I had a column last summer, and loved it, but with school it slowly stopped updating. So, i have decided to make a new one. But anyways..
Im Myka. I have red hair, and have slowly grown to love it. Im pretty short, and am not gonna grow any more. I am a pretty simple person, but I am a perfectionist. I get discouraged if I dont achieve 100% at everything I do. My grades are really important to me, but I do have a life. Please, dont label me. I am a mix of everything. I dont judge people and will be your friend as long as you are nice. Im not picky with who I talk to. I just love to talk, and do it all the time. I am very hyper, probably 3 times more hyper than you can possibly be. I get a lot of headaches, because of surgery I had when I was a baby. I am a klutz, you will probably see me tripping over something more than you will see me physically walking. I love Jesus Christ more than anything in the entire world, I always will and the best day of my life will be the day that I am met by Him at the gates of Heaven. I am the biggest sports loving girl you may ever meet, so guys dont think all I do is worry about my make-up. I can probably own you at a battle of Sports trivia. My favorite sport would be football, and I am a DIE HARD Sooner. I havent decided what I want to do with my life, and that has started to stress me out. I like knowing what is going to happen, before it happens. I am a girly girl, and I admit it. My favorite color is pink and I enjoy stuffed animals. I cry at soppy love stories as well as during scary movies. I like to hold hands and hug. If you can make me laugh, you have me. I like all kinds of music, so just because I listen to country, doesnt mean I dont like rock as well. My family means the world to me. I would do anything for them. Im sorry , but the best friends anyone could ever have have already been taken by me. They are my heart and soul and I am so thankful for each and every one of them. I like to meet new people, and have a good time. Thats pretty much me. My screen name is :: yourfoolxx3 if you ever want to talk ♥
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Age: 15
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im a 13 year old female. my mom is very strict about "getting enough sleep" and i have a VERY early bedtime. i have to be off the computer by 8:50 pm and i have to be in bed and be watching a half hour tv show from 9:00 to 9:30. i HAVE to be sleeping by 9:30 pm. even if im not done with homework or want to read a couple more pages of my book, I HAVE TO BE SLEEPING. so i go to sleep at 9:30 pm and wake up at 6:45 am. I think i don't need that much sleep. my friends go to bed at 11:30 and they are still wide awake at school. and what makes it worse is that i have the SAME exact bedtime as my 9 year old sister. thats 4 years apart!! i don't think it's fair and i don't think its neccessary to be sleeping by 9:30 pm i feel if i went to bed at 10 or 10:30, i would still get the sleep i need. what time do you guys go to bed and do you think my moms being fair? how can i get my mom to change my bedtime? and shes very strict so i need some good ways to pursuade her with.
I WILL TOTALLY RATE. (link)
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My parents were the same way. I had the same bed time since i was TWO. and it was be in bed, sleeping by 9:00. My brother who is SEVEN years younger than me, had the same one. Everytime I went to get it changed, i went about it the wrong way and always turned it into an argument. What I would suggest is being very mature abuot it. Explain that teens need 8/9 hours of sleep and by going to bed at 10 you will still get that. Also, i would suggest asking for a "trial". Explain that it may help to have extra time for homework and studying. Let her know that if your grades begin to slip, or you fall asleep in class your bed time will go back to 9:30. Try being very rational and have a polite tone of voice. This worked so well for me that I actually have no bed time now.
I really hope that helps you!!
--love.love.
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If a boy haves a girlfriend but he likes u and and flrits and dos everthing dos he like me or not (link)
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There are two possibilities.
1)Either he is just a flirt. Maybe he doesnt realize he's doing it. And you could be taking things as flirting when he didn't mean them that way.
or
2)He truly does like you.
If he eventually tells you that he likes you, then I would be careful. If he flirted with you when he was going out with another girl, who's to say he wont flirt with a different girl when you're with him? Also, alot of guys during a serious relationship will begin to flirt with other girls because it's new. They've gotten used to the old, and are attracted by something new.
I really hope that helped.
--love.love.
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What makeup usually covers the red bumps? I know it's acne. But it's just RED, no i don't pick or pop at them. I use moisturizer and wait a few minutes because if i do it 10-15 mins later, my makeup cracks. like my face is dry or i used too much makeup o.o My skin is combination though. I dont know what to do use. I tried using concealer, foundation, powder but the red just shows right through and i look weird with lots of makeup on. I see other girls that cover them up nicely. I don't know how to do it. (link)
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I have this problem as well. However, i have found some stuff that seems to work miracles for mine. It's by Maybelline, it's called dream matte mousse. They have all different skin tones. It can be used as foundation, but i use it over my foundation and only on my blimishes. Just use your finger and kind of dab it over the acne.[someone the other day complimented me on how 'clear' my skin was, i was in shock. cause honestly, it's not clear at all]. This really works for me. Hope it helped
--love.love
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Well I'm going swimming tomorrow. Today I had my period for the first time and I tried a tampon. It was really hard to get out. I tried pulling it out in different directions and I tried like half a box of tampons and I'm pretty sure it's in correctly. The string almost broke when i tried to pull it out it hurts. My parents wont let me get in the water without a tampon and i cant sneak in without one because they check to make sure im not lying. Oh and ive tried the lowest absorbensy and lubricant stuff still doesnt help. Please help! (link)
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When I first started using tampons, i had a problem taking it out as well. My mom taught me a little trick. RELAX. If you tense up, your vaginal muscules will tighten as well, making it very difficult to pull out. Take deep breaths and don't think about it. Also, you have to let it get blood on it, if you're trying to take out a tampon that you just put it, it's dry cotton, which not only is hard to get out, but hurts. I really hope this helps!
--love.love.
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Can you guys give me some sites for codes on myspace, that can do stuff like, make the font cursive, make it like that small font, change the font, change the alignment of the font so I can put a picture and text side by side and other cool stuff? Kthnxbunches (link)
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i've got just the things for youuu
www.whateverlife.com
or
www.mygirlyspace.com
they're both good, i prefer whateverlife
hope this helps!
--love.love.
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did the "skinny jeans" phase originate in the fourties/fifties or the eighties?!
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I entered it into google, and any site I saw with a date said 80s. I hope this helps and is right!
--love.love.
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alright,
well i have a boyfriend that i really do like. But before we were going out i liked this other guy but he already has a gf. but he still liked me a little bit. well then i started going out with a guy but i still have feelings for the other guy. and i talked to him on aim and he wants me to break up with my boyfriend so we can go out once hes single. i really like him but i dont want to hurt my boyfriend plus i really like him too! i dont kno what to do, help if you can,
XconfusedX (link)
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Something somewhat similar happened to me a few years ago, and I stuck with the boyfriend I had, and I actually regret it. Honestly, the relationship is going to be miserable for you if you are not dedicated to him 100%. It's not fair to either of you to be in a relationship where both people are not fully in it. I suggest telling your boyfriend that you need to take a break to figure things out because if you continue going on liking both guys, it's just going to get more stressful for you, and the fact that you arent as happy with your current relationship as everyont thought you were will most likely begin to show. Plus, if you continue staying with your boyfriend, his love for you will continue to grow and if you realize later that you want to be with the other guy, it will end up hurting your boyfriend so much more than it would if you ended it now. I hope you take this into consideration, and I wish you alot of luck. You can i.m. me anytime if you need anything else. I really hope this helped.
--love.love.
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Hey. My mom won't let me buy tanning oil because I'm fair, but my arms have a little tan. She says I will burn wayyy easy. I saw one with spf 15, but she still wouldn't let me get it. Are their any tanning oils with a higher spf than 15? If there are one's with higher spf , will it be the same as using sunscreen lotion? Thanks, i rate 5's (link)
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I'm really really fair too, and my mom really doesnt let me tan. Instead, i use a gradual tanning cream that doesnt streak or anything. But my real reason for replying to this is because of the previous answer by someone. Please, be really careful if you use baby oil. I have had 4 friends use it and after being outside maybe 15-30, and every one of them has gotten burned so bad that their skin began to scab and ooze. And I don't want that to happen to you. So if you happen to do that, be VERY careful. Hope this helps.
--love.love.
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hi ok... i have my 8th grade graduation tomorrow or june 14th and like i have no idea what to do with my hair... do u have like a website that shows some hairstyles?? like i was gonna do half my head in corn rows then like the rest in curls... my lentgh of hair is like medium and i have no idea what to do! help and fast!! thanks!! (link)
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Go to google.com. then go click images. and type in hairstyles [or the kind that you may want] and it will bring up pictures of different hair styles. Or you can just go to straight google.com and search hairstyles and you get tons of good ones. That's what I do when i'm getting my hair cut.
good luck! have fun at your graduation!
--love.love.
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Well I've known this girl for about a year now and we're really good friends, but I'm starting to like her more than a friend (if you know what I mean.) The only problem is I don't know if I should ask her out or not. If I do and she says "yes", then great, but if she said "no", that would just be really awkward and it would be wierd every time I see her again. So...what should I do? (link)
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Always go for it. You will regret it later if you find out that she liked you as well and it could have turned into something amazing, but your fear got in the way.
When you ask her out, explain to her that you don't want it to hurt your relationship. Let her know that you have begun to have stronger feelings for her, but you understand if she only sees you as a friend and you don't want her knowing you like her to change anything.
so be like "I really like you and was wondering if you'd go out with me, but if not, I understand and I don't want this to change anything between us."
Good luck && hope I helped.
--love.love.
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ok....this is hard to talk about but im going to try to get it out best i can.im in college, and i really like this guy( ill call him rob) for a while. we never hooked up or anything, but talked dont the phone here and there.sometimes he use to joke around about things he wanted to do with me sexually,but i always just thought he was kidding because we were kinda friends.so this one day, i was really drunk and he called me to come over to his apartment. i was so excite because i really like him and he alwasy told me what a great girl i was and how he liked me alot. i thought one day he was really gunna get serious with me. Anyway, i went there and he told me he wanted me to listen to some song in his room, i went in and when i did his roomate was in ther and i kind aheard him tell him to leave, then he left rob locked the door. i started to get nervous because i wasnt really expeting to hook up with im or have sex, but i just went with it because i was so drunk. we end up starting to hook up and then it just got bad. we started to have sex, which was ok with me because i thought he really like me and it was going to be so great.it ended up be the most hurtful thing i have ever gone through, pyshcially and emotionally. he was having sex with me really rough, and it hurt really bad, i was very drunk but i managed to say your hurting me, so he would stop, but then he would just do the same thing again. he was throwing me around the bed like a rag doll, and i was crying inside.i said stop it hurts, but he took that as "stop for a sec then start again" this went on for a good 20 mintues till i fianlly made up some excuse to leave.when i left i cried the entire way home. i got home and i had bruises bewtween my legs already.i was so hurt because i though he like me and he treated me so terribly....but what i always wanted to know was...is that considered rape or something close to it???sorry so long, i just pushed it out of my mind for song long becauseit really screwed me up in the head to the point i cant trust guys anymore and talk of sex with a guy totally scares me...advice please what do you think??im i blowing this out of poportion? because i didnt exactly say or scream stop like i was being raped....i dunno please advice (link)
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I'm so sorry this happened to you, no one diserves that. And at first, it wasnt considered rape because you were willing. However, that changed the second you said stop and he refused. He crossed the line by not respecting your wishes. Please, don't let what he did hurt other guy's chances. You will find the right guy who won't act this way. Wait for someone you really trust to have sex with. Also, the next time you have sex you should talk to your partner and have a code word for when it hurts and you want him to stop.
I'm so sorry for everyting, but i hope this helps some.
--love.love.
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My hair tends to get very frizzy and puffy after being wet, I was wondering if there's any shampoo's, conditioners, or styling product that will prevent this. (link)
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I have just the thing for you! My mom's boss bought it for me when my mom told him about this problem. It's kind of expensive, but it's well wroth it. It's called 'defrizz' by 'Bumble and Bumble'. I usually mix it with Dove's 'Smooth & soft anti-frizz cream'. It works really well, i have the same problem. Also, John Freida makes a line of shampoo/conditioners for anti-frizz. Along with his Anti-frizz serem. Any of that will help alot.
good luck!
--love.love.
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what are some REALLY REALLY good books for teen girls. i dont want just a light fluffy book. i want it to have like a really good story n stuff. thanks! (link)
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I know someone below me said the same thing, but Sarah Dessen books are amazing. I love her. Her stories are really good, and they're all very easy, light, and good reads. I usually don't like to read, but I can stay up until like 4 in the morning reading one of her books.
--love.love.
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Well my boyfriends 17th birthday is comming up, yet i have no idea what to get him. I have of course asked him, and as most boys say, "i don't want anything" or "I don't know". Of course that was the response i got.
He's skater (if that may help in any bit)
And i don't have too much money, so any ideas could be helpful.
Thanks so much.
and if anyone could, please add this to your myspace.
http://www.myspace.com/most_cute (link)
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hah the dreaded boyfriend gifts...uhm, if he's a skater, maybe try PacSun or something and get him a skateboard brand hat or shirt. if you want something original, you could try making a sticker for him to put on his board..as cheesey as it is. hah. hope that helped at all.
--love.love.
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Okay, I was wondering what the best photo editing shop is, where you can add in cool backgrounds, do touch ups, reduce red-eye, blur or unblur the photos, blemish remover, color changing..things like that I wanted to get one of those and try it out and see how I liked it but I want to know where some good "free trials" or so I could test some things out before I wanted to go buy a disk for that product. (link)
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http://www.adobe.com/ they have all kinds of photo editing. My favorite is the Adobe InDesign. It's really cool. They use Adobe PageMaker to make magazines and yearbooks and such, so it has some cool editing tools as well.
--love.love.
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my hair grows super slow. is there anything that i could do to make it grow faster?
ill rate 5's (link)
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My hairdresser has told me that to get your hair to grow faster, you have to cut it. The more you cut it, the faster it will grow. Which I know is difficult, because if your hair grows slow, it will take a while for it to be long enough for you to cut. But i've started getting trims every 2 months or so, and i really have noticed that my hair grows faster than it used to.
Hope this helped
-love.love.
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So this weekend I have a hockey tournament and Im playing 6 games in 2 days. But thats not the problem. It takes 1 hour to play a hockey game and I will be playing 2 games with only 10 minutes of down time. Yeah, and its tiring to play! I'm going to do this 3 times--- 2 games on friday, 4 on sunday with 10-20 minutes of downtime between each pair. OK. thats not making sence. But all I know is that my coach told me to get energy drinks. Which are really good ones that work pretty fast, like within 1 hour or so? I'll RATE!
Thanks
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for a science project, I had to drink a Monster energy drink to see how it effected my heart. In an hour, my heart rate went up about 40 or so beats a minute, and i was excessivly awake. However, it was my first time to drink it, which probably made the effects greater. This would probably be a good one to drink before a game. Another guy in my class drank a Redline. Those can be dangerous if you have too many, but after one he didn't sleep that night. Hope that helps
--love.love.
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hiya,
well... am 13 n i havn't EVER had a boyfriend! im not tht bad lukin but am sorta big.
Im 13 and i waigh 11 stone! im on a diet atm wich is workin 4 me.. am goin to the gym and so on.
How can i let myself get a boyfriend? any beuty tips or anything.. plus i have bags under my eyes! please help! x (link)
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Being 13 and not having a boyfriend is not a big deal. Although it may seem like everyone has one, if you really look at it, most likely, they don't. And it's good that you're getting yourself in shape, but looks aren't everything. Guys should like you for what's on the inside, and if they don't, they're not worth dating. However, if having a boyfriend is REALLY important to you, then try hanging out wtih guys more often. Find a group, and go to the movies, or swimming. Be yourself, and flirt a little ;). Get their screen name and talk online. The more you get to know them, but better the relationship will be. Hope some of that helped.
--love.love.
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I was wondering if there was any possible way to get pregnant if sperm gets on your clothes or in your underwear, but not directly inside of you? Example if someone is fingering you and you both get really into it. Thanks. (link)
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yes, it is possible. At my school there is a program that comes to talk about sex each year to the health classes and the speaker told us a story about a teenage girl that came to their pregancy help center. She was pregnant, but had never had intercourse with her boyfriend, only dry sex. It turned out that through the dry sex she got pregnant. So, unfortunately by sperm only getting on your clothes or underwear you can get pregnant.
--love.love
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ok today was my 1st day at driver tranning and we had a road drive already, and i really need to inprove my turning. Any tips?? (link)
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During one of my drive time's the girl I was with had the same problem. My teacher told her that when her shoulder lined up with the curb is about when she should start turning. Also, make sure to slow down as you approach the turn, but give it a little gas as you are actually turning to pull the car through the turn.
--love.love.
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