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confused love
alright,
well i have a boyfriend that i really do like. But before we were going out i liked this other guy but he already has a gf. but he still liked me a little bit. well then i started going out with a guy but i still have feelings for the other guy. and i talked to him on aim and he wants me to break up with my boyfriend so we can go out once hes single. i really like him but i dont want to hurt my boyfriend plus i really like him too! i dont kno what to do, help if you can,
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I'v been in that same situation before.. the best advice I have ever gotten from someone was.. follow your heart. It knows what it wants.. and it's the only thing that really does. You can take the chance and break up with your boyfriend for the other one, or stay with the guy you have now, and hope the other boy finds a new girlfriend.
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Only you know the anwser to this,.. It's up to you and your heart. You can always try to make a list. 2 column, once side of "boy" and one side for "boyfriend" and list why you like them. Which ever side has more at the end thats the one you should go out with, because that's the one you find you have most attrative. Like I said before thou, follow your heart.. It knows what you want :]
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Awh cute. Okay I know I should be telling you to do the right thing, but if you wanted to do the right thing you wouldn't have asked what to do. There are only two reasons people ask for advice on this specific situation and they are: to justify what they want to do from what they should do, or to figure out what is the right move and what is wrong. Obviously you know staying with your boyfriend is right but obviously you dont want to do that. From my opinion you should go for that other guy because he woldn't tell you to do that to your boyfriend unless he really liked you or he was a god awful person. And im assuming hes nice. What you need to consider is who you wuold be happier with and who will always be there for you. Becasue in the end you're going to want to be with that guy that makes you smile when you dont want to. Hope I helped Good luck xoxo.
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You may not like what I'm going to tell you, but it's something you need to learn. You don't want guys like that. Guys who have a girlfriend but like you and want you to wait for them to be single are among the worst types of guys. He's PLAYING you. If you want to break up with your boyfriend, do it for you, not for another guy. Because, believe me, you're not going to be happy with this other guy. To him, you are no different from the girlfriend he has right now, and the second he sees some other cute girl, he's going to do the same thing behind your back. I know you can't help the way you feel, but you know, he's like a flame. You want to touch it, but it will burn your hand off. You have a perfectly fine boyfriend! Stay with him! If you are too confused and feel like you can't stay with him, break up with him (gently!) and stay single until you can sort your feelings out. Tell him that even though you like him, you're just really confused at the moment. And about this other guy, have you tried asking him why he doesn't just break up with his girlfriend now? Try it. I suggest doing it in person, and making him look you in the eye--that way it's harder to lie. He'll probably say something like, "I can't right now." or make up some silly excuse. Don't buy it. He's not worth breaking up your happy relationship.
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Something somewhat similar happened to me a few years ago, and I stuck with the boyfriend I had, and I actually regret it. Honestly, the relationship is going to be miserable for you if you are not dedicated to him 100%. It's not fair to either of you to be in a relationship where both people are not fully in it. I suggest telling your boyfriend that you need to take a break to figure things out because if you continue going on liking both guys, it's just going to get more stressful for you, and the fact that you arent as happy with your current relationship as everyont thought you were will most likely begin to show. Plus, if you continue staying with your boyfriend, his love for you will continue to grow and if you realize later that you want to be with the other guy, it will end up hurting your boyfriend so much more than it would if you ended it now. I hope you take this into consideration, and I wish you alot of luck. You can i.m. me anytime if you need anything else. I really hope this helped.
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Well the guy that wants you to break up with your boyfriend to go out with him sounds like he is just looking for a gf. If he liked you before, why didn't he break up with his gf to go out with you? i would ask him why and then you decide who you think you would behappier with.
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If you realy like the guy your going out with then you should chose him.You cant break up with your boyfriend then wait for that other guy to be single.What if he dosent break up with his girlfriend then how would you feel?My answer to your question is stay with the guy your going out with!!If you really like the guy your going out with then you shouldnt be asking this question!!!
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