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New Boyfriend (As Always)!
my relationships dont last, but my new bf for once is.. the love of my life. How can i try to make it last?
or any tips?
P.s. i always break up with them, why.. i dont know, would there be any reasons why? Is it possible that im a slut?
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No you are not a slut it maybe that you are afraid to get really into a relationship because you dont want to get heart broken. As a suggestion if you have not already don't jump into sex so fast because that is how most relationship end so quick. If he loves you he would wait as long as you wanted to and if he presures you to do anything sexual that you say you don't wanna do then he does not love he just wants sex.
Brittani
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im just like that too!! i get bored with relationships... or im only in it for the chase... but if your with somebody right now who you think is the love of your life.. i wouldnt think you`d get bored!!
&& trying to make it last? keep it interesting.. dont do the same thing everyday! go out on dates.. do different things.. !! things that would make yall closer....
&&& no!!!!! your not a slut.. lol
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Most relationships end. If this weren't the case, everyone would end up being with their first boyfriend/girlfriend for life.
Chances are you'll date many people throughout your teens and twenties; this is normal.
One thing you could do is take some time to reflect on your past relationships. Do you see any patterns there, or did things not work out for individual reasons?
Patterns might indicate things you need to be careful of in this new relationship. For example, if you always feel the guy isn't giving you enough time - that might be the case, but it also might be that you have some problems around wanting more than people are willing to give.
I don't think you're a slut; no one would. I wish you the very best of luck in this relationship. Things that always help - honesty, talking about any problems, and reflecting about your feelings regularly.
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Well, I'm guessing that you're young. Anyways, there's plenty of reasons why you keep breaking up with your boyfriends. You're probably afraid of commitment, or being tied down to one person for too long. I would just give them longer than two weeks to prove themselves to you, and give them a chance. 2 week relationships are stupid.
You're not a slut, you're just confused about what you want.
♥TiNA
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The reasons your relationships seem not to last and you had boyfriends that you have broken up with is simply because you are 13. At your age, it's very common. Although it seems like things may last for ever, it's easy to get bored and find something more exciting and new. Just enjoy the memont and don't let yourself get too hung up on any one guy. None of this makes you a slut--you are just a normal young teen. Now, if you are jumping from guy-to-guy because you are bored of sleeping with one, then that's a whole different thing. Just have fun, and get to know people. Junior high is all about that. As you get older and especially when yo move into high school, things will get more steady. :)
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I don't think it makes you a slut, I honestly think you just get bored. But, if this one is lasting, it hopefully means that you are serious about him. Just take things slowly, and if you really like him, don't mess it up and break up with him, you will regret it later.
Best,
Teacup
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