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me and my boyfriend 1 year anniversary will be coming up in a couple weeks. were very close and i already know what hes making me dinner and getting me a really expensive ring. but problem is, i have no idea what to get him. any ideas? i rate 5's. (link)
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On the whole guys, don't really require a whole lot of anything. I know, that for me personally, the smile and glowing look I get from her is plenty.
Try to stick to his interests though. I know that a lot of girls will try to pick up hints based on the gifts they receive. (This is incredibly silly, by the way.) Guys don't do that.
If he is making you dinner, why not try a special dessert?
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hey guys it's been a long time since i have written alot has happend...well i broke up with scott awhile ago it was just too much for me i could'nt handel it he kept getting locked back up and everything..well i have started talking to Timothy he's 18 and we've known each ohter since i was about 8 we have dated on and off forever and he moved and we lost contact with each ohter well he's back and this is the guy i kissed while i was dating scott...well timothy lives about an hour away from columbus and my parents don't approve so we have to sneak around i hate it so much..my parent's dont like him becasue when we were younger he did drungs but he stopped and he's 18 and i'm 16. see i don't think that's a big deal at all. but me and timothy have been talking about getting married and when i'm 18 i'll move in, i love Timothy so much he was my frist real love. he was so many frist's for me, but i still have two more years until i am 18 and i am scared he will get sick of wating around for me and leave and that scares me so much.. i know what i have with him is real and i don't know what to do, i mean its not even just that there is alot of things becasue of our age difference please give me some feedback thanks (link)
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I'm gonna answer this for you. I'm gonna be truthful, and brutally honest from a man's perspective.
You are at a point in your life where even the little decisions you make can really affect and dictate how your life goes for the next...well...really long time.
I really do understand that what you feel for Timothy is real, he most likely feels the same way. I'm not even going to get into the whole "my parents don't like him because of a drug past" thing, because that would take much too long.
I will say though, that you really need to take a step back and look at things. Let me give you a little background...
I'm 23, moved in with a girl right out of high school. I graduated in the top 5% of my class, could've gone to college just about anywhere, and had an altogether bright future.
Everything changed when I moved in with her. Suddenly, everything became a struggle, because everything was about her. My life got put on hold.
I now have no further education and a pretty dismal future. Get the picture?
Age really doesn't matter a whole lot, so don't get hung up on that.
Unfortunately, I think this is one of those times where you really need to think with your head and not your heart. If he loves you as much as we all hope he does, he will understand and wait until you have everything in order. (i.e. an education, career, etc.)
Hope this helps!
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ok, in short: I just started highschool, my class hated me but I found a couple of girls that were cool. One in particular, the thing is..she's prettier than me, smarter than me..and yes, better than me. And today we had a fight, and there's no doubt in my mind that everyone will choose her side. Also, going in to the school, I had a couple of close friends from my previous school, that REALLY loved me, I was their little cute friend who they had to protect sort of. Now as soon as I got to the school, she had to make them all like her BETTER. It feels like everyone I know, she has to know BETTER. Everything I do, she has to do BETTER. And the list goes on. So one of my fears after this fight is that all my old friends will side with her since she'll be going around saying stuff. And I'm known for the quite shy girl. So I can't to anything to stand up for myself, she's used to catfights, she'll know what to say to embarress me, to shut me up. I don't stand a chance. And no, I can't talk to my old friends, because they like her more now, and I just don't have that courage. I've tried "talking" back to her when she insults me (in a joking way) but she always wins, so I know for sure I won't be able to do anything. I'm just frustrated, I hate who I've turned into! I'm the shy girl who can't stand up for herself, how can I be proud of myself? I just wish I could like myself, you know? Please help me with what to do!! (link)
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The first thing I want ask is, What was the fight about in the first place?
You have to walk around with your head held high, whether you think this girl is better than you or not. Chances are she is a very shallow person and uses all of her 'friends' in a small way to get some gain out of it. If this is the case, she will be called out on it eventually anyway. If your friends, old and new, are flocking to this girl, I would definately say it's time to make some new friends.
Going to a new school is a very scary thing, especially if you just enter high-school. That puts you on the bottom of the totem pole. How you handle yourself now, could dictate your entire high-school life.
My advice to you is, don't say anything. Is it really worth it to show your ass in front of everyone, just like her? That only proves that you are trying too hard to be like her, which is exactly what you want to avoid. Pick up your self-esteem, look her in the eye, say 'I'm sorry', and leave it at that. By doing this, you are better than she could ever be. You would be surprised at how many people will take notice of it.
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This is probaly a stupid question but I would really like to know. Do guys think about girls after they break up with them? I mean my boyfriend "well was my boyfriend broke up with me yesterday in the hallway at school, in front of a lot of people. The nerve of that idiot, and then he asks me if we can still be friends. But I still miss him a lot and I still like him I hate to say. Do you think he's thinking about me at all? (link)
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The answer to your question is 'Yes'. I'm a little bit older than the "He broke up with me in hallway" stage, but I have to say that guys, on the whole, are not as 'hard' as most girls think we are. We hurt, and strangely enough we do care. I'm 23 and can remember the name, and something special about every girl I've dated since I was 15.
So, yes, he is still thinking about you, and probably will for a while. What I would say in a case like this, is that he just hasn't really learned how to deal with women yet. Guys your age take a while to learn a thing called 'tact', and are often viewed as fairly rude. This will change as they grow up. I'm quite certain you've got other prospective guys lined up.
Keep your chin up!
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