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she is killin her self
my boyfriends sister is tryin to kill herself bc her used to be boyfriend cheated on her and used her for sex and in the end she found otu he is engaged to one of her friends and she has been wit him 4 about 5 months and noe since it is over she has been puttin neddles in herself and takin pills i have tryed talkin to her and told her to stop and that she is hurtin all the people around her but she still wont stop she says it is makin her happy. someone please help me stop her.. i dont know what to do anymore. i ran out of advice to give her so i need ur guys help.
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tell her parents or somebody that can help her if she said something along the lines of don't tell any body don't listen, tell
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She needs help and I would advise trying to convince her to get counselling or speaking to a doctor as soon as possible. As someone who has experience with depression, it is very important that she gets professional help now, because it will get worse. You have probably tried really hard to help her and feel like she's not listening, right? But don't take it personally because when people have depression there is a chemical imbalance in the brain which means they are incapable of seeing things the way you might see them. So please, try and get her to see someone like a counsellor. I hope things get better for her and for you. :)
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Shes not going to listen unfortunately. If she is under 18 her parents can get her help. If not then she will probably have to do it herself. If her parents don't know tell them.
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well if you did all you can then it is out of your hands. if her brother and parents and family members dont know then they need to. if you promised her you'd keep it a secret, well thats one promise not to keep. she may hate you for a little while but sooner or later she will realize that what you did was the best thing for her. if they all know then call a hospital or a shrink or somthing. you cant make her stop hurting herself and its hard to go through that and its almost imposible to make them stop, but all you can do is get professional help or her family's help, unless you want to sit there and watch her do this. but if you do this you ahve to be there for her and stick by her 100% even if she screams that she hates you and wishes you'd go away, cause deep inside she will appreciate it soooooo much that words cat explain.
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Tell your bfs sister that it's not worth crying over a guy and tell her what she's doing to her body.
If that doesn't work theirs always a doctor who can help
Best wishes and good luck
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tell your sister that no guy is worth her tears and the one that is wont make her cry.....
tell your sister that she isnt thinkin of what the people around her are thinkin and that is not a good family....
soon this boy will know what he lost and then she will feel so much about her self.
you, your sister, and the rest of your friends and family are in my prayers...
i wish you all the best of luck!!!!
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just say if you cared about your friends u would stop........... then walk away..... she should comply then but if she doesnt then stop hanging out with her....... shut her out of ur life until she stops..... and get all her friends to do the same things........ it worked for me
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if she is using neddles and pills to kill her selfthen get them away from her! sence your bf is her brother talk to him and tell him to take the things that are hurting her away from her so that she cant do anything. if nothing works tell her parents. and just talk to them and hopefully she can get some help. maybe she could get a theropist (sp?) hope i help
--Britt
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Dose her parents know?If they dont you nneed to tell them fast if they dont.She needs help now before she dose end up killing herself.There is nothing you can do acsept take her to a place where she can realy get help.She is putting her life in danger over a boy even though it seems like she realy loves him.Get her help before she kills her self.
*Good luck*
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I know this pRobably isn't the answeR you weRe hoping foR, but pRoblems like this aRe way to seRious to be dealt with at home. I suggest looking into some soRt of tReatment centeR foR heR.. she needs it. :)
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Why don't you E-mail me and we can talk abouth this more like a conversation, don't wory, you don't have to give me any information. My E-mail is death_will_come92@hotmail.com but you have to promise me you won't give it to anyone else, and you will throw it away. okay I'll be waiting!
:)
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Find someone that has had something like that happen to them and have them talk to her this is very serious and over soemthing that happens to a lot of people, teach her the many worse things that could happen to people like dying or being seriously beat up by someone u cared about or being raped Hope I helped you and her!
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