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Ok so i recently got a 95 dodge avenger, which is pretty sweet i might add, if anyone knows what they look like, is there something i can cover up the black near the tail lights with? because it goes tailight black reverse reverse tailight and theres black inbetween the two, adn my car is white, is there like a cover i can stick on that? (link)
Yes Mam :)

You can look online for Tail light covers. My Boyfriend has the entire blacked out vehicle affect. I would reccomend ebay , or just google tail lights in whatever color your interested in whether they are black, white , clear etc. Just remember if your investing in black to take them off during night time soooo no crazy cops assume anything , I know they have made quite few assumptions with some of my friends whom had blacked out head/tail lights.


What cream can help cure a male yeast infection?? (link)


I would recomment going to your Doctor, and looking at getting a medication called Diflucan. If your just looking at a cream , or over the counter medication , you can try Monistat or GyneLotromin cream an you just apply it to the reddened itchy area :)


do they let 16 year old ship or do u have to be 18 or older (link)
No , I believe you can be any age . As long as you have stamps and an envelope your set. My Daddy is in the Navy I used to write to him all the time an my mom would tell me what all needed to be on the envelope . SO I wouldn't see why you couldn't . Hopppe I helped ya out a bit !



well im 17 and i like boys you can say im a little boy crazy and i have had boyfriends in the past but at my school there are alot of couples and i get all sad when i see cute couples walking in school when ever i see them hold hands i get sad whenever i see the couples kiss or play around i get all sad and i start to feel lonley i dont know what to do i mean im not ugly you know and im pretty nice... how do i get a boyfriend? if thats not the right think to do then what do i do to not feel lonley but still have a guy without him being my boyfriend and if then how do i just get my mind of boys???? :) any advice? (link)
Be Patient, Good things come to those who WAIT :)


My boyfriend and I have been together for five months and up until now have had a very strong and loving relationship. Recently, we have started to have lots of arguments, primarily about the fact that I feel slightly sidelined by his busy lifestyle.

We have always been open with each other and make sure we talk about the problems we are having, and today I told him that I didn't see how we could continue like this, especially as things will get busier what with exams and the growing success of his musical career. His reply was that every single problem we have is entirely down to me.

I know we love each other very much, but at the moment I really don't know how to solve this seemingly permanent problem. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

16/f (link)
Well if I were in your position an I really LOVED my boyfriend I would try to make a compromise on his life an my life an than OUR life together. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3yrs an we have our little arguments about him working together Tuesdays-Sunday giving him ONE day off out of a week, It sucks because yeah I admit it's my last year of highschool but at the same time I like being with my boyfriend but at the same time he needs money for bills an not to mention him living by himself. But all you need to do is make a compromise just because times are getting hard for you both ask him to maybe come over BEFORE his band practice or after, Maybe ask him every 2 days to come over your house an change up the routine a bit. But I wouldn't end a relationship because it's not going your way an how you want an expect it to, Stuff happens an Stuff WILL test your relationship an this is just your chance to prove how strong it really is :)


ok well i went over this boys house last weekend and we ended up making out and you knpow just messin around. well things really clicked we had hung out once before but that was the first time we had done somthing. so hes my best friends cousin and shes fine with everything but he said he would call but never did. he has basketball and i know hes busy but i mean he could have called what do you guys think?. (link)
Well it sound's kind of bad but it seems to me like he was just using you. I don't know the kid what so ever but if I were to kiss a guy an he hadn't called me a few days after that kiss took place than that would bother me but at the same time tell me something like maybe that was just his intention to kiss me, An if things went further than he probably wanted that too. But just don't let it bother you give him the fuck it attitude because if you show you care than he knows he's got you.


ill be 15 in a week and im with this guy and im kinda prude. i dont really no how to not be prude like i just feel akward soometimes when he like feels me up and stuff. and his friend asked me today why i went to his house last nite and no one was there and we didnt do n e thing then he called me prude. i feel so akward now. and idk what he ment by doing nothing but we couldnt have sex or n e thing cuz im on my period but he doesnt no that. ahhhhh this suckss. i would appricate some advicee =] (link)
Okay well your still young an it does seem to me that you want to do stuff but you just feel awkward getting comfortable and letting him see your body or even touch you. When my boyfriend and I first got together I didn't understand alot I was no where near expierenced because the sheltered life I was used to. You don't have to have sex with him RIGHT now unless you feel comfortable an you seem like you dont by the way you took time out to write it all out online. But what I would do is let the relationship progress an the longer yall date the more comfortable you will be around him an stuff will get better :)

-Stephanie


for a very long time nothing boy wise was going my way i would start talking to a boy then as soon as i started liking him something would happen and we would stop talking like that well last weekend i was hanging at my friends cousins house and we really clicked and we kissed so i thought that things were finally working out for me but he hasnt called. i honestly dont know what else to do. i feel like theres something wrong with me but i dont know what to think anymore. any comments/advice>!> (link)
Well honestly if a guy isn't calling you after yall kissed give him the cold shoulder if you act like you DONT care than somehow guys find that attractive. I mean I have no clue why boys like that but I am that way an it happens to just get them all the time. But that's my best advice don't let it bother you but be shady toward him if he is going to act that way toward you an don't let him show you it gets to you because in some cases that's what guys want.


i was thinking about getting my tongue pierced but i was wondering if there was any riskes involved?? like infections or something that can make you lose your tongue..... adn when your kissing would it get in the way?!? (link)
Tongue piercings are really cute but really scary at the same time. My friend got her pierced an was told to take it out an never really put it back in, she went to get it redone an it messed up her entire tongue the second time around because they cant pierce it in the same place just because of the outcome of the spot or whatever. You can get infections, I don't know if they can make you lose your tongue completly but im pretty sure you could I don't see why not? I mean if you had this outrageous infection they aren't just going to keep your tongue in your mouth while it could spread an harm your whole body. As far as kissing I have been told it isn't any different with it in your mouth just takes a little while to adjust to when you have your makeout sessions or whatever kids call them these days. But it's completly hott in my book!

I think your siking yourself out an it would be perfectly fine as long as you go in with a big head an listen to all of the precautions you have to take you will be fine :)


I'm 19 female. Do you still get that clear stuff in your underwear if you are pregnant? My stomache has been acting very weird lately. I do take birth control and my boyfriend who I live with generally uses a condom or pulls out, but like I said only generally. I'm just a little worried and good prego tests are expensive I think. (link)
I think either way whether your pregnent or not your still going to have the clear stuff in your underwear, Your only female and it's completly natural it's not a sign of pregnancy. You seemed stressed out so that could also be another reason asked to why your stomache has been acting wierd lately. As for pregnancy tests it doesn't really matter what kind you get they either way are accurate, I have taken a couple from cvs and they were like 5 dollars cheap an told me all I wanted to know so I would recommend a 5dollar test if anything :)


ok lately I've been feeling more and mroe left out cause my friends all go out partying together and of course they always invite me (But my parents dont let me go) + i dont drink (which is obligatory if your out partyying where i live) and at first i just thought i didnt fit in, but last night when i went out with them for the first time (my parents were away) i noticed how close you get and how much more you like each other after one night of partying together.. what hsould i do? how do i get my parents who would dig my grave if the word party ever came out of my mouths to let me freaking party? and should i even do it? heeellp (link)

Yeah I can see how you feel left out because it sucks being home on a friday night while all your friends are at parties that they will probably come to school talking about on a monday in 1st period class. But honestly if you wanna party; do it, its completly your decision an if you are really desperate to go partying just have friends cover for you. My parents would never let me party but all I would have to say is im stayin the night with my best friend my mom knows well an then she could tell her parents the same then you both have no curfew...But its up to you to try it thats my advice to you from what i've done just don't get caught with the wrong parties an your pretty much straight as long as you aren't drinking anyway cause alot of girls need alchoal to mingle an get along with people an talk to people but yeah thats my best advice hope I helped ;)


Hello,
I thought I would let you know that typing in all capital letters, like your recent answers to questions is not allowed on this site. I am just warning you, because that can get people banned from this site.
Just thought I would let you know:]
-Woahtherebabe (link)
Thank you =]


okay. my numba one crush, BFoster, asked me to be in his band, as a background singer, but i have major stagefright. and someone said that he wouldnt be in the band if i am, im sorta the outcast girl.fat,ugly,mean. everybody says i am the product of my infirement, wich is abusive. should i go along with the flow, or just stay out of the situation? please help.!!!
---Simone411--- (link)
G0 WiTH THE FL0W;;0bvi0uSlY Y0U KN0W Y0U WANT T0 G0, S00 D0 iT G0 S0 WHAT iF Y0UR N0T CLASSiFiED AS ALL 0F THE LABELS PEOPLE CLASSiFY THEMSELFS AS Y0UR Y0U, WH0 CARES THEY CAN EiTHER GET USED T0 iT 0R GET 0VER iT :)


I want a new screename for aim, my name is tiffanie& I like stuff thats cute& classy. (link)
MAYBE TRY LiKE...xoTiFFiExo...CLASSiE && CUTE!!


I currlently have dial up...which is REALLY slow, I want to go to DSL, but I do not know what is best for me. I do a lot of surfing on the net, and download music, whats best for me? (link)
Hey Hun,

DSL is def. the way to go because it's extremly faster an haha your probably the first person I know with Dial up still. So yeah ask your parentals about dsl, Its quicker an downloads your music extremly faster.

=]


14/f

my cycle has been regular for a long time, but i have issues with tampons. Every time I try to put one in (i'm inserting it correctly) and i get to the point where you have to start pushing the applicator in with your index finger, it will go in like 2/3 of the way and then there are about 3 centimeters of it that i can't push inside the tube and it feels like it's poking against the end of my vagina and it hurts really badly, then i just have to leave it where it is and pull the applicator out.


Is this my hymen? Because I do insertive masturbation a lot so I thought it was already broken. Or is it just that i have a short vagina? (link)
Hey Hun,


No you Hymen doesn't have anything to do with it not going in. I would say either your not doing it right so maybe you could go online an look up some different stuff online on how to insert it an all the different information with it. Or this could possibly be happening because your body isn't used to it you know. So you might just want to stick to pads an as far as swimming an stuff just sit out beside the pool or tell your friends you rather go do something else rather than playing in the water. Hope I helped ya out some!

=]


Tonight i had sex for the second time.
We used a condom and i saw the sperm in the condom after we finished and there were no holes, then we did it again with a new condom but he didn't finish off because we didnt have enough time.My cherry popped this time but it barely bled at all and im just wondering , the chances of me being pregnant are really low right?
Thank you ! (link)
Hey Hun,

Good chance your NOT Pregnant but if your having second thoughts about the situation than simply go get a pregnancy test an woop woop you will know your results.



Does anyone know the name of the song and artist at the end of Win a Date With Tad Hamilton?

It goes something like, "I never thought i could love again, i never thought i'd let somebody back in,"

any ideas? (link)
Frankie Jordan -Once Again


my boyfriend dumped me after a year of seein eachother Every single day and i spend all my time with him he was there for me wen no1 else was wen i lost all my friends and because wen we fight i take it too far he just had to dump me i begged for another chance but he said no i feel so sick im achining i miss him so much i see him everyday so its soo hard not to see him from now on i dont want to see him with another girl to thats going to make things harder please help because no1 is giving me good advice to stop the pain i love this boy i told him EVERYTHING and now its all over he dont want anything to do with me help!
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Honestly, One word of advice from me to you is.

"If he is worth having he is worth waiting for"


Stephanie-


my boyfriend has been bringing me down ALOT lately. all he ever talks about is how much it sucks that hes gonna lose me someday..and the other day he was like "youre gonna fall in love with someone else and i cant do anything to change it" and no matter what i said he kept going ON AND ON about it! nonstop!! then last night i called him and he told me that he was talking to ex girlfriend (shes really slutty) about when hes coming to visit and she wants to meet up with him. i didnt wanna hear that at all. then he said "YOU DONT LIKE ME ANYMORE!im such a bad boyfriend and no one likes me!" which he knows isnt true. before we hung up i said i love you like i always do, but he didnt say it back..he said "k".
well today he apoligized..and today all hes been saying is how much he loves me and how awesome i am which is obviously to make up for last night.
what should i do? does anyone have any idea whats up with him?? thanks! (link)
Hey Hun, I would definetly dump this boy. He seems like he is not totally devoted to you especially if he has to rely on his EX girlfriend to keep him entertained on the phone. I mean lord what do they talk about. It's obvious that any girl who talks to their ex boyfriend will always bring up how much they miss them EXSPECIALLY when they are single because some girls act like their hearts are bigger then the dagum two twin towers an it's ridiculous but true. I would definetly dump him tell him your not comfortable with him talking to his EX girlfriend an you totally disagree that it is okay because it isnt under any circumstances. Then tell him your just tired of being treated with disrespect all the time. And tell him if he loves you he wouldnt ever treat you that way an he would devote his time with YOU not talking to his EX girlfriend on the phone!! Hope I helped.

Stephanie-




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