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I need sugestions about how to have a guy notice me and not
Hello,I'm an over weight girl 13 years old, and I really would like to go out with a guy at my summer camp. But since I'm fat they only see that, and not the true me. I mean I've lost about six teen lbs total this summer. There are girls two - three times my size.... Does any one have a clue how to attract a guy to me, like flirting ideas, or just to get them to notice me???? Please I need tons of help for this?????
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Well you can follow all the stories in the book
but if you want to attract a specific guy start a convo talk to him. If he doesn't like you than he's not worth drooling over or whatever the hell you do. I'm just saying if he doesn't like you for the real you, don't waste your time but I'm sure there's someone special out there waiting for you.
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Just be yourself.. Smile and let your true self shine through. Flirt and be totally confident in yourself, act friendly and stuff. good luck =)
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i totally know what you mean. i mean i am over weight too. but people cant really call me over weight because i am not really fat but i am not skinny because they dont know i am sucking in all the extras... and sometimes wear corsets...well but now i am exercising for it.
well anyways... to this date, i never had a boy friend. i mean i got a lotta GUY friends and they are all cool and major cute but no more than that. but you would to totally better than me.
anyways... to get a guy to notice you is to just say hi first. then just start up a conversation.
it all depends on "clique" of guy...
but most guys like guitar, red hot chilli peppers, Diablo, Runescape. i know i am totally tomboy so its kinda easy for me to talk to them. but thats not it.. i get all nervous all the time but you have to just relax around them and talk like you would talk to your just girl friends...
and well if YOU reLLy want to a guy to notice you is ... BE in Center of Stage... such as Singing, Playing guitar, etc...
and also to flirt, ( yea i do lot of that but what do i have to show for? nothing but no bf oh sorry about my sad life story) anyways
1. smile ...VERY IMPORTANT
2. ask him if his ticklish and if he says yes. then start poke him and tickle him ( i kno that sound stupid but its fun and it kinda works )
3. and ask him that you are going to do over his hair and start putting gel in his hair and do that (unless that guy is totally obssessed with hair and gets all mad about it then dont)
4. and oh yea ,,,when guy is standing, and not knowing that you are coming behind him. then sneak up on him. Jump by pressing on his shoulder and also surprising.
5. saying I love you ... i know that seem like a telling the truth, but one of my guy friend said that to me for just playing around and i said i love you too and all that and its fun to do that... just as playing . so if he gets like WHAT! say come on so and so! i was just playing around!
and also to get noticed... it depend on guys clique again... because they have all different interest
such as
prep guys - expensive clothings. DB & LV purse
goth guys - weird hairs and piercings and black
make ups and clothing
punk guys - guitar and skateboarding
and so on. so you gotta think in his perspective, what will he like? and trust me if your heart speaks it will be the right one.
so hope i helped =)
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Don't worry about how fat you are, just eat healthy and don't be a couch potato! That's all it takes.
About this guy. Don't flirt with him to the point of creepiness, just start by talking to him. You may find common interests.
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You know, I know a girl who is overweight too. She works on losing (but not real hard), and she doesn't seem to have any trouble with guys.
She has a wonderful sense of humor, she has lots of self confidence and she doesn't let her weight bother her at all. Seems if how she looks doesn't bother her it doesn't bother anyone else either. Shes just got such a great personality that they don't seem to notice shes overweight.
So, that being said just do as has been suggested by almost everyone. Be yourself. Learn to laugh and don't take things to seriously. You want to work on losing weight (doesn't everyone!), just don't let in consume you every thought. Just don't think about it. Go out and do things and talk to people as if it wasn't an issue. I think you may just be surprised. If anyone gives you trouble about it, just ignore them. They aren't good enough to be friends with you anyway. :)
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Just be yourself, if your a great person inside..then they will see that. Just say hi, and start talking =) Don't ever put yourself down saying your "fat". Thats totally wrong. Everyones beautiful inside and out. Take care sweetie!
♥ KRiSTEN
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Well you have choices. if you start hanging out with this guy, maybe he will like your personality. Besides, thats the most important thing in a relationship. If this guy can not see past the outside appearance,maybe he's not worth it!!but also,you can keep working really hard to loose those extra pounds. There is a book that i have once read and it is called _Beautiful_ written by Angela Thomas.you should may find a copy of it sometime,it helps alot
i hope i could help
much love
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If you want him to notice you, than you need to TALK TO HiM. Just staring at him wont get him to notice you, trust me I know. Just go up to him and be friendly, but dont act too girly around him. Ask him what his hobbies are, and who knows maybe you have some of the same hobbies. Then after you get to know him for about 2 weeks, ask him out. Who knows, maybe he'll say yes. It just takes time.
Hope I helped-
*Nikki
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ok what i think is that what ever you look like on the outside doest matter what your like on the inside...go up and talk to him and if he doesnt like you because ofd what you look like then screw him he probably a jerk any way good luck!
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You should just be yourself. You want him to see you, and not your physical outside only, so let your inside show through. Don't try and be something your not.
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i think you should go up and talk to him he might like you but you have no clue........just go up and talk to him it helps..please rate me
and good-luck
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you said it yourself, they only see your physicalities and not your true you. so make him see the true you. talk to him, laugh with him, giggle, show him the true you that you know so well. also, don't be afraid to be assertive. if he asks for help, be the first one to raise your hand, be enthusiastic, always find opportunities to work near him, or with him (which would be better) and then make sure you make it known that you're a great, funny girl, and stand out. soon he'll forget about your physical stature and focus only on your inner beauty!
best of luck!
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