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Inside a boy's mind
This is probaly a stupid question but I would really like to know. Do guys think about girls after they break up with them? I mean my boyfriend "well was my boyfriend broke up with me yesterday in the hallway at school, in front of a lot of people. The nerve of that idiot, and then he asks me if we can still be friends. But I still miss him a lot and I still like him I hate to say. Do you think he's thinking about me at all?
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Guys do still think about girls after they have broken up. Guys may be very different to girls but they still have the same feelings and just because they aren't with a girl any more, it doesn't mean that girl is erased from his memory.
However, although he may still think of you, as much as I hate to say this, it doesn't necessarily mean he thinks of you in the same way. Although you still like him, he broke up with you (however insensitively it may have been done) for a reason and it may be he only thinks of you as a friend now.
You will get over him so please don't dwell on it too much. There will be a guy out there somewhere just waiting to be the man of your dreams. You just haven't found him yet.
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Hey Sweetie,
Of course he still is thinking about you. Alot of boys feel the need to breakup with their girlfriends for no apparent reason if thats what he did with you usually because of "Another girl". But your gonna have to learn that your probably still young, an you will look back an think this was all puppy love hopefully in the future but yes I know you can never determine fate from what you make all you can do it live it. As of the other people in the hallway dont worry about it, honestly they arent important an if its that bad to the point that they were talking about it then obviously they have no life if they are waisting their life on talking about your life! Just be you, stay beautiful and always "TRUST your instincts" and remember, if he is worth having he is worth waiting for, an that goes for any boy even your ex!!
-Stephanie-
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The answer to your question is 'Yes'. I'm a little bit older than the "He broke up with me in hallway" stage, but I have to say that guys, on the whole, are not as 'hard' as most girls think we are. We hurt, and strangely enough we do care. I'm 23 and can remember the name, and something special about every girl I've dated since I was 15.
So, yes, he is still thinking about you, and probably will for a while. What I would say in a case like this, is that he just hasn't really learned how to deal with women yet. Guys your age take a while to learn a thing called 'tact', and are often viewed as fairly rude. This will change as they grow up. I'm quite certain you've got other prospective guys lined up.
Keep your chin up!
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