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I saw in a lot of the movies these days, I was just wondering...
If you have a sexual pleasure by using a vibrator, do you consider that as a virgin or no?
Also, do you have to have sex with a guy to lose your virginity? (link)
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Your still a virgin untill a real penis gose into your vigina.
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Which hair straightener would be best out of the three:
Sedu.
Chi.
Coloriss [Sp?]
Price isn't a big deal, I`m just looking for quality. (link)
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Chi..I use it and it works great
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My dad is watching porn right now. He does every night because we have lots of channels and at night theres porn. I know for SURE because Ive walked in on him before. And I can see from here. He thinks hes hiding it but hes not. Should I tell my mom my dad watches porn?! what do i do. Ive never told anyone, because its awkward and i dont want my friends to not want to come over my house because they feel weird around my dad. hes a really nice dad/man! I WONT confront him about it, so if you say do that Ill give you a 1..sorry. (link)
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Yes you should tell your mom.If you confront him yourself it wouldnt really matter cause he might only think of you as a child who dosent know what she/he is talking about.But if you tell your mom she will confront him herself and she is his wife and they will talk about it.And if you dont say something about it soon something bad might happen because when people watch porn they get addicted to it and different kind of things might happen(i'm not saying it will happen).So tell your mom
**~~GOODLUCK~~**
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im a 13 year old female. my mom is very strict about "getting enough sleep" and i have a VERY early bedtime. i have to be off the computer by 8:50 pm and i have to be in bed and be watching a half hour tv show from 9:00 to 9:30. i HAVE to be sleeping by 9:30 pm. even if im not done with homework or want to read a couple more pages of my book, I HAVE TO BE SLEEPING. so i go to sleep at 9:30 pm and wake up at 6:45 am. I think i don't need that much sleep. my friends go to bed at 11:30 and they are still wide awake at school. and what makes it worse is that i have the SAME exact bedtime as my 9 year old sister. thats 4 years apart!! i don't think it's fair and i don't think its neccessary to be sleeping by 9:30 pm i feel if i went to bed at 10 or 10:30, i would still get the sleep i need. what time do you guys go to bed and do you think my moms being fair? how can i get my mom to change my bedtime? and shes very strict so i need some good ways to pursuade her with.
I WILL TOTALLY RATE. (link)
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Show her your responsable enough to stay up past your regular bedtime.pursade her by:
-Helping around the house
-Let her let you stay up one day late and show her you can wake up in the morning by yourself and at a early time
-show her your mature
**~~GOOODLUCK~~**
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i have a boyfriend, lets call him [ X ] and my bestfriend is telling me she really likes this other guy, lets call him [ A ]. but everytime i'm hanging out with my bf X and my bestfriend, she's always flirting with him. and i think she might like him, but i dunno how to tell her to just stop w/o hurting her feelings.
anyone have any advice for a nice way to say "stop flirting with my bf!"
please and thank you. (link)
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Tell her that you dont like her flirting with your boyfriend.If she is your friend she will understand then.
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I have these two friends and they both lie at times. To me at times...and well one day they were asking weight. And I said I'm 160 and she said 120. now she's pretty fat and she can't in no way be 120. I was really stunned at her effort to lie. I don't want to confront her but she makes me feel like i can't trust her again.
What do I do? help me please cause it relly hurts me she lied. (link)
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You have to confront her thats the only way she will know that you dont like how she like how she lies to you.If she was realy your friend she wouldnt lie to you(you should tell her that when your talking to her)and tell her that your starting not to trust her.If you dont confront her then she will just keep lieing to you.So you should realy talk to her.
**~~GOODLUCK~~**
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I have been with my b/f for about a yr and a half now. We have definitely had our ups and downs. Last year i was at a friends house and one of my b/f's good friends showed up. He asked if i wanted to hang out. Went to his house and he put the moves on me. I refused to have sexual contact with him. Even though i had the urge to. He told me that he was sorry and that he couldnt help but wonder why i was with this other guy and that he thought i was pretty.
Ever since that time, he always makes comments to my b/f about how my b/f doesnt treat me right. Or he will joke around about how im his type. We live in a tight-knit town where everyone knows everyone. I see this guy everyday and he always smiles or stares and then looks away.
My major problem is that im finding more and more that im not in-love with my bf anymore as he has become physically violent.
My sister-in-law thinks that i should leave my bf and go with this guy. I am quite tempted as he and i have so much in common and he knows how to treat a lady. I also have a medical condition where i cannot have children. And this guy has full custody of his little girl. Every time i see him with her i melt because he is such a good father.
Am i wrong for wanting to try and have a relationship with this other guy?
And do you think he would be interested in trying to have a relationship? (link)
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I think you should really break up with your boyfriend.When he got physically violent with you then you should have broke up with him then.The other guy sounds so perfect.And i think you should start a relationship with him.And you even said it yorself he is such a good father.And you also said that you are starting to be not in-love with your bf so whats the point of being with him.And for your two questions my answer to the frist one is no(after all your startin to be not in-love with your bf)and for the second question my answer is yes(it seems like he likes you).
**~~GOODLUCK~~**
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so last night i got really drunk and cheated on my bf and i cant even remember what the guy looked like (i hope he wasnt ugly lol) but the problem is i dont feel guilty about it at all and i know thats not normal..so does this mean i should mabey reconsider the relationship i have right now with my boyrfriend? (link)
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If you dont feel guilty about it then I think you should reconsider the relationship.After all he is your boyfriend and if you dont feel guilty about cheating on him then whats the point of being in a realtionship.
**~~GOODLUCK~~**
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well me and my friend where arguing which name is hotter, better (don't ask me why)
so i want you guyzz opinon so we can finally settle this whole thing. which name is hotter amy or pam..why? thanxx a bunch will rate high (link)
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Pam..Amy sounds so plain
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alright,
well i have a boyfriend that i really do like. But before we were going out i liked this other guy but he already has a gf. but he still liked me a little bit. well then i started going out with a guy but i still have feelings for the other guy. and i talked to him on aim and he wants me to break up with my boyfriend so we can go out once hes single. i really like him but i dont want to hurt my boyfriend plus i really like him too! i dont kno what to do, help if you can,
XconfusedX (link)
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If you realy like the guy your going out with then you should chose him.You cant break up with your boyfriend then wait for that other guy to be single.What if he dosent break up with his girlfriend then how would you feel?My answer to your question is stay with the guy your going out with!!If you really like the guy your going out with then you shouldnt be asking this question!!!
**~~GOODLUCK~~**
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Could you bruise the pea-sized organ above the vagina? Because I think I did and hurts when I move. I am not sexually active or anything related to that.
I'll rate a 5 to anyone who tries. (link)
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Yes you could have bruises in that area.But they should be gone in a couple of days if not than you need to talk to a docter but dont worry if its there for a couple of days cause that happend to me and i was scared but i was not sexually active but then they where gone in a few days.Then i wasnt so worried:)
**~~GOODLUCK~~**
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a 6th grader calls me a demon and i need him to stop. help. (link)
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Why dose he call you that???Well all you have to do is ignore him!!!Cause if you call him a name he is going to keep calling you a demon.
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Okay I went out with this boy a grade ahead of me thinking i liked him (Let's call him George). It turned out i didn't really know George so I dumped him three days later. Now George is obbsesssed with me and I can't stand it. He keeps telling me how hot and beutiful I am and it's driving me insane! Yesterday I went to an amusement park and I was hanging out with my friends and the new boy that I like (lets call him Bob). George kept following us around EVERYWHERE. We tried to ditch him but then when we did he just kept calling my cell phone! It was getting so annoying that when he called I just had Bob answer my phone. I just want my own life back. What should I do? I don't want to be mean but I don't want to talk to him at all. I don't even want to be friends with him so don't tell me stuff like well just talk to him about it. I can't talk to him about it! So please help. I'll rate! (link)
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Well your going to have to be mean 2 him if he keeps on bothering you like that and it wont realy matter cause it seems like you dont like him at all.Or just get one of your friends to tell him to leave you alone and you dont wanna be friends since you dont wanna talk to him.
**~~GOODLUCK~~**
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What do you do when the person you love moves away, but not permanent he comes down one weekend in every month? Who do you go to when you have no one else to talk to because he’s always busy? What do you do when you think of the other girls he is probably with and talking to? Why do so many things run through your head when you are trying to get over him, because you know you will never be good enough for him? Why can’t he just accept me for who I am? I can’t be perfect, and if he loves me like he says, then there should be no problem. How do I stop crying my self to sleep every night because I miss him so much? Help please. I’ll rate high =] (link)
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the best thing i can say to is break up with him.he shouldnt be to busy for you if he loves you.he shouldnt just be able 2 see you one weekend every month.and this may sound stupid but if you realy think he is with another girl then ask him(turst is suppose 2 be a very important thing in a relationship).and if you think you are not good enough 4 him then find someone good enough for you.and if he cant accept you 4 who you are then you really dont need him.and my opinoin is that nothing can stop you from crying about him so much accept yourself.
**~~goodluck~~**
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what exactly does corny mean?
my friends say all the time oooh he's so corny, thats so corny.
what is corny???
also can you give examples
thanks (link)
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It means you try/make-up a joke thats not funny.
Ex:your so stupid you thought 1+1 was 1!!!
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My names "Ali" and i met my friend, joe in grade 7. I am now in grade 12 and hes in University. He has gay tactics which are not attractive for a girl. So i went to prom with him because we were friends and such. I think hes starting to like me though because hes overprotective and never wants me to like anyone even if their his best friends, (who are so sweet). His mom put our prom picture in her kitchen where his whole Italian family can see it. It is so annoying and i will never EVER like him more than just a friend. How should I tell him?
Sorry this is long (link)
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I think you should tell him the truth.That you dont like him.But what if he dosent like you what if he is just being over protective.If i where you i wouldnt jump into conclustions so fast.Just wait untill he shows you more signs(or clues).That he likes you.Then you can tell him you only like him as a friend.
*Good luck*
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i'm having a baby girl and i don't know what to name her..i am 6 months..can somebody give me a site or some names to name her..please help (link)
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Kristina
Amanda
Ashly
Grace
Nancy
Crystal
Amber
Tessy
Britney
Angel
Lina
Linda
Jackie
*Hopefully these helped*
*Good luck with the baby*
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There's this guy that works with me at the store and I'm worried that he has a crush on me. I'm flattered but I'm worried because he is only 17 and I'm 28.
I don't think he knows I'm that old, everyone at the store thinks I'm still a student, or under 20. I have a very young looking face.
He's a nice boy and I like talking with him but I'm worried it may cause a problem, like what if he really falls for me? The other thing is I don't flirt with him like some of the girls, I'm just friendly and helpful, which is maybe why he likes me because I'm different from the other younger girls. Today there was a problem with an item not scanning and he came up to me. he's a price checker and I work in the clothing. I fixed the problem and after he said to me "oh you REALLY helped us out", with a shy smile on his face. I've also noticed other times he's looked at me or was extra nice to me.
What should I do? I want him to like me but not THAT much. (link)
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You need to tell him how old you are and tell him you dont like younger guys.And you need to stop being so nice and friendly to him(but dont be mean).And tell him you only like him as a friend.Hopefully everything works out!!!!!
*Good luck*
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I have a friend, and whenever I go online, she almost always Instant Messages me. I was cool with it for a while, but no it's just irritating. I've put an away message up, but I always eventually come back. What can I do (It has to be nice)? (link)
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I think you should be honest with her.Tell her that she is IMing you a littel to much.But try not to sound so mean.Or you could do what other people said and tell her your not able to talk.Hopefully things work out!!!!!!
*Good luck*
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My best friend and I were going to go to the same college next year since we both got in and it's a good school (UT). Well I was talking to his mom today and college came up and she said that she was sorry that we wouldn't be able to go to the same school. I asked her what she was talking about because the plan was that both of us would go to UT. Well, it turns out that he had changed his mind a few weeks and go and now wants to go to Tx State.
This really upset me becuase I don't know why he didn't tell me about it. I'm not mad that he doesn't want to go to UT. If he thinks Tx State would be a better school for him and he really wants to go there then fine. But why not atleast share that info with me?
I can't believe I had to find out from his mom in a random conversation I had with her. Why do you think he didn't tell me? Should I ask him about it or wait until her brings it up (IF he brings it up)? (link)
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I think he didnt tell you cause yall are best friends and he didnt want to hurt your feelings by telling you that he wasnt going to UT.I think you should ask him about it instead of wating untill he tells you(who knows he might not tell you).But I think he didnt want to hurt your feelings by not going to UT.
*Good luck*
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