My spouse and I have been trying to get pregent for about a year now and we have not been able to. Should we keep trying or should we se a speacilist? I was molested when I was a child could have something happen then to cause me not to be able to have children?
snowbird answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 4:21 pm: Alot of time not concieving is something simple that can be fixed. Go right ahead and visit a doctor so you dont have to worry. Then he can confirm if there are any problems. Good luck. [ snowbird's advice column | Ask snowbird A Question ]
juneybug6183 answered Saturday July 23 2005, 7:49 pm: I saw a show on Discovery Health once about couples that were trying to concieve. It said that most couples that are trying will not have any luck within the first year. I would continue trying, but just to make yourself feel better both you and your spouse could go to the doctor to see if there are in problems. If there isnt, keep at it. And remember, have fun while trying it will help relieve some of the stress of trying to concieve. Good things take time! [ juneybug6183's advice column | Ask juneybug6183 A Question ]
orphans answered Friday July 8 2005, 7:14 am: The molestation could possibly be a part of it but you can also adopt if you want to but my best choice would be seeing a guynacologist(sp?)or your doctor [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
OHiOiS4LOVERSo5 answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 3:11 am: im not sure because i've never had a kid but im pretty sure being molested as a child would have nothing to do with it...thats the best advice i can give to you..oh by the way sorry you were molested
LoveNJstyle answered Sunday June 12 2005, 12:13 pm: awww! thats hard on both of you! try seeing a specialist. if you just can't for whatever reason,(the molestation might have somthing to do with it.) try adopting. there are a lot of children that need homes to love them. <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
sweetcorn answered Sunday June 12 2005, 7:37 am: I understand this maybe hard for you! if you have been trying for so long maybe you should see a specialist'.You need to find out it might be him who can't have a baby.Why don't you both go to ur GP and i am sure he will transfer you 2 a specialist and help you. I hope that you will get a baby soon lv sweetcorn xxx [ sweetcorn's advice column | Ask sweetcorn A Question ]
DangerNerd answered Sunday June 12 2005, 6:40 am: Hello there,
My wife and I are in the same situation you are, minus the molestation bit.
She appears to be suffering from polycystic ovarian syndrome.
There are a great number of options available.
We basically decided before we even got married, that if God wanted us to have babies we would have them in his time.
Now I look around at the way the world is going, and am very glad we don't have children.
If you have your heart set on having children, the only way to find out for sure is to go to a specialist for a full diagnostic examination.
There was a question from a 15 year old girl on this site asking advice on how many men she should invite to her very first gang bang. Makes you want to have a whole bunch of daughters doesn't it? :-(
PrincessAva answered Sunday June 12 2005, 12:25 am: You should definantly go see a specialist. It helped my best friend Johanna's mother. ANd the molestation shouldn't be affecting it. But jsut in case, i would go see a phsyciatrist just to make sure thats not one of the problems, which i doubt it is.
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OrionsFire answered Saturday June 11 2005, 6:34 pm: Be comforted by the fact that it usually takes couples more then a year to get pregnant. Also, you could start tracking your ovulation which would help narrow down the times that you should have sex. As far as seeing a specialist, you could just to make sure nothing serious is wrong with you (which I doubt), otherwise just keep trying. [ OrionsFire's advice column | Ask OrionsFire A Question ]
kriss_xoxo answered Saturday June 11 2005, 3:45 pm: Aww im really sorry to hear its not working out for you. Sure, you could see a speacilist..but i am not too sure what they would tell you, and i dont think they could do anything. Adoption would be your best solution, although it is alot of money, its still worth thinking about.
Hope things work out,
Mandalove answered Saturday June 11 2005, 2:39 pm: You're definitly going to want to see a specialist. Maybe there is a way to get pregnant, you just have to find it and work on it. Otherwise, there is other methods to consider. Good luck. [ Mandalove's advice column | Ask Mandalove A Question ]
PurplePensRawkMe answered Saturday June 11 2005, 2:05 pm: I personally think adoption is the best way to go in any situation such as this. See, we have so many abandoned kids in this world already..it's actually inconsiderate to bring more into this world..when some are yearning for a mom and a dad. i'm not saying you have to..but seriously consider it. thank you. xox♥ash. [ PurplePensRawkMe's advice column | Ask PurplePensRawkMe A Question ]
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