Member Since: September 12, 2006
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Last Update: September 12, 2006
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hey im 14/Male, well ill start from the beginning, i had 2 classes with this one girl in 8th grade right before this summer and we always talked, we laughed we had alot of fun together, well we started to really like eachother towards the end of the year and we went out and then when summer started i left for camp (we were still going out when i left) and we called eachother and everything was fine until she went to camp, then i came home after a month of being away she ended up falling for this other guy at her camp, they ended up going out for a week broke up then went out with another guy 2 weeks later, now im a freshmen school just started and shes single, we used to always talk hang out and stuff but it jsut kind of stopped, whenever i see her she looks excited to see me but never talks to me other then when she sees me, and her aol profile claims she likes someone and id like to know if it was me and homecomings coming up real soon and im not sure if i should ask her but id really like help on this i really really like this girl and she used to really really like me but idk anymore, please help... (link)
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No you need to forget about her if you could wait for her while you were in camp she should have done the same if she really liked you like that then she would have not gone out with anyone in camp that is not the type of girl that you want in your life lets just that you got older and went to different colleges she would probally go out with guys at her college because you are not there I cant make up your mind but I'm telling you tha that is not the type of girl you want in your life because I went away fo two months before and I did not date anyone else because I knew that I really liked my boyfriend and would not do anything to hurt him.
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okay, im 16 and in gr. 12, in the last 8 months 4 relationships have messed up for me, one being huge and is still killing me inside, but i just need to meet new girls, there's lots at my school but i dont wanna just go up to them and start talking cuz i dont want them thinking im sum desperate creep, and the girls ive been meeting lately are at the 18 and under socials i go to, but how can i meet them in school? (link)
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You have to first try to make friends with some of these girls like the ones in you class and when they become your friends they will start to like you and trust you when that time comes around then you ask one out and if the start to like you enoght they might even ask you out it also depends on how you look like maybe oneday go to the mall when it is full and see how many girls look at you if it is alot then tou know you look good and if none look than you might wanna step up your apperence a little bit and you gotta have confedence girl dont like men without that.
Brittani
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ok im 16 and in gr. 12, tha last few relationships ive bin in have bin disastrous, some of them wanted ta be dominated and a little controlled, some thot i was being a dick when i was like that, some thot i was too nice sumtimes, and i pretty much just wanna know wat girls really want, i know it cant be generalized like that , but do you want a guy that makes decisions for you, gets jealous and protective, and is dominative, or do you want someone who romances you , visits you at work on your worst days just to make you smile, and kisses you randomly, , i really hope i dont get 50000 different answers but ya thx (link)
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The only thing that we want is someone to be there when were down some who will support us and be there if we wanna cuddle nice not too controling strong so that you are able to protect us and listen when we need someone to talk to.
Brittani
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I would like your advice on this situation. About 3 months ago i was shopping and i saw this guy that works in one of the shops staring at me(in a nice way) but it was a really intense stare. Anyhow after going back numerous times i went up to him and gave him my email adress and phone number.We spoke a few times on email but it was always me that sent them..So i stopped and we havent spoken in ages, but still everytime i see him he still stares at me, and smiles, and his friends do the same, as if he has told them about me. I really dont know what to think anymore, mabye he is shy, but why doesnt he speak to me. (link)
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maybe you should leave that one alone because if a boy likes you and wants to have an relationship type deal then he will ask you out even if he was shy he probally only want sex and if I were you I would not mess with him because boys dont tell there friends about girls and allow them to stare at you to if he liked you he would them looking you up and down.
Brittani
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I like this guy called Johnny and we are both Christians who believe that it is up to God to decide who will be together. But I don't want to tell him how I feel about him because I’m afraid of rejection. I am a 14 year old girl and he is 16. I have heard he has had a past with a girl but it’s not anyone’s place to say. I even asked him if he had ever been in love and he said " Maybe, but I don't want to talk about it though". Johnny’s friend said “He is confused at the moment so don't say anything about your feelings towards him”. It kills me inside because I can't tell him. I really like him but inside I know he isn't the "one". Yet I can't resist but think about him. He is the nicest guy I have ever met. I haven’t met anyone like him so I don't know what he is thinking or how to get close to him. But I want to. I need your advice to know what to do about my situation. (link)
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If you like him like you say you do then give a shot the worst he could do is say no yes it would hurt a little bit then you would stop thinking about him and if he says yes dont jump into things so fast take it slow let him get to know you really well and also dont jump into trying to haave sex so fast because that is how most relationships ends and if he asks you and you feel that you are not ready you tell him that and he doesnt except it then you dont want to be with him.
Brittani
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17, female!
Well i had this really good guy friend and ive known him for years. anyway we became more than friends and dated for a while but we decided we might just be better as friends because we didnt want it to spoil our friendship. but then he suddenly stopped talking to me and wouldnt see me or anything so i just thought he'd got new friends and moved on so i didn't like it but i had to let it go.
i recently bumped into him and we got talking about old times. he told me that the reason he shut me off completely was because he realised that he'd fallen in love with me and with me moving and getting new friends it felt like i was leaving him behind so he had to try and forget about me. but he said he couldnt and that he still loved me and wanted to be close again like we were and start dating again.
i just want to know if you think i should take the risk? he really hurt me when he stopped talking to me and i dont want to be hurt like that agian. i love him to bits, i always will but i dont want to get my heart broken again! what should i do?
sorry its so long! thanks! (link)
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If you really love him like you say you do and you think that he is serious then you should give him a chance just because you move should not stop a relationship if you are really in love with each other than you would work out ways to see each other.
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my relationships dont last, but my new bf for once is.. the love of my life. How can i try to make it last?
or any tips?
P.s. i always break up with them, why.. i dont know, would there be any reasons why? Is it possible that im a slut? (link)
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No you are not a slut it maybe that you are afraid to get really into a relationship because you dont want to get heart broken. As a suggestion if you have not already don't jump into sex so fast because that is how most relationship end so quick. If he loves you he would wait as long as you wanted to and if he presures you to do anything sexual that you say you don't wanna do then he does not love he just wants sex.
Brittani
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