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What should I do?
Well I've known this girl for about a year now and we're really good friends, but I'm starting to like her more than a friend (if you know what I mean.) The only problem is I don't know if I should ask her out or not. If I do and she says "yes", then great, but if she said "no", that would just be really awkward and it would be wierd every time I see her again. So...what should I do?
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ask her out. you only have one life to live. and if she does say noo then just dont make it awkward just make her laugh and stuff. most of the time...girls like guys but they dont know and they never ask them out so the girls are disappointed.
hope i helped
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just like talk to her friends and have them ask her stuff like whould you EVER go out w/.. your name. don't act different around her though because you have to think which would be betterr.. a girlfriend orr a good friend ! ♥ care
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i can tell you what to do thats a chance that you have to take it's up to you to decide if you wanna be a risk taker
Jazzy**
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I have had the same problem. Or at least something similar.
I had a crush on this boy for the longest time. I told him I liked him on the last day. Then the next day I told him how i felt about him through the phone. I thought he wouldn't like me back, but things came out great.
You shouldn't be scared to ask her out. Yes, you can get nervous at first. but that's natural. I was nervous to tell him I liked him. But you'll never know. Make this time a memorable.
Girls find it pretty attractive/sweet when guys tell them how they feel about them. How much they like/love them and care for them.
But it never hurts to give it a shot. Trust me, in the end, you won't regret it.
Good luck! :)
-Paper_Heartsz
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ASK HER OUT! if she says no dont worry about it..tell her u still wana be friends!
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You should definitely ask her out.
You'll never know unless you try & you might regret it big time, because she might like you back, but she's waiting for you to make the first move.
What's the worst thing she could do? Tell you that she doesn't like you back as a boyfriend, right? It might seem like it'll be awkward, but it won't. Trust me. Only for a little bit & then eventually you'll begin to realize that you're better off being friends anyways, and everything always has a purpose.
-aMy.
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ask her out b.c you never know what she could say and even if she does say no shes still your friend and if you talk to her it wont be that awkard
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you should always go for a chance.. you will always regret not going for it or not takin the chance.. if you really like her then you should tell her how you feel... the only thing you can do is just try it out.. if you dont then you wont ever know if she feels about you.. what if she feels the same way about you?? then you will feel worse because you never did anything about it..
--Laina
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mmk, well I'm gonna give you some advice... I know some firends who had the same thing happen. One of my friends was asked out by her best friend who she had known forever, he told her he cared about her, she didn't feel the same. She told him and they worked everything out, they got to movies, dances, and out ta eat together still even after what happened. Eventhough it didn't work out between them the are still really good friends (probably the best). If this girl ends up not liking you in that way, u telling her how you feel could make your friendship even stronger! She will know that you care so much for her even more than she probably thinks! And if you have the kind of person who can be satisfied even to have this girl as a best friend alone (even after you've told her how you feel) she will respect you even more. But it is more than likely that this girl may feel the same for you, it's MUCH easier on girls when the guy makes the first move. Just thought I'd try and help you out. I'm sure everything will work out.
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aww!
cute!
lol
ok
tell her how you really feel about her she might feel the same way she could be hiding it just like you trust me my freind likes this one guy who she has known for about 4 years now and she hasnt told him but she obsesses over him ALL THE TIME
so i would tell her how you really feel or just start out saying
i need to tell you something.
i like you
so then if she doesnt feel the same way you can always be like
well i meant as a freind
or something like that
or i would do something romantic
like
cooking her dinner.
renting her favorite movie.
etc..
then she might confess her love for you.
this is so cute
well
goodluck!
<3
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well you should take a chance maybe she will say yes and you might get your wish but if she says no at least you gave it a shot and in the future or whenever she might want to go out with you so you should give it a chance.
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Always go for it. You will regret it later if you find out that she liked you as well and it could have turned into something amazing, but your fear got in the way.
When you ask her out, explain to her that you don't want it to hurt your relationship. Let her know that you have begun to have stronger feelings for her, but you understand if she only sees you as a friend and you don't want her knowing you like her to change anything.
so be like "I really like you and was wondering if you'd go out with me, but if not, I understand and I don't want this to change anything between us."
Good luck && hope I helped.
--love.love.
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Well, since its near the end of a school year, in the yearbooks, put in hers how you feel about her. It will probably turn out GREAT. and you two will be happy. If you dont you could say it was all a joke. But maybe she secretly likes you to?
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