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I'm tired of my super straight hair and since it's nasty outside it doesn't come out straight anyways so I was wondering if anyone has any suggestions on what kind of scrunching gel or whatever works best and keeps the "wet" look even when you're hairs dry? And eliminates frizzyness too? I've heard of Pantene has one but i'm not sure. Thanks for all your help. I rate high. (link)
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"Beach Blonde" by John Frieda. Its around $6.50 at drugstores.. and it will give your hair a really cute wet and beachy look.
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last year. i had like a big group of friends. and now this year. it feels likes they dont think about me as much. like im just sorta there then like theyre best friend or just friend. my best guys friends are all of a sudden BEST friends with my BEST girlfriends and its like okayy what about me. every1 has a bst friend now and its like i dont. i dont want to be the center of theyre world but i mean i dont want to be invisable either (link)
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I went through the same thing a while ago.. Branch out and make some new friends. Join a club or sport where you can meet new people. Or call up someone that you know, but haven't hung out with before, to do something. You could always call one of the people in your group and invite them to a movie or something. Who says your friends can't have more than one best friend?
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I need advice on how to make cleaning my room fun... it's so boring and i just hate doing it. My room is large, and there is stuff all over it. Any ideas to make cleaning it more fun? and maybe easier? Thanks very much! I'll rate good ideas! (link)
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Play music really loud, and make it into a workout. Or make it into a game, like write chores on little peices of paper, then pick one and do the chore (be sure to save the papers). Invite a friend over and have him/her help you out. And next time, keep your room clean bit by bit so it won't be a problem.
♥ Taylor
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i recently got my belly button peirced 3 weeks ago, its healed really nicely. my boyfriend gave me a really pretty ring for it for my birthday and i can't wait to change it. Is it too early to change it, because it says wait 8 weeks, but its healed and i know a otn of people who have changed it earlier, thanks! (link)
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I wouldn't risk it, you wouldn't want to end up with an infection and not be able to wear the ring he gave you at all. Wait at least a few more weeks before you change it, and keep it clean.
♥ Taylor
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i hope you can help....
ok this girl i dance with was my bestest friend for the past year. anothe rone of my friends lives down the street from me and we hang out sometimes. well her stepbrother was in town and she invited me to go to the movies with them. i said ok and went. wheni came home my "bestest friend" left me a message on AIM saying "take me out of your profile please". i dont know what her problem is! she hangs out with other people ALL of the time and it annoys me but i dont stop bieng her friend because of it. i sont know what to do or why she said that all of a sudden.
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That's pretty messed up. Are you sure she was mad because you were hanging out with someone else? Maybe it was a totally different reason, you never know. Ask her about it, say something like, "Why did you want to be taken out of my profile?" or "Are you mad at me for something?" Chances are, she'll open up and tell you what's wrong. And if she doesn't, just be sure to be really nice or say something like "I'm sorry for whatever I did," etc. If she was really such a good friend, I'm sure you two will be able to talk this over, and if not, don't worry, because the friendship must not have been that important in the first place.
Feel free to ask me again if you still need any help =)
♥ Taylor
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hey, so me and this guy want to be kind of like friends with benefits and do stuff but not sex you know so if i gave him head would i have to use a condom? he has gotten head from 2 other girls and for both of them it was their first time and i have never given it before and yeah anyt tips? can he really have any stds? i hear guys dont like it with condoms so what should i do (link)
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I wouldn't risk it.. use a condom just in case, you wouldn't want to end up with an std. But definitly use a flavored one, because the regular ones have a disgusting taste. And go to http://www.sexproject.com for tips on giving head and everything like that.
♥ Taylor
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okwell my sister got caught sneaking out and ever sincemy parents wont let me do anythng even though i would never do that. so is there anyway that i can get them to relax, and see that im not like her?
please help!!! (link)
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Sit them down and tell them that you are a totally different person than your sister, and that you wouldn't do anything she did. Make sure not to do anything like she did, and gain their trust by being responsible, doing extra chores and doing well in school, etc.
♥ Taylor
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my problem is that i havent had too many steady boyfriends, but i don't really consider the guys at my school datable because it's a rather small school. i would like to have a boyfriend, but i think i have high standards to be met. i can't drive on my own yet either, which makes it even more difficult. how do i go about meeting a new guy, maybe even one from another schooll. thanx!
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Get your girls together, dress up, and go to the mall.. Go to the beach for a weekend or something, go to a bookstore, something.. Talk to your friends and see if they have any guy friends from different schools. Go to teen clubs and get guys' numbers.. Because once you get one, he has friends, who have friends, etc. You get it.
♥ Taylor
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okay what body type do guys prefer...because i go to a prep school, and it seems that every guy wants the same blonde extremely skinny preppy girl. I mean is there anyone guy out there whos willing to date a beautiful average girl?so please help me out and tell me your preference in girls...body type/hair color/clothing stuff like that.thanks much.
:)***_much love_***(: (link)
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Yeah, it does seem like that's the only body type that guys like sometimes, and yeah some guys are like that, but not all. You wouldn't want to waste your time on a guy like that anyway. All guys are different, so you can't ask for what guys like in general. Just keep looking for the perfect guy who likes you for you, not for your looks.
♥ Taylor
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is there any way you can determine when you have your period when youve had it for a year? (link)
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Keep track of when you get on/off your period on a calendar. It shouldnt be regular for a while, but you should be able to predict around what week you will have it.
♥ Taylor
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He makes fun of me...n now he says he loves me..what should I do? (link)
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It depends on how he was making fun of you, was it like playing around or really mean? If it was playing around, do it right back! If it was mean, just move on because that's not right and you deserve better.
♥ Taylor
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my gf is always demanding me to do things if i don't she tells people about the things we do
and my family belives her evevn if its not true
and it makes me out to be the bad person
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That's really messed up, you deserve better than that. Tell her how you feel, and break up with her. She's manipulative and obviously has some issues. This is the beginning of a really bad relationship, and she will probably only get worse. Find someone who will treat you right.
♥ Taylor
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This friend I know started to hangout with the "popular girls" I feel like since she sarted hanging out with them we arent as close as we used to be what should I do? (link)
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Yeah, been there. It really sucks to lose a friend, so talk to her about it.. Tell her that even though she has new friends, you don't want to lose her because you really value your friendship. Hopefully, you will still stay friends, and if not, then don't worry about it, because you will find better friends who won't leave you.
♥ Taylor
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hey guys! im looking for a new s/n for aim and i just cant seem to think of one! I love pink, umm... well anything actually. If you come up with some good ones i'll rate you nicely! =D please ++ thanks ♥ (link)
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xx PiNK SHiMMER
PiNK x LiFE
PRETTY iN xPiNK
x PiNK A LiCiOUS
C0LOR ME x PiNK
PiNK iS x LiFE
x SEXY iN PiNK
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ok so here it is.....
i really like this guy and i have known him for about a year know. He likes one of my friends and he always tells me how much he likes her. I dont know what i should do. Should i give up and move on or stick in there and hold on to him??
please help me
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If he's telling you he likes your friend, ask your friend if she has feelings for him. If she does, stay away. But if she doesn't, I would tell him how you feel. He could just be saying that to test your reactions, you never know.
♥ Taylor
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Hey guys, i like to read a lot, and i've read many famous books like To kill a mocking bird, Catcher in the Rye, Harry potter, and so on. Anyways does anyone know any really really good books, and authors for when i go to the library next time? And i dont want books that you have heard sound good, but actual books you guys have read and really enjoyed, like an "i never want to put it down" kinda book if that makes sense. Thanks luv ya! (link)
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- Jane Eyre (charlotte bronte)
- The Giver (lois lowry)
- After (?)
- Give a Boy a Gun (?)
- A Wrinkle in Time (madeline le'engle)
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im going to dump this guy today. i cant get him on the phone tho. he isnt online, so i dont know what to do. tonight i have a date with another guy but i dont like cheating so i wanted to dump the other guy first. please help! (link)
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Is there any way you can see him in person? Try to walk or drive to his house if it is close enough and tell him that way. Keep calling, and if he still doesnt answer, send him a text message telling him that you want to break up. Stay online, and put up an away message telling him to call you if he sees it. If all else fails, tell the person you are on a date with the situation, he will understand and maybe even help you out.
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ok so im trying to lose 5 pounds but i go to so many pool parties and 4th of july parties. how do i stop myself from eating all the junk at the party, like chips,soda,chocolate,cake,ice cream ahhhhhhhhhhh its sooooo hard. please help!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Before you leave to go to a party, eat a substantial meal.. like pasta or soup, so you will be full and not tempted to eat the unhealthy food. Once you get there, stay away from the bad foods and occupy yourself with something.. and when you get hungry, eat something healthy and filling. When you see bad foods that you are tempted to eat, just remember your goal of losing 5 pounds, and how you will gain, not lose, weight from these foods. Above all, just eat what you you think is best for yourself.
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ive ever had a boyfriend. and im 16. whats wrong with me?? im not completly ugly, but im not like super pretty.. i think i may be prude. how do i get over that and have some fun??
THANKS SO MUCH!!!! (link)
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There`s nothing wrong with you.. It`s totally normal to not have a boyfriend at ANY age. When you`re around guys, just be yourself and flirt with them a lot, and you never know, you could find someone who`s perfect.
♥ Taylor
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ok, well, i have a boyfiend. im gonna dump him next time i get to talk to him. i just dont like him anymore. now that im gonna be single, theres two different guys who like me and i could go with either. i dont know what to do! i like them both! anyone have tips on how to decide? (link)
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Spend some time with each of the guys, get to know them, and see which one you like to be around better. You can make a pro/con chart about each guy, lol, it always helps for me. In the end, just choose the guy who you feel more comfortable around and who you can be yourself around.
♥ Taylor
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