This friend I know started to hangout with the "popular girls" I feel like since she sarted hanging out with them we arent as close as we used to be what should I do?
cokecap_x21 answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 8:41 am: just remember this quote
--if they havent made it in your future then they are not supposed to be there.--
i had a friend,kristen,she was MY BEST FRIEND. and i went into another crowd because she was kind of mean to me...we split up. I really do miss her i just wish we never split up. Maybe you should hang out and talk to her more and more...think of it as a new start and just maybe she'll make her friends be your friends,you might think she dosent want anything 2 do with you but she might be thinking about you everyday when she is with her other friends...(if you were close) i know i think about kristen a lot.. So yeah think of it as a new start and talk to her,tell her your sad and you mis your friend ship. [ cokecap_x21's advice column | Ask cokecap_x21 A Question ]
rosiecheeks520 answered Wednesday June 29 2005, 10:11 pm: This happened to one of my best friends. She got into the "in" crowd when we entered high school and left me behind. She didn't really talk to me anymore. So I told her "I feel as though we aren't talking like we used to ever since you started hanging out with different people. This makes me sad. Do you think you can find time for me and your new friends?" She felt bad and now everything is okay with us again. Maybe you should try saying something like that to your friend!
BWLNG_FR_SP_FAN answered Wednesday June 29 2005, 3:02 pm: i had a best friend that did that and we never spoke anymore... this probably isnt good advice. but i just moved on and if you guys were really supposed to be friends she will leave all that popularity and come back to you!
hope i helped! [ BWLNG_FR_SP_FAN's advice column | Ask BWLNG_FR_SP_FAN A Question ]
xxurockxx answered Wednesday June 29 2005, 12:35 pm: i used to be a "popular" girl in middle school so i know first hand...YOU DONT WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH THEM...THEY ARE BITCHES!! forget about ur friend and find some true ones....once you get to highschool, there is no such thing as popular and unpopular [ xxurockxx's advice column | Ask xxurockxx A Question ]
BR0KENPR0MiiSESX3 answered Wednesday June 29 2005, 10:45 am: hey there. Well, I have the same problem happening too! and what I did was I talked to her about it and things and she was all sorry but then she did it more often and I started talking to my other friends about it that were also friends of hers and they told me dont worry about it, its her loss and so all my other friends and I became better friends because we know we wouldnt do that to each other =) [ BR0KENPR0MiiSESX3's advice column | Ask BR0KENPR0MiiSESX3 A Question ]
queenbianca2004 answered Wednesday June 29 2005, 9:31 am: I know how that feels. I think you need to talk to your friends. She might not realize what she doing. Try and see if you can all hang out including her new friends. I hope I helped
icey0990 answered Wednesday June 29 2005, 12:44 am: maybe shes so caught up in her new friends she doesnt realise she has been neglecting you. tell her your feelings and if shes a true friend she will suggest a girls night out just you and her to catch up on stuff..if not shes not true. [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
frenchfries21 answered Wednesday June 29 2005, 12:36 am: talk to her and tell her that you've been feeling a little left out lately. she'll probably understand and maybe you and her will get a little bit closer again. good luck,
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Teza answered Wednesday June 29 2005, 12:34 am: Yeahh.. those things happen and sometimes you cant do anything about it until your friend acually relizes what she is doing. You need to talk to her and let her know that she is being unfair. If she doesnt listen she will probablly end up getting hurt when they diss her or leave her out and she will know she is wrong. Just ask her to hang out or something. Just dont let her slip away or something just still keep in touch. ♥// ex_oh [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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