THEN things got interesting. They accused me of being jelous, and that it wasn't fair to them. That I shouldn't blame them for anything.

So now idk what to do. WHat should I do tomorow act like it never happened or ask for an apology or ignore COMPLETELY?

I tried to call but they don't pick up, and I KNOW they're home. I saw them.
I want things to go back 2 the way they were before.

They aren't acting like good friends should. First, ask them what you did to earn their hate. If they don't answer, then forget them! School trips are always intresting with friends around!

Good luck!
Hope I helped!

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I am 17 and my boyfriend is 20. We've been together on off for almost four years and have had a sexual relationship for pratically all of that time.

We're really great together but we aren't compatable sexually AT ALL. We have great chemistry and the lead up to sex is fantastic but the act itself is awful.

For the last year I've been questioning my sexuality. I've thought I'm bisexual for a few years, although I haven't discussed this with my boyfriend - it doesn't really come up does it. Lately though, i've becoming way more... that way inclined.

So basically, I'm unsure about my sexuality, and I don't see how I'm supposed to figure it out because I can't experiment without breaking up with my boyfriend. I really dont want that. And besides, I can't really mention it to my boyfriend until I know - because what if I'm wrong?

I would like to be in a relationship with a girl I think. But maybe a bit later in life. My family would kill me lol.

HELP?

Well I am bisexual and both my parents know about this and even if they don't acknoweledge this, I am fine. I have gotten through a BIG hurdle. Just be true to yourself. You'll never know if you don't try it.
Good luck! Hope I helped!

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i was about to have sex k but i couldnt get a boner so she thinks that i just rejected her

ok what's your question? Boners happen when a boy is 'excited' to be with the girl.

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So i went on a date with this one guy and then at the scene of the location it was a completely different guy that looked like the guy i currently like. And We walked around this museum. An At the end I sat next to him on a bench and wrapped my arms around his shoulders and rested my head on his and said "Thank you for taking me here. Its so pretty." and he said "I thought you said that it was just a whole bunch of dead old guys?" and i said "Yeah well they are pretty too." And he laughed and turned his head towards mine, and he said you make the first move and i said no you and he said no you, then we kissed. And it was like 3 times and he pulled away. And then i was on the phone with him and said bye then i woke up.

What does this mean? I know that some people say oh well dreams dont matter but i think they do.

http://www.dreammoods.com/dreamdictionary/

hope this helps!

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what type of shirt is this?
all i can make out is couture
but its a men's shirt.

This link does not work.

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well im new at school but ive met a good amount of pple but anyway what i really need tips on is how to get invited to a party!! i havent been to one in a while and i really wanna go to one! thanks :)

Start hanging out with more people, let them get to know you and they'll start inviting you more places. Call them on the phone and ask them what they are doing for the weekend. Be intrested in what they are doing and you just might get invited to a special party!
Good luck! Hope I helped!

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I realized I was gay when I was like 9, mostly b/c my parents are way controlling even wen i was little they wouldn't let me have friends who were guys...
so to me wen i was young, i was like ok mom and dad dont want me to hang out with guys, guess somethings wrong with em, so i eventually started liking girls instead.
Then me and my family moved to a new town when i was 14, and my parents finally agreed to let me go away to public skool, after a few months i kinda got bi-curious.
Long story short i ended up having sex with a guy, got addicted, became fully bisexual, then shortly afterward became so grossed out by how guys looked etc that i cudnt even be turned on enough to have sex w/ em ne more....
i told people that i was bi, wen i was, but now that im gay, i dont know if i have the courage to come out and say it because im afraid that i might go back to being bisexual...if i found a guy that didnt discussed me...which is doubtful, but if i tell ppl that im fully gay, it blows every guy, in my highskool, at least, out of the water, and i've still got 2yrs left to go..so i just dont know....
can anyone help?

Be true to yourself. You have tested the waters and it sounds like you are bisexual. It is not a bad thing, being bisexual. I am bisexual as well. I don't tell people. I told my parents and my mom actually caught me making out with my girlfriend at that time so the ride home was REALLY uncomfortable!
Good luck!
Hope I helped!

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i wanna know how to shed off 15 pounds in a month. I'm at 150 and have a a lot of muscle but i want to weight 135. what sort of diets should i follow? THANKS!

There is not really a certian diet to follow. Just eat healthy and excersize. Just be careful that you don't lose the weight too fast. A healthy loss is about 2 pounds a day. Here is a website about dieting if you're intrested in exploring these further:
http://www.webmd.com/diet/evaluate-latest-diets

Good luck! Hope I helped!

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I've been with my boyfriend for almost one year and 3 months. Lately I feel like he doesn't trust me around my guy friends. Today I hung out with two of my closet guy friends and he says that it's 'f***ed up' that I hung out with them....


He's starting to make me more frustrated and I seem like I'm crying more than I have before.


What can I do?

He may have some trusting issues with these guys that he cannot get over. Reassure him that ABSOLUTELY NOTHING is going on between you and these guy friends and that you love him.
If that fails completely, you may want to rethink your relationship! Good luck! Hope I helped!

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well i told him how i felt.... and he won't talk 2 me... i mean i know he still cares about me.... is he not talking to me cause he feels the same and he doesn't want to make it hard for us?....or does he not feel the same? i'm confused.... and i heard that it takes a guy longer to get over a girl then the other way around... i jus really miss him. and it makes my heart ache to think about him. i hate it... i want to move on but then i don't... and he said he'll visit (in like 3 years) but there is this other guy to... thats why i'm confused... so do i just forget about the one that moved (he has my heart) and move on with this other dude? i don't know wat to do..

Well it sounds like you should move on. I know it may be hard at first but you will get used to not having him around. I'd say move on with the other guy; he is around and it'll make life a lot simple...trust me! Hope I helped sweetie!

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so me and this guy met in eigth grade btw: im in 9th grade now, and you know how when you first meet someone you feel like you've known them for ever.... well that's what happened with me. and we became friends,dated,broke-up,and became friends again...and through this i knew he was moving and we both fell for eachother. I mean when we were friends we acted like a couple cause we cared for each other that much...and when him and i dated other people we were jealouse of eachother....and we would still say sweet things to eachother when we were dating other people... anyway he moved during the summer and school has started again.... and i miss him so much... i just want him here with me...i mean we still talk.. and i get mad and upset at him cause of things and then he doesnt talk to me and then i get mad at myself. and i just want him to know ho much i still care for him...

I know how you feel. Just tell him how you feel. It won't freak him out; he'll probably think its sweet. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=548857

that's my question. so as i stated before, i cramped a lot last year if i ate lunch because i had gym right after. genius school supervisors, eh?

i know it's really, really bad to skip lunch, especially since i'd overeat later in the day. i managed my weight and although i wouldn't mind losing a few pounds, i am NOT seeking to lose weight. so, therefore, i want to eat lunch so that i can eat a normal dinner not only because it would prevent me from gaining weight (not that i did last year.. idk how i did that) but because it's healthier.

so what should i do? i want to eat something for lunch but everything made me cramp. and eating something really small only made me hungrier so i'd eat even MORE when i got back from school. i have health first marking period i think untilll mid or late november, but what do i do after that?

what i mean is, second, third and fourth marking periods, i'd have gym either one, two, or three periods after lunch. and once (or twice, which happens every four weeks), i'd have lunch and then gym the period after. i don't know if i'll still cramp if i have gym two or three periods after lunch, but i know i will once a week when i have gym right after lunch.

should i just skip lunch altogether? i get home at 2:25 when lunch is at 10 am, and i wake up at 6 am. if i have a light breakfast, which i will regardless of whether i have lunch or not, is it REALLY that unhealthy to go ~8 hours without food like that? i do not get dizzy or sick so there's no worries about that. but what should i do?

You can bring healthy foods from home. Try celery with a light sandwich and then if you get hungry later, bring a few healthy snacks along. It is hard to eat good at school, so bring your own. It is unhealthy to not eat for eight hours. Your blood sugars will crash and you will feel awful. You have lunch REALLY early, so that doesn't really help at all. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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