Question Posted Tuesday September 12 2006, 8:58 am
I would like your advice on this situation. About 3 months ago i was shopping and i saw this guy that works in one of the shops staring at me(in a nice way) but it was a really intense stare. Anyhow after going back numerous times i went up to him and gave him my email adress and phone number.We spoke a few times on email but it was always me that sent them..So i stopped and we havent spoken in ages, but still everytime i see him he still stares at me, and smiles, and his friends do the same, as if he has told them about me. I really dont know what to think anymore, mabye he is shy, but why doesnt he speak to me.
annon answered Tuesday September 12 2006, 4:57 pm: ooh good question i have this alot with girls about a day ago i told a girl i liked i liked her in bigger way than freind ship it took me all day to think of waht i was going to say to her any way the point of my story is maybe he needs to be with you in person a bit more and he is ust a little timid of what to put in his emails
angie91 answered Tuesday September 12 2006, 4:46 pm: Some times guys do weird things. When you think of them, think of them as girls who are very macho and dont shave their legs. lol!! I;m sure that if his friends look at you strangely its because hes told them some thing about you. what that is may depend though. I support your courage by going over to him and giving him your info. However, sometimes guys are weird and to him maybeit wasnt a good thing.:s. There is a possibility that he told his friends something bad about you. Same as girls who gossip about guys or other girls, behind their back. But I could deffinatly be wrong about that one.
You know there is no way for sure to know why they smile at you. Maybe they are in awe of you. lol. But I'm not sure if thats what the question is. Maybe the question is should I go ask him. If it is then yes. If you want a relationship to happen. Or, if you just want a friendship, just keep talking to him. Who cares if you are the one keeping up the conversation. And if you choose that path then you will probably find out about the smiling eventually. good luck with whatever you chose. Hope I helped a bit. [ angie91's advice column | Ask angie91 A Question ]
Brittani answered Tuesday September 12 2006, 3:37 pm: maybe you should leave that one alone because if a boy likes you and wants to have an relationship type deal then he will ask you out even if he was shy he probally only want sex and if I were you I would not mess with him because boys dont tell there friends about girls and allow them to stare at you to if he liked you he would them looking you up and down.
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