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my boyfriend who i saw everyday for a year broke up with me
my boyfriend dumped me after a year of seein eachother Every single day and i spend all my time with him he was there for me wen no1 else was wen i lost all my friends and because wen we fight i take it too far he just had to dump me i begged for another chance but he said no i feel so sick im achining i miss him so much i see him everyday so its soo hard not to see him from now on i dont want to see him with another girl to thats going to make things harder please help because no1 is giving me good advice to stop the pain i love this boy i told him EVERYTHING and now its all over he dont want anything to do with me help!
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Honestly, One word of advice from me to you is.
"If he is worth having he is worth waiting for"
Stephanie-
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Judging from your spelling/grammar errors (no offense) I doubt that you are old enough to know what true love is, or at least mature enough to have a REAL relationship. You will find someone new, break ups are meant to happen, you have to go through these things in order to have a mature relationship later on.
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Rejection feels terrible! It is important that you remember that he is only one guy, not every guy. I promise that many more guys will come and go in your life, and you will be a different version of yourself, a more mature and experienced young woman, before you settle for just one! Enjoy your new freedom! You were a whole person before you got together with him, but somehow lost that sense of self. The two of you probably were too intense and attached. Sometimes that kind of meshing will burn out faster than a more casual relationship. Give it time. He may find that he misses you if you don't bug him and go on with your life. If he does not come back to you, then keep active anyway and make new friends. The pain you feel is real, but will lessen a little everyday, until one day (sooner than you think!) you won't even think of him, and when you finally do, you will laugh.
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Try forgeting about him. I know that will be so hard because you spent so much time with him, but try. If you can't then ask him if you can at least just be friends. Even though he might not love you back, you can still at least be friends.
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