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ok im 16 and in gr. 12, tha last few relationships ive bin in have bin disastrous, some of them wanted ta be dominated and a little controlled, some thot i was being a dick when i was like that, some thot i was too nice sumtimes, and i pretty much just wanna know wat girls really want, i know it cant be generalized like that , but do you want a guy that makes decisions for you, gets jealous and protective, and is dominative, or do you want someone who romances you , visits you at work on your worst days just to make you smile, and kisses you randomly, , i really hope i dont get 50000 different answers but ya thx
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Every girl is different. I am definatly NOT like the girls at my school. So There is no answer to what girls want. Personaly, I would like hugs and kisses like tic-tac-toe but I hate a whole lotta romance. So the best thing I can tell ya is get to know them and you'll find out what they like.
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well for me..its just having a guy that isnt too over-sensitive but isnt like oh i dont care about you suck it up kinda thing. i think its somewhere inbetween. like i want someone that i can feel protected by and safe around but not like clingy where there on me all the time! but sometimes making decisions is a good thing but not ALL THE TIME. i like a guy who just is himself and doesnt try to be something he isnt. if i had a bad day or something i just want to go home and cuddle with that guy and be in his arms and watch a movie and that way..to me everything will be fine again :) kissing randomly is sometimes cute but then again..dont go and kiss someone like every 10 seconds you know haha. girls like it when guys get jealous if they're talking to other guys but in there mind..your the only one for her and that will never change. just be yourself, make sure you earn her trust, be able to make her laugh at times when she doesnt think she can ever smile again, tell her you love her if you really mean it, just want to be with her! hun, things will get better and work out for you in the end!
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The only thing that we want is someone to be there when were down some who will support us and be there if we wanna cuddle nice not too controling strong so that you are able to protect us and listen when we need someone to talk to.
Brittani
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Most girls will answer this question with a simple "of course it's the nice guy!". But in reality, it's not really that way. A completely dominating guy is awful, for sure, but a completely sappy guy is pretty frustrating too.
I'm going to take a line from Aladdin here. "Beeeeee yourself!". Don't try to be anything and you'll probably find that that's exactly what girls are looking for. Something inbetween. Be nice, romantic and sweet, but also make her feel safe and protected with you. Stay away from the extremes. That's where you get into trouble. Good luck. :)
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Only very unhealthy people want to be controlled and dominated. You should not be dating anyone like that. If you were, then I would tell you it is only a weak person who thinks he is strong by dominating another. However, if you are really just wanting to know how to play the dating game in general and figure out how often to call without being a whipping boy, that is different.
The only way to attract a girl that you will be happy with, is to be the boy you are happy with. Think about that...............................
If you guess at what girls in general want and try to reduce yourself to that, then you will be limiting yourself to stereotypes, and your ideal mate may be beyond stereotypes. Be your best self, and your best match will get sifted out of the excess and find you irresistable. All relationships involve compromise as you grow together, but you don't start out by giving yourself away.
You could "get 50000 different answers", but the one that counts is the one you and your next girlfriend come up with. Any girl that is too immature to discuss what she wants openly is not ready for a relationship and does not no what she wants for herself. At you age, dating is new and experimental. Respect yourself and others and you will figure it out.
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Personally, I hate it when a guy thinks he needs to 'dominate' in the relationship. But then again if you try to change yourself to make girls like you then you won't end up with who you are meant to be with.
I would say overall girls like funny, nice, romantic, sweet guys who they can trust. Just be yourself and you will find the right girl eventually. Don't forget everyone is different so you probably will get many different anwers but that will show you how varied each person is and that not all girls like the same things. If you need anything else feel free to let me know & good luck! :)
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