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i dont know what to do!!!please help me i am sooooo depressed!!! my friend nicole is sooooooooo mean to me!!!!!! she is soooooo nice sometimes.. but sooooo mean .. what do i do!!!!she is like my best feind... but she can be sooo mean.. ill give you an example... well
1. she never listens to me
2. and she NEVER STOPS SAYING MARR HARR!!!
you dont get it!!
i ask her to stop and she just keeps talking!!grr marr harr marr harr marr harr marr harr!!!
lol... not

tell her its really bugging you and she'll probably just relise your serious and stop. if she doesn't do the same. grrr marr harr!

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Female. 13.

Well, I like two guys. Both of them like me back. I like one [andy] more than the other [sid]. Well, Andy is 17 [yeah yeah i know] and Sid is in my grade. So, Sid asks me out today, and I say no because I like Andy more. But after I thought about it I really do like Sid a lot. Now, I feel like a complete idiot. I gave Sid a hug, and he said it's okay and stuff like that but i just feel like a witch! :[ At the same time though I h don't wanna go out with him. It's superrr weird. I really don't know what I want.
[more about andy]
He's really nice and likes me a lot. He even spraypainted my name on his board. But, we aren't like going out or anything. I know he seems too old for me and all but I really like him.

I'm so confused.
Seriously, what the heck should I do?

if i were you go out with sid, give him a chance. andy is way too old for you, but maybe its just me i've only dated someone one year older than me but maybe its cool with you. to me four years older spells out trouble. so just try things with sid. tell him something like hey sid, wanna go out with me? i bet his jaw will fall down and he'll be speechless, and then say i got to thinking about going out with you and if you still want to would you want to go out with me?

thats what i would do. good luck with sid and andy. :P

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How do I know if I am in love? I'm really confused and I want to know so badly... please help.

Puppy love: when you think you are in love but its just a crush

crush: like as more than just a friend

like like: same as crush

love: you get a different feeling, you know what its like to have a crush but you get a better feeling. maybe you just know. or you love everything about the person. or you would do anything for them. you think.... there perfect.

did i help?

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Three different people called me emo because I was scratching myself with a tac. No I am NOT trying to be emo because I am way to terified that I will die if I even come close to any razor, or knife, or whatever. But I was just bored I wasn't like trying to be emo or anything. So now those three people are spreading rumors that I am emo. At my school if you are called emo then you suddenly are part of a group of people who die their hair jet black and cut their wrists. I saw that group and I don't want to be apart of that even though I am gonna die my hair black. (i've been trying to get my dad to let me die my hair since I was 7!) also i listen to all the same stuff the emos listen to just because i like it i cant help it if we like the same stuff. what can i do to stop the rumors?

It sounds like you are slowly becoming an "emo kid" just because you like the same stuff as emos but you are never truly one of them because you are scared of razors. So to stop the rumors, make sure other people know your not emo by proving it to them show them your wrists or show them your not friends with the emo kids.
Hope I helped

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Let's say I went to third with someone I had no intention of going out with? Would I be considered a slut?

With no intention you wouldn't be one, but other people might see you as one because they don't know your intentions. If other people are calling you a slut then explain it to them.

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Is it wrong to go for my ex-boyfriends cousin? They're actually step cousins but also very close. My boyfriend and I broke up awhile ago (it was a serious relationship) and he always thought I liked his cousin. I admit I had an innocent crush but now, I've started to have major feelings. What should I do, because I don't want my ex to think I'm easy or I lied to him about it. (18/f)

If you broke up with your ex then your free to go out with whoever you want but it sounds like you still like your ex. You could just be on rebound but it seems like you are sure you like him so, I think you should ask him out.

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I don't know if i'm depressed or not. When I'm at school with friends and stuff, I'm fine, but when i'm by myself, the only thing I want to do is cry. My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me, led me on, and left me again, and I think that's the core reason why I'm like this. What can I do to be happier? My friends never call me, and when I call them, they either are busy or something comes up. Someone help me please.

I went through a break up that I am still getting over... after 2 years. Sometimes when I see his picture in like the back of an old scrap book i'll cry. So I try not to be alone. I'll go on the computer and get my mind off of things, problem with that is i'll find the smallest word that will remind me. For a while I thought I was depressed to. When your depressed though your always sad, even when your around friends. I think that you're not depressed it's your break up. So if you feel like you want to cry, do. It makes you feel so much better to let things out than to keep them inside. Hope I help.

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okay well this guy that i like and i know he likes me is all of a sudden hugging a bunch of girls in front of me and does he not like me anymore or what. i dont know whats going on

somtimes guys if they know that a girl knows they like them will try to cover it up because they don't want them to know they like them. sorry its kinda confussing. if he knows you like him then maybe he wants to keep his options open to other girls because he thinks your realtionship is going no where. There are a lot of different reason, good luck.

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Okay, how far can you go without being a slut? I'm not talking about if you are with your boyfriend, just if you are hooking up with someone..how far can you go without being considered a whore?

If you have more than one boyfriend, or like purposely dress in clothes that are barley clothes, or If you are always havin a bf like right after a break up you have one waiting... thats what I would personaly consider sluttly but people have different oppions.

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I'm sorry this is so long, but it's a pretty complicated situation.

Okay, so when my boyfriend and I first starting dating...there was this girl that really liked him and wanted to be with him. My boyfriend told her that he wasn't interested because he was with me and that they just needed to be friends. Well I called him one night and he was somewhere with her 'talking about it in person.' I didn't really think anything of it, and I just forgot about it. Well then he said that they didn't really talk anymore, but she was still texting him and stuff. Well one night my boyfriend and I were together and she kept calling him...still. So I started worrying about it again and I checked his text messages and apparently they had been hanging out still. He had texts from her saying 'Will you drive tonight?' blah blah. I didn't say anything about it because I was ashamed that I had looked through his text messages. Well last night I called him and she was at his house at 11 PM. I didn't overreact at first until I found out that they were in his room. I was mad because he knew I wouldn't be comfortable with that and he still let her come over.

He said that she came over at 11 PM to wish him a happy late birthday and that they were in his room because she was checking her myspace, but it turns out she doesn't even have one.

I'm especially upset because his story doesn't make sense and I know if the tables were turned, he'd be pissed off at me. I don't know what to do. I know we need to talk about it, but I need to know a calm way to do it because I'm very tempermental. What do I say?

18/f. We've only been together for 4 months.

Talk camlmy to him. Ex.

you: i'm not real comfortable about you hanging out with her at such alate time at night... in her room.

him: we were just hanging out.

you: i know and i'm okay with that but maybe we could all hang out together.

him: okay with me.

I'm not sure if thats exactly how the convo is gonna go but... if you do hang out all together than you know that he's not up to anything, and neither is she.

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my boyfriend who is a year older than me used to walk wih me evry morning in school, and like giv me hugs, but now all of sudden he wont walk with me or even like talk to me, he just pretend she doesnt see me, and if i talk to him he'll listen but he wont look me, he just looks right past me. I thought he was going to dump me but then he wanted to hangout after school. is he like embarrased of me, or do u think he is gonna dump me?

I think he is going to dump you because all the signs are there, but it sounds like your to good for him.

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My brother and i were in a car accident recently and i was driving and totaled my brand new escalade. he told the police and our parents that he was the one driving so i wouldnt get in trouble since i only had my license for a few months and he has had his for about 6 years. i feel horrible about the whole thing tho and i cant figure out what to do. should i tell my parents the truth of just let it be?

i recently went through a similar problem but it wasn't a car crash. When my brother went to camp for a weekend I went in his room and played with his video games. (which I never get to play cuz we don't get along so great) I left without any evidence that I was in there. But my sister was in there with me and left my bath robe in his room. So he immediatley told my parents I went in his room. I did go in but I really couldn't get grounded I had a party that weekend. Anyway it ended up I lied to my parents about ever going in there and amazingly they said that maybe he purposly put it in there to get back at me. So I was off the hook and afterward I felt so guilty. So then I couldn't stand it anymore, I came clean. Sure I missed the party but it felt like some giant weights hanging me down just came lose. To feel as I did and in your heart knowing you did the right thing- tell your parents the truth, they should leave the grouding up to them and not the police so I think it's best if it goes on his record instead of yours just because you got your licence. But if you feel guilty for that then confess to the police as well. Sorry I wrote so much but I think this is the only way I can give you the best advice I can give.
drive safely,
juciyfruit

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14/f


RAWR. my brother was on the phone with the kid i like.. & my brother goes "My sister likes you!"

I was like mortified..

I see him friday...& hes comin to my party..
What do i do!? Do I say something to him?

act casual like you have no clue what your brother is talking about. if the guy you like brings it up tell him something like "last time he was talking to my grandpa and said the same thing... don't belive a word he says" something like that. either he'll start laughing or look at you weird. maybe this isn't such good advice... good luck anyways! LOL

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okay im 13 and so are my 2 friends. and we`re girls haha. and we have no idea what to be.. what are some creative, tteenish cheapish costumes ? THANKS! =]

www.partycity.com it has so many coustumes! i'm gonna be the gogo girl, LOL

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yes i still like him. no i am not asking him out.
if i don`t want to ask him out what should i do?
please help
!!ashlei!!

tell him you like him or get your friend to tell him for you cuz even if he doesnt like you back then he'll still know the truth, and thats really important

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1. he`s tall. i`m short .
2. I never see him in the halls.
3.he has blonde hair. i have brown hair.

should i ask him out or not?

ashlei

Who cares if you don't match. If you like him ask him out!

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17 female
ive know my best friend for about three years now, he's amazing. he's jut so funny and smart and caring. i realised about three months ago that i'd fallen in love with him but i haven't told him because i don't want to spoil our friendship. he's jsut the most amazing person ive every met and i want to tell him how i feel because its eating me up inside. so how do i tell him?

Write it in a letter if you are to scared to say it out loud. Or make him promise not to freak out if you tell him something. It works for me.

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when a guy says that he thinks im cute but doesnt really think he could see us as boyfriend and girlfriend mean i have no chance with him? or should i become better friends with him, hoping that we could have a chance.. or does it seem he wants nothing to do with me?

When I say just friends I mean just friends and thats it. If you like them ask them out. My friend that liked me last year never told me that they liked me and they just went on with their life and now they wish they said something because now they will never have a chance.

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I've wanted to be an actress/singer,for my whole life,im takeing musical theater this year,and theres nothing more i want than to be a actress,or a singer. its my ultimate desire,i'll do ANYTHING for it. i love it,and i put a lot into it. so my quesiton is, how can i gt into acting for shows and things like that? or for singing,what do i have to do? im 13. i dont think im ugly...if that matters,anyways please help im really devoted to this.

We must be twins because ever since I was little I always dreamed of acting. I think i'm ugly too. But I bet your not cuz normally when people say that they are ugly they aren't. Depending on where you live matters. I live in Texas and my brother is about to start taking acting classes and he is seriously very good. I was going to take the classes with him but 1 problem, no money to afford the classes. He said that since I am very good at acting that he would pay for my classes if I paid him back some day. To help you out look around your area for some classes because I heard this directly from one of the best trainers ever "without training or experience you have nothing, and you won't be able to make it." It is really hard and frustrating to really want something and not get it. But you seem more devoted than I could ever be so I really think you have a chance.

Good luck, and TRY your hardest in your theatre class in school. In Matters!
juicyfruitluvr4ever

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I would like your advice on this situation. About 3 months ago i was shopping and i saw this guy that works in one of the shops staring at me(in a nice way) but it was a really intense stare. Anyhow after going back numerous times i went up to him and gave him my email adress and phone number.We spoke a few times on email but it was always me that sent them..So i stopped and we havent spoken in ages, but still everytime i see him he still stares at me, and smiles, and his friends do the same, as if he has told them about me. I really dont know what to think anymore, mabye he is shy, but why doesnt he speak to me.

Go up to him and ask him what the deal is.

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