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I like to dance,sing,cook,do flips,and do a split. I ahve some real friends and some fake friend. I hate when peolpe lie.Alot of the boys in my school like me.

advice

Theres this guy we are kinda going out he tells me he loves me and i love him as well but he says I love you to other girls and flirts with them as well.

So I'm thinking that I'm being played here

whats going on?

I think you are being played. If you feel that hes playing you then say something he is your boyfirend and he shouldnt be flirting with anybody. So speak up and let your voice be heard, tell him how you feel.

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Okay, this is long so be prepared. Let's call this guy Fred. He's in 11th grade and I'm in 9th. Obviously, I really like him. Heh so we met like at the second month of this school year? I really don't know how because I didn't know him and vice versa...but like one day out of random he hugged me at lunch saying "She's a cutie." to a friend that we both know. And after that, I was walking to lunch with my bff and the friend that we both know and Fred were like "Come stand in line with us." and I was like why? And his friend and Fred were like "Because you're pretty/beautiful." And my bff was like "He likkeeess you." btw, my bff is a guy that's gay. Anywhos, then after that he puts his arms around me [not possessivly but rather like cute-ly?] haha. Twice he almost got in trouble for it. Also, during one of the [strings] concerts, he was backstage waving at me frantically =P He also calls me a nickname he made me, cute, pretty, and beautiful a lot. He also gives me bear hugs and always gets up to stand with me when I go over to his lunch table. Last time he was like "You're tall for a girl." and I was like "Hmmm, I'm still shorter than most people." and he goes "I'm still short" [yet, he's still taller than me XD] I go "You're not short. You're taller than me." and then he goes "Well, I like tall girls. Do you like tall guys?" and I was like "Why not?" Haha anyways, do you think he likes me, or what? Tell me the truth. I won't give you 1's because I didn't want to hear the answer.

gurl if he does all this stuff to you then go for it. DOnt wait for some other girl to take him away. Go for it if you really like him. If he really likes yuou then he would say yes..

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ok theres this guy that ive been going out with for about four months now. well, now im starting to REALLY like this other guy and i want to break up with my boyfriend, but im afraid he'll hate me. cuz weve gone out before and when i broke up with him, he ignored me for months. i dont want that same thing to happen, cuz i still wanna be friends with him. what should i do?

I think that you should tell him and hope that he still wants to be your friend.If that doesn't work then maybe he doesn't want to let you go now.

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ok me and my boy friend have been thinking about having sex and he has had sex with people befor but i am a vergin, he told me that in the past he has just pulled it out befor the came instead of using a condom... and thats what he wants to do but i dontkno if that is compleatly safe..plz tell me if this is safe i need to kno! thank you! byes

It is not safe so you shoudn't do it with out a condom. Unless you want to have children at a young age you should really use a condom.

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My boyfriend has a friend thats a girl, and theyve been friends for a couple of years. They have pet names for each other and talk all the time. He doesnt talk about her all the time, but, when he does I just get mad. I dont know why, I just do. Hes always concerned or worried about her. I really dont like it when he talks about her but I want to help him because hes always worried about her. Am I just being jelous? What should I do? I'm so confused.

You are being jealous and you shoudn't be confused mjust talk to him and find out the problem because ya'll have some issues that you need to really work out.

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hi! sorry if this might be a bit long but i realy need an answer
me and one of my friends do voulentire work at a farm with people with learnin disabilities. the other day this woman brought to baby guineapigs in and i took one and my friend took one! there reali little only about as big as a hamster and we were goin to put them wih our pet rabbits but i thort that it was to small and that my rabbit might hurt it so its in a cage in the house now but my friend did after i said it mite be to small and her rabbit stood on it and she had to get it put to sleep! the staff at farm are all ace! but my friend turned round and told my not to say out about having it put to sleep as hey might hink she cant look after it properly but i fel sooo bad lieing to then about it as they ask daily how our guineapigs are both getting on and i hate it when my friend turnes round and say its hers is fine!! i want to tell the staff at farm as i hate having to lie to them but i promised i wouldnt to my friend and if i did say something to them she deffinatly wouldnt talk to me whitth them causes problems at farm as i no from experiance!! also if i did say that and then the staff know that she was lieing to them they might think less of her and it would be all my fault
sorry its so long but im realy stuck about what to do xx thank you

If you know you should do the right thing then go ahead. If she really is your freind she will forgive you. So make sure that you do the right thing.

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I getting to know this really fantastically stunning girl,so I really need help from girls or guys on what do I say to keep the conversation going and be funny? for the girls, what do your boyfriends talk to you about? and for guys, what do you say to girls?, it would help if you listed some topics or joke sentences for me.so far I have talked to her about music, school and subjects, and movies.what else is there????thanks a lot for any advice given.

talk to her about stuff that she would like.anything if she likes school talk about school and if she likes music talk to her about music talk to her from the heart.

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what does it mean when you're seeing someone? does that mean you're with the person but then you're allowed to date other people?

that means you go out with the person. Your seeing that person, you can't say that your seeing someone if you don't go out with him.

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My friend, who I used to be best friends with, used to go out with this guy that I like now. They had gone out for 7 months. I talked to him, and told him that I like him, and he said he likes me as well. I went to my friend and asked her what she would do if me and her ex went out, and she said that she probably wouldn't be able to be friends with me anymore. Her ex is still friends with her, and doesn't want to hurt her feelings. I kind of feel the same way, but I'm leaning more towards not being her friend anymore anyway because we barely ever get along anymore. I really want to go out with this guy, but I don't know what to do, because I don't want my friend getting hurt, and he doesn't want to hurt her as well. Any suggestions?
-- How would I convince him to not care what she thinks, and just go out with me? she broke up with him anyway, so what's the big deal?
Please help me.
oh and by the way, nothing happened in their relationship anyway, they'd barely talk and hang out, and when they were together at school, they didn't walk together in hallways, they hang out in the morning, but not talk, so the breakup was bound to happen, so much feeling towards each other, really didn't happen. she knew i liked him, if she didn't wanna be jealous she should have stayed with him... happiness of others has to stop just because she would be jealous? .... --- and me and her aint much of friends anymore either, and i know we won't become good friends again so yea... please help me ... give suggestions. .

if she was really your friend she wouldn't care who you go out with even if it was her ex boyfriend. My friend told me that she liked my boyfriend and wanted to go out with him and i told her to go ahead becasue it didn't really matter anymore becasue I just want her to be happy. If she wanted you to be happy she will let you go out with him. She is just begining self-fish nad doesn't want to see you happy. So go out with him and be happy.

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Ok..soo i like this guy named Joe and he knows some of the guys at my school. Well the guys at my school dont really like me because something happened about a month back and they just think im confusing to deal with. Well..i think the guys have told Joe about me..and have talked bad about me. Im really upset because ive tried to apologize to those guys but they wont accept..they just hate me. How do i get those guys to at least be nice to me or better yet friends. I mean i dont want ppl giving me a bad name.
help please

well don't care what people think, just worry about what you think about yourself and your body. If they say something bad about you to the new kid don't worry about it if he believe's them then let him if he doesn't try to talk to him and tell him what really happened.

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Well I've known this girl for about a year now and we're really good friends, but I'm starting to like her more than a friend (if you know what I mean.) The only problem is I don't know if I should ask her out or not. If I do and she says "yes", then great, but if she said "no", that would just be really awkward and it would be wierd every time I see her again. So...what should I do?

well you should take a chance maybe she will say yes and you might get your wish but if she says no at least you gave it a shot and in the future or whenever she might want to go out with you so you should give it a chance.

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so i party alot and so does my boyfriend and recently i walked off with my friends boyfriend and my boyfriend freaked out like saying he wasnted to kill her boyfreind so i broke up with my boyfriend ))who i really liked(( in front of everybody like cusing at him and the works and so i left ((this was a 3 am ) and he called a million times that night and the next day and he still thinks we going out but i clearly stated ITS OVER but i dont thin he gets that> how should i tell him i want to be friends nothing more and also its hard because we are going to six flags on saturday with his family ugh what should i do?

explain it to him so he does get it. Just find another boyfriend and maybe then he'll understand.

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I have a best friend whom I've known since the 7th grade, and one of the things we promised each other in our ring of friends is that "Friends come first always before boyfriends." However, I feel that this best friend of mine is not keeping this promise. Besides being close friends with me, she also had this really close guy-friend since the 7th grade, who has now become her boyfriend. I know that I should understand that its okay for her to be closer to him because they were close before, and are now in a relationship together, but I feel hurt that its against what we promised... Like, she would always, always stress it to to us that friends are always first, but this now seems hypocritical... We rarely talk on the phone anymore, or talk at all because she's always spending time with her boyfriend... What can I do to repair this friendship, or to understand???

Thank you very much. (16/f - Junior)

well if she doesn't keep her promise you shouldn't keep your promise either. If you think that she betrated you guys then all of you should get boyfriends to because me and my friends made that path. Everytime I have a boyfriend i still hang out with my friends becasue he wants to know them because their like sisters to me. Anyway get a boyfriend.

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Hey. Well yeah, theres this boy and I liked him for a very, very long time now. He finally broke up with his girl friend, but he still doesn't like me. Every time one of my friends ask he says I don't know. Just today one of my ex boyfriends, my first love, told me that he liked me again. We were talking for a while. I don't know what to do. When he told me he liked me I had butterflys and felt like we were starting over again. I don't know if I should wait longer, because I already waited about 3 months for this first boy, or if I should go back out with my first love. Please help.

well if you waited for him for three months now then he's not worth the wait. If i had to choose i would pick my ex- boyfriend because if something happened the first time then we can fix it a second time.

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13/f
I have a really big and annoying problem: I pretty much like every guy I come across. It's really annoying... all I do is stare at them. And it's not just guys from school! It's celebrities too. I'm so tired of it; I feel like I can't concentrate. I've had a boyfriend before, but I dumped him because he wasn't a good boyfriend. Does this have anything to do with it? What should I do?

Yes it does have something to do with your problem. Maybe you should pay attention to something else. I had the same problem but i stopped. The way i stopped is to listen to alot of music. Make new friends that aren't boys. MAybe you'll forget about it.

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Okay i like this guy Chris and he liked me one time before? and i told him like yesterday i like him and hes like well i dont like you like that.And it really upsets me.because at semi=formal he was supposed to be my date and he ditched me for a girl who didnt like him and led him on and no he likes another exactly like that..ugh can you tell me how to get over it and how to actually tell if a guy likes me not just for like 2 days

well you can tell if they like you if they keep on messing with you. If they call you names. Tell him what that girl is doing to him .Make him find out because it isn't good if they don't know.

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My boyfriend broke up with me because
he thought we'd be better off as best friends again.
We were best friends before.
I'm in hell right now I miss him so much.
I want to be back with him...I dont know what to do. Should I talk to him about it?
I'm a wreck.

You should talk to him and tell him how you feel because all these feelings for him cannot be kept up inside. So sit him down and whatever tell him how you still feel about him.

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My friend, who I used to be best friends with, used to go out with this guy that I like now. They had gone out for 7 months. I talked to him, and told him that I like him, and he said he likes me as well. I went to my friend and asked her what she would do if me and her ex went out, and she said that she probably wouldn't be able to be friends with me anymore. Her ex is still friends with her, and doesn't want to hurt her feelings. I kind of feel the same way, but I'm leaning more towards not being her friend anymore anyway because we barely ever get along anymore. I really want to go out with this guy, but I don't know what to do, because I don't want my friend getting hurt, and he doesn't want to hurt her as well. Any suggestions?
-- How would I convince him to not care what she thinks, and just go out with me? she broke up with him anyway, so what's the big deal?
Please help me.

If she was a true friend she woiuld let both of ya'll be happy and not interfere. If you like him and he likes you then it doesn't matter what she thinks and if she is threating you with your friendship then she's maybe jealous. If you want to convince him tell him you or his ex girlfriend. If he chosse her then you really have know choice.

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hey everone ok well i have this friend and she's mad at me /c i told some people about this guy she told me abuout.. and ya we're not friends nmore.. and she lives across the street from me!!! omg now her friends r making fun of me.. and today one of them wuz making fun of me of how i walk... and ya my mom thinks im friends w/ her still and i can't tell her that we're not friends nemore over some stupid guy!! cuz she'll get really mad at me!! so what should i do? pleese help me!!!

You should go up to her and tell her how you feel about the fight and if that doesn't work then you could write her a letter and explain everything to her.

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ok all i've asked a q b4 (have a look to see the background to theis q) i have a new b/f- yay go me! but we've only been together a month, i realy like him and i think he likes me back. i'm still scared of commitment and i still get scared when he touches me. and i pull away every time he makes a move. he thinks i don't like him back. how do i tell him bout my rape and what i feel like without making him run away?

I think you should tell him. It could ruin your relationship with and you said it yourself you lilke him him alot. So tell him what happened to you and maybe he will take your relationship slow.

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