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It happened before but its happened 5 times today.. He threw up in the morning some chicken he had ate! Is it basically just getting out of his system or should i be worried.. Its definitely not blood.. Most of its just regular like Water/ Saliva but its colored like yellowish as usual.. Respond ASAP!

Take your dog to a veterinarian as soon as possible.

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Well I just found out that I may be pregnant again, I just had my second kid and then had my tubes tide and now he is only 6 months old I just had this gut feeling that I might be so I took a store bought test and it came back positive, so is there really anyway that I can get pregnant that fast after having a baby and my tubes tide?

It is possible to get pregnant after having a baby 6 months ago, It's possible at any time after another birth, really.

Now on the other hand, having a chance at getting pregnant after getting your tubes tied is a very slim to none chance.

I'd highly suggest getting tested by your doctor to make 100% sure. It would be the best solution. If it does come out positive, theres your chance to ask your Doctor professionally about what went wrong or any other questions you may have.

Good luck.

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Okay, I asked the discharge question like an hour ago. My period just came but i dont know how to tell my mom cause someone from her work is here so shes working with her. How should I tell her, i dont wanna call her upstairs, that'd be too obvious but i dont wanna go downstairs to tell her either! HELP!

You don't really need to tell your mom right now. Wait until her friend leaves, and in the mean time put on a pad.

♥ KRiSTEN

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does anyone know any downloading softwears that are free sorry about the spelling

LimeWire, (thats what i use)
Bearshare,
or Kazaa.

♥ KRiSTEN

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how long is a good amount of time to give a guy a blow job for? i've given them before but i dont know when to stop .. so i wanted to know like how many minutes or just until he cums?

It really depends on the guy. Some guys like it really long, or they want you to stop after he cums. But it all depends.. But most guys like it pretty long. Just stop and start doing something else. =)

♥ KRiSTEN

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Hello,I'm an over weight girl 13 years old, and I really would like to go out with a guy at my summer camp. But since I'm fat they only see that, and not the true me. I mean I've lost about six teen lbs total this summer. There are girls two - three times my size.... Does any one have a clue how to attract a guy to me, like flirting ideas, or just to get them to notice me???? Please I need tons of help for this?????

Just be yourself, if your a great person inside..then they will see that. Just say hi, and start talking =) Don't ever put yourself down saying your "fat". Thats totally wrong. Everyones beautiful inside and out. Take care sweetie!

♥ KRiSTEN

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what are some good qualities you need to have in a friendship? for example ..loyalty. i need at least 3 of them. thanks i rate high for good answers

:D

1.) Trust
2.) Loyalty
3.) Love

--At least those are my 3 qualities. =)

♥ KRiSTEN

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O.K...
does anyone know any websites besides starlightmks, diamondrains, and ticklishdesigns, where i can get graphics???
please help i rate 5's

Google It ! =)

♥ KRiSTEN

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Well, my sister is 16, and she's pregnant by her 20 year old boyfriend. I want to help her, I really do. She is about to turn 17 next month and she wants to move in with him. However, my mom told me that she wasn't going to let her and not to tell her that because she would get upset. So, I don't wanna upset her about it, so I am keeping my mouth shut.
I try to help her the best I can. If she wants something to drink, I'll get her something to drink, if she wants something to eat, I'll get her something to eat. However, it seems like whatever I do isn't good enough. She always complains that its too hot, or too cold, or she doesn't like it. She has the biggest mood swings ever. She cries constantly; when she's not crying she's screaming.
I just want to help her out so much. She's young and we have birth defect problems in our family. I want her pregnancy to go well. I just don't know how to help.

Signed,
Wants-To-Know

Well, i was a pregnant teenager at one time as well. Just give her time, shes just going through a stage. You may still help her like your still doing, which is a very great thing =) It's not like she doesn't know that your helping her out, she will thank you in the end. Mood-Swings are very normal during pregnancy, especially if shes only 16. You can help her by letting her know you've got her back for whatever happens, and tell her that your there for her. I promise she will be happy. Good luck, and take care!!

♥ KRiSTEN

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what is cyber sex?? and how do i do it?

(my bf wants to do it while hes in a illinois)

Cyber Sex is online sex. Just talking to eachother, and turning eachother on. I think regular sex is better tho, :D.

♥ KRiSTEN

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how do you know if your bi-sexual ?? because i think i might be but im not sure .. like whatsz a sign of it ?? cuz like .. id have no problem hookin up with a girl or like eatin her out or somethin like that .. idk why but i juss like think its not a big deal .. an could bi-sexual lead to like lesbian ? because seriously i dont have any problemsz with gaysz or lesbiansz but i jus dont wanna be one .. like bi-sexual ? eh aint that bad n i know i proly dont have control over it or not .. but can someone PLEASE HELP ME

i RATE G0OD !!

Umm.. Bi-Sexual means you like Men + Women, it doesnt actually mean you have to come into sexual contact with both of them, or even one of them,but thats what usually happens. From your perspective, since i assume your a girl, i would say yes being bi-sexual is actually saying your lesbian, but straight at the same time. I have no clue if you would have control over it ? Because im not bi-sexual, but im assuming you possibly could. But my opinion is, theres nothing wrong with being bi-sexual or having bi-sexual relationships.

♥ KRiSTEN

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What are some sites to find cute quotes and stuff like that?

The one i go to the most is:
www.firehotquotes.com which then gives you more links to other quote sites.

♥ KRiSTEN

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theirs about 2 weeks left of school and i told this boy i liked tht i liked him and he just told me he liked me 2 is it too late to hook up wit him?

Definitely not! You guys should hook up over the summer! thats even better then hooking up at school, go for it!

♥ KRiSTEN

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o0o0o0kkk well my best friend.. i get the feeling she doesn't like me and I REALLY WANT TO CHANGE WUTEVER IM DOIN WRONG but the thing is i dont no wut im doin! wut should i do to help our frendship here???

i rate high!
*~!desperate for help!~*

Well, you should talk to your friend. And ask her for yourself.. but you honestly shouldnt change for a friend, no matter what your doing wrong, always be yourself, and the people that accept you for who you are, are truley your bestfriends.

♥ KRiSTEN

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my dad is dumb... he doesn't know nothing and anytime i try to talk to him, he walks right by me and doesn't say anything. sometimes, i wish i wasn't a girl because i think he's sexist because he treats my mom's friends sons like best friends but yesterday, he didn't say ONE word to me at all... i just wish he would leave my mom because he treats her like crap and she treats him like a king and i love my mom and my sister and im sick of all of us having to go through all of this crap... im sick of not having a dad. he sits in front of the t.v all day and my best friends dad is divorced but he has a girlfriend and their all cool and stuff and why can my dad be that way... i even call her dad "daddy robertson" because i'm over there and im around her dad waaaaaay more than im around mine and im sick of mine... her dad treats me like a daughter and my dad treats me like a dirty old rag that he can just throw around anytime he wants but im sick of him! he doesn't love me. i try to get closer to him and he won't listen. i try to hug him and he tells me to go away because he's working... he's just rude! i can't say anything to my friends without him yelling @ me. Today, my best friend was telling her sister to stop being stupid and my dad yelled at ME because we sound alike!!! ugh!!! im just sick of my gay dad... he's not literally gay... or is he??? lol... well, what should i do to make him become a better dad... if my parents got divorced i would be happy because my mom would get custody
sorry this is so long...
signed,
kayla

Aww.. Im sorry to hear that. Although i probably don't know what your going through.. because my relationships with my dad was great. But since Father's Day is coming up this weekend, maybe try buying him something, and maybe he will feel better twoards you ? Or if that doesnt help, you should seriously start talking to your mom, tell her whats really going on, and whats bothering you and she will help. Sorry i cant do much, take care.

♥ KRiSTEN

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I just got new liquid eye liner. I thought it would be easier than the other stuff, but it isn't. When I put it on it looks weird and I can normally fix it but it still doesn't look right. Are there any tips I can use to make this stuff not look so gross? I'm pretty good with make-up, but when it comes to this stuff, I can't get it to look right.

Yea, i never used the liquid eyeliner. Theres really nothin you could do, because thats just how it is.. but there are different brands of liquid eyeliner, maybe you just bought the wrong brand? I dont know, but i personally like regular eyeliner the best, the one that goes on easily and never smears, the price would be about 3-4$ at the max. =)

♥ KRiSTEN

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I really like this guy, John. I talk to him all the time on the phone but I don't get to see him that often because he lives 30 minutes away. Well he knows that I like him, and he tells me that he likes me too, but he constantly is telling me about all these girls that he hooks up with. He knows it gets me jealous because i've told him but he continues to do it. How can I stop being so jealous???? I really want him to like me, I feel like i'm being played ... Please help!

Well, every girl gets jealous when a guy they like talks about other girls or whatever, its just what happens. But i think this kid is trying to get you to see if you actually truley like him because if your jealous about other girls around him, that means you do.

♥ KRiSTEN

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When my girlfriend had a baby she took off a couple weeks after the baby was born. So I've been taking care of her by myself. Well my girlfriend called me and said that she needed money and that she's coming to take Lisa, our baby, and not to fight her on it because she has the right as her mother. I don't know what to do. I still care about her but I think she might be doing drugs again and I don't feel like our baby will be safe with her. I'm afraid that she'll just leave her like she did before except this time I won't be there to take care of her. Does she have the right to take Lisa or can stop her from taking her? If I can stop her how can I do that without causing a lot of stress for the both of us?

Thank you in advance

Jack

Aww, sorry to hear that. If you believe shes taking drugs, you should call the police about that. And you should set something up in court that you can share the child, if you dont live with your girlfriend. You can't have her stop taking her, unless she isnt taking care of the child/or taking drugs or wtv.

♥ KRiSTEN

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I have to go over to my grandpas, and i dont want to....any idea on how to get out of it?

Just tell him you dont want to, not in a mean way though. Or make plans and say you have plans. But, on my opinion i believe going to your grandparents house is really not all that boring!

♥ KRiSTEN

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ok...i wanna babysit during the summer only i don't know how to start. and i dont wanna babysit alone. so...how do i start babysitting?

Well, even though its ur first time babysitting. The parents are going to ask you if you've had experience with children. You start babysitting by seeing if theres a family in your neighborhood/down the street, if they need a babysitter, and you voulenteer for the job. Its a lot of responsibilty though. Good Luck.

♥ KRiSTEN

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