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hi...my friends said that you helped them with there problems so i was wondering if you could help me... i dont know how to give a guy a handjob or blowjob..i mean my friends are always talking about it but i have no idea what there talking about!!! if you could please help me id appreciate it! thank you so much!!
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hahaha sorry EZ i cant help u wit dat question...i'll tlk to u later dez


Ok here it is, my boyfriend hasent called me in like 3 weeks and i called him 3 times in the past week and he hasent returned my calls. When i called him last Sunday to tell him somthing his mom pick up and i asked for him and she said "who is this Brittney" (My name is not Brittney) I have no clue what to do!!!!! Can you help me? (link)
i think you should dump him because if he's not calling you (which is bogus!!) and wont return your calls and his mom asked if it was "Brittney" sounds like most likely he's cheating!! Get rid of him hun! he's not worht your time obviously!! You may not want to hear it but its tha truth!!!

hope i helped

CaSs


Im a 16/f and my boyfriend is an 18/m(duh lol) and we have been dating for 1yr and 2 weeks... are aniversary is on the 22nd of this month and he is graduating on thursday.I want to plan an amazing night for me and my boyfriend...because things are getting better. What should I do to show him how much I really love him... because i want to make this night perfect. He likes my cooking but i want to be alone with him. So give me a perfect night..thanks (link)
idk whut your idea of a perfect night is but sex must not be involved...taht would be stajitory rape and he could get in serious trouble! lol sorry but tahts the only advice i have for you there!

hope i helped!
cass


okay well i like this girl for a while and she liked me and we started going out like 2 weeks ago...wednesday we made out like 4 times in a hour and i never did that before in my life but she has....now after i did it i dont really feel the same way for her..like i dont know if i still like her..i just feel different about her and we have been best friends before we went out so i dont if i should break up with her but i really dont knnow if i like her anymore and tomorrow she is supossed to come to a family thing and i kinda feel unconfortible around her now and we already decided that if we break up we will still be friends but i dont know...please help please! (link)
after the break up...your friendship is probably older...you jus didnt get the "spark'' taht your supposed to get from a kiss so i guess theres just not there for you. im not tryin to freak you out but i kno from past expeiriences and from my friends expeiriences that you most likely wont be as close as you were before...sorry

hope i helped!
cass


My spouse and I have been trying to get pregent for about a year now and we have not been able to. Should we keep trying or should we se a speacilist? I was molested when I was a child could have something happen then to cause me not to be able to have children? (link)
im not sure because i've never had a kid but im pretty sure being molested as a child would have nothing to do with it...thats the best advice i can give to you..oh by the way sorry you were molested

hope i helped!
cass


I'm going to summer school so i have to pack my lunches once again. They don't sell any lunches, unfortunately because i would sometimes buy my lunch so i didn't really face this problem.

?- are there any good substitues to the boring sandwich that i can easily prepare for sack lunches?

thanks! (link)
hahaha lunchables is all good at least thats what mahf riends say i havent had them before...they like tha pizza where u make ur own tha best and they also have sub sandwhiches which i 've had and those are good i would say that is yur best bet

hope i helped!
cass


Ok I like this guy , but he can't date outside of his relligion. What should I do??? (link)
aww i kno how that one goes my friend dejan is having that problem...well what they are doing is they just see each other at school but i wouldnt reccomend doing that at all because it just gets harder and harder because eventually you'll have to seperate because of it and it will be very hard so i would advise not to date period it will save both of u some heartache

hope i helped!
cass


my aunt suzy died last night and i could have sworn i saw her walking through the house late last night! what does that mean?
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!! (link)
ahh i see i see...well i wouldn't worry about it at all! this grl i know denise her mom dyed and she expeirienced something similar to taht..its a ghost phenomenom and i believe in it totally...i read the other grls answer and i believe the same thing. she was probably tryin to tell you that all is well with her and she's fine and not to worry. so i woudlnt worry about it at all! in a way i think it is kind of comoforting to know that everything is fine after a loved one dies!
hope i helped

CaSs


Okay,so me and this guy have been together for about 10 months, and he is completely faithful to me, like he doesn't even talk to other girls hardly ever, and he never hangs out with any other girls but me. But the other night he went to a party last minute and was completely wasted, and girls showed up and one locked him into a bedroom with her and started coming onto him, they ended up having sex. I found out about this a few days later, and he completely regrets it and he siad he had really no clue what was really going on that it went fast. we broke up, but we sitll talks and he says he wants nothing more than to be with me.. and like hes not even that kind of guy.he's not forceful, aggressive, or anything in that naturee if u know what i mean? and i mean we really had something speciall and i dont know what to do.. just let him go or try and makes thigns work? what do u think

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awwww!! i think you should take him back...i mean yeah it was his fault in a way that he did have sex with the other chick but if you'd been together for 10 months and that it only happend once...then i think he's a keeper...people deserve second chances in their lives because sometimes they arent ready for their first. and in a way it wasnt his fault about what happend...i mean a girl locked him in a bedroom and came onto him so strong?? wow...i mean if u were a guy and u were very wasted and a girl stuck their vagina in your face you'd probly do them too...so keep all that in mine and i hope things work out for you!!

hope i helped!

*..//CaSs\\..*


I'm working out more, and I'm off sodas and sugar, but I want to know, what are some good or okay foods to eat for like, lunch, dinner that I could actually convince my mom to make for dinner or lunch? Also, what are some good or okay foods I can prepare and actually like for lunch? *btw, I get sick when I eat seafood, so I can't eat any type of fish.* I'Ll rate HigH! (link)
lol easy one...SALAD! you cant go wrong there...easy to make...easy to eat and its good...lets see what else...it doesnt really matter like you can have stuff your mom makes just have smaller portions but if its too tempting then idk! hahaha soryr!

but hope i helped!

*..//CaSs\\..*


okay im 14 and i still havent gotten my perios is that something i should be worried about .... or just wait? (link)
nope dont be worried different people get their period at different ages....some get it earlier than others some get it later than others..if it gets to the point where your turning 17 and up...then you might want to see a docter

hope i helped!

*..//CaSs\\..*


can you get TSS from wearing Pads?? thanks (link)
nope im pretty sure you cant.

hope i helped!

*..//CaSs\\..*


i am 14/f with very low self-eteem. I have grown up ugly and now some guys tell me i'm hot, but some tell me i'm ugly. I dont understand. Also, I am quiet and am aftaid of rejection.

I am working on loving myself, but it is hard when you have so little friends.
Any sudjestions? (link)
ok first of all i kno how u feel wit the selfesteem thing... and different guys have different oppinions...some only like red heads some only like blondes some like chicks with big boobs some like them with small so if you get an answer you dont like rememeber that....i dont like rejection either but think of it this way- if you dont take a chance how are you ever gonna find your true love?? and if you have little friends...fix it! be out going and try and make friends... i know its hard though so keep your chin up and keep trying

hope i helped

*..//CaSs\\..*


My hair has been extra tangled lately. In the morning it takes 10 minutes to brush out my wet hair. Can anyone suggest some products to cure this problem. My first thought was Johnson & Johnson's No More Tangles shampoo, but isn't that for little kids? (link)
lol even if it is who cares?? if it gets the tangles out it works doesnt it?? ok im not sure on anything else but i do have this one kind of shampoo my aunt got from texas but im not sure what it is but its a miracle worker...
if you cant find anything try conditioner if you dont use it already...
also it does actually help to start at the ends and work ur way up.

hoep that helped
*..//CaSs\\..*


My stylist just moved to a different place so there's no way to contact him. He was the only person I would let to touch my hair after so many unfortunate incidents with other hair stylists. Anyways, I was wondering if Ulta or Tony &Guy cut good? What's their price range?..or if you have any other major places, please list them along with the prices. (link)
ok i kno for a fact ULTA is VERY VERY good with hair...im not shur what the price ranges are but if u go there its worth your money!! lol hope i helped

*..//CaSs\\..*


Me and my boyfriend had a massive argument and he hit me. he has never done that before and he was really sorry and said he loves me i broke up with him and he wants me back should i go back to him or move on.

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OMG! he hit you?? HE HIT YOU??? hunny u cant go back to him if he HIT YOU!!!!!! trust me he did it once and he wont stop...guys are liars sometimes and no matter what they say u cant always believe them...i think its best to not go back out with him. things could get more serious and he could become more controlling


everytime i click on aol instant messenger, nothing comes up. how do i make it work? (link)
if you cant get it to work by clicking it once...try to double click it twice....if that doesnt work then right click it and click OPEN

hope i helped

*..//CaSs\\..*




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