first off.. i honor you for waiting and being so responsible! n also for being honest n open with your mom! n i know how you feel when your parents cant trust you n all that good stuff! but you ahve to sit your mom down n have a one on one talk with her n tell her EXACTLY what happend! dotn get ne attitude or smart! just say "mom i want to have a mature conversation woman to woman about what happend with me and (whats his face) and what happend. now i know what you thought, but this is the truth..." n if she raises her voice say "i dont think we are ready to have this conversation, maybe some other time." hen get up and walk away slowly! eventually she will come around, i promise and the sooner the better! hope i could help! if u need ne thing else then drop it in my box!
x3 alwais H a N n A h

say your goin to the movies with one of your grls and tell the guy to wait for you inside n then when the coast is clear then go find him! then make sure your parents dont see you with him! only spend time with him IN the theatre ((where its dark ooh-la-la)) nad not out! i hope i could help! if u need ne thing else then drop it in my box!
x3 alwais H a N n A h

well if u want to be more sexually active.. no guy likes a bush... shaving cream and a raiser, and ALL of the hair!!! ((its okay if you miss a spot here or there!)) if you dont want to be sexually active then DONT cause its enoying but keep it trimmed down short cause the bush makes you stink! i hope i could help! if you need ne thing, drop it in my box!
x3 alwais H a N n A h

Okay, i know exactly where you are coming from. My mom alwais tells me that she cannot trust me and dosent let me stya home alone alot either. She has caught me smoking four times ((the difference is that i do it and you just tried it, dont do it again, it sux)) well any ways... you ahve to elt them know they cna trust you! if you ever make a mistake like fail a test or dont do a progect or try a knew drug or drink, tell them rite away! make them feel like you tell them everything and that you are being mature and brave enough to let them know what is going on in your life. The third time i was caught, it was because i told her. We got i ahuge fight just b4 and i had to tell her. She gaind alot of trust in me just from that. I do alot of bad things that she dosent know about and when she catches me then i wish that i had told her in the first place. i get in trouble all the time and i never hear the end of how she dosent trust me any more and how im such a bad kid. She says if i told her all the stuff i did and didnt hold it in or lie that i would be in a lot less trouble and she'd be able to trust me, so just tell them everything up front good and bad. hope i could help, drop one in my box if i can hepl yah with any thing else! bbye x3 hannah

Well i dont want to be rude, but yes... you are crazy. I would totally understand the whole suicide thing if you were deppressed, but since you arent and you love the thought of killing yourself, then that is crazy. Killing yourself for no reason is the stupidest thing that i have ever heard of. I know this si mena and all but it is the truth and i hope that you stop thinking about killing yourself because that is very wrong and you ahve no reason to. Alot of my friends that actually are deppressed and try killing themselves regret it heavily if they fail in doing it. They think death is the only answer to their problems but after they try it and are in an ER they realize how wrong they are. They are actually depressed and cant stand living without a moment of happiness. You seem to be happy rite now and dont have a single thing wrong with you so i dont get why the hell you want to kill yourself. Your making a big mistake by writing those letters to because if someone finds those then you are going straight to the crazy house, then you'll have a real reason to ahte life and you will be deppressed and you will want to kill yourself. THen you wont be able to cause no one finds a way of killing themself there. hope i could help, sorry i was so mean, but i had to be honest, thats what im here for... truth hurts hunny! but i am alwaishere to talk to so if you need ne thing else then you can drop one in my box! bye! x3 hannah

okay i know exactly where you are except when it was my first kiss with like toungue, i was 14, and it was weird, when ever we did the chicken peck kisses he would try to stick his toungue in my mouth bt i just kept shut! then he started saying things to me about kissing with toungue and he also didnt know it would be my first kiss so yeah that made it even worse! if you le tthis guy know that he is your first kiss it will make it so much easier, just incase he dosent already! ne wais... lol... yeah but we were going to the movies with al of our friends one night and i new that it was time to kiss him and he realy wanted to and i did to! so i told my self tonight is the night no matter what i have to kiss him before the movie is over, it is our night to have our first kiss... and i did it! it worked i told myself to do it and i had total confidence in myself, just have confidence when you do it! i cnat explain but when it comes you automatically know what to do i naturally comes to you! it feels like you have done it alot of times if your confident in yorself, thats the key confidence, dont let him know that you are nerves! my boy friend pulled away smiling and had no idea he was my first kiss til i told him! he said it was one of the best kisses cause i didnt try hard and i didnt go all out hoe, i was just relaxed, natural, soft, and myself! it was great! and i hope yours is just as fun! good luck gurl, and remeber, confidence is so the key... i hope that i could help out and all so yeah if you ahve ne other questions just drop it in my box! good luck and i wish you the best of luck! confidence, remember that! x3 H a N n A h

eat likea pig, i do thata ll the time, i get PMSy and eat chocolate and sweets but then when i get off i dont and im still healthy lookin and skinny... it's fine to have a break now and then. hope i could help. if you need anything then drop one in my box x3hannah

well if your talking to a person of the opposite sex, this is what i do, i say what color is your underwear and it usually picks up a good convo! glad i could help if i did, ne thing else then drop one in my box iight! x3Hannah

well 5 or 6 an hour then say you'll split it half way. the ppl will ask you to ocme back and bbysit more and then you'll get more jobs. then they will also tell thier friends cause your so "cheap" and you do a good job ((if you do, which im sure you do)). thats what i do with my friends! good luck gettin jobs, ne more questions then drop it in my box.. x3 hannah

a laptop, then you can download pics of a dog and look at those. there is also some wierd computer game that my friend showed me where you adopt a dog or cat then take it "home" and play with it and feed it... but if you neglect it it runs away. i think a laptop is less responsibility. you dont have to clean up its shit or feed it or take it on a walk. and its funner.

okay.. well every advice person is different. i dont do it for ratings cause i really dont care. at first when i signed up to give advice or what ever, it was cause i was board, but then i found that it was fun to know i help people and it made me feel good about myself. Infact i didnt even know about the rating thing until i got one, which was cool, but that isnt why i do it.

definatley guy number three! you know he likes you and he is confident in himself. it wont feel awkward and it will be easier to flirt and make moves cause he will do it back!

well if you did all you can then it is out of your hands. if her brother and parents and family members dont know then they need to. if you promised her you'd keep it a secret, well thats one promise not to keep. she may hate you for a little while but sooner or later she will realize that what you did was the best thing for her. if they all know then call a hospital or a shrink or somthing. you cant make her stop hurting herself and its hard to go through that and its almost imposible to make them stop, but all you can do is get professional help or her family's help, unless you want to sit there and watch her do this. but if you do this you ahve to be there for her and stick by her 100% even if she screams that she hates you and wishes you'd go away, cause deep inside she will appreciate it soooooo much that words cat explain.

loose your virginity. when a guy pops your cherry, he broke a "wall" thing and you bleed (you dont bleed, then its not poped and your still tecnically{sc} a virgin)

well you should worry about school. see if you do good in school you'll get into a good school and you'll meet a really good smart guy that is going to be successful! worry about school and not some high school thug that could end up workin at McDonalds! then get a doctor or lawyer or some kind of rich guy! hope i could help! if you need any thing you cna drop one in my box, okay! x3hannah

just stop do what your doing a little while. its a known fact that if you dont have sex for 6 months strait then guys will think your a virgin cause you will tightin back up, ao take a couple month brake from guys goin down there and dont use tampons for your next 2 or 3 periods! hope i could help! x3hannah

well, i think that if its omthing you ahve done b4 and really wanna do then you will do fine just start practicing and stretching now and then smile alot and be loud! then at tryouts youll be more laxed and you can do it! practice everyday during tryouts! doing school activities like this makes it easier to go to a new school also! if your close with your friends and family they will suport you and wont judge you on your decision and if they arent then ill be here to talk to if you need support! i hope i could help, if there is ne ting else then just drop one in my box okay? x3 hannah

picture they are your friends

i think your addicted. sexual behavior or w.e you wanna call it is like a cigarette, you just want more and better each time

go lay out and tan one day when he is outside in your front yard and when he lookes do a cute smile/wave thing then start lookin at a magazine (DONT LOOK AT HIM)oh yeah... be suckin on a blow pop... if that dosent get his attention then hang out with one of the other kids n the neigboorhood that talks to him and act really outgoing but dont act like your interested, dont stare at him and be all shy... guys dont like that, just be outgoing and not to flirty but cute (twirlin hair, standin cute, etc...) and be chewin a piece of gum but try the tanning thing first. hope i could help! good luck! x3hannah

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