I don't know if i'm depressed or not. When I'm at school with friends and stuff, I'm fine, but when i'm by myself, the only thing I want to do is cry. My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me, led me on, and left me again, and I think that's the core reason why I'm like this. What can I do to be happier? My friends never call me, and when I call them, they either are busy or something comes up. Someone help me please.
Anq3L_xO answered Thursday October 19 2006, 10:18 pm: Make yourself very socially available. What I mean by this, for example, in my town, you can go to the movies and there will always be people there. Do something like that. If your friends don't call you and when you call them they're always busy, make new friends. It's not so hard, you just need a little change in your life to keep your mind off the boyfriend situation. Right now just focus on yourself and what makes you happy. Life is what you make it, so the only way to be happy is to let yourself be happy, and to let yourself move on. Good luck. -Angel [ Anq3L_xO's advice column | Ask Anq3L_xO A Question ]
ulovelele331 answered Thursday October 19 2006, 7:44 pm: Don't worry I used to be just like that. I'd cry like every day sometimes for just know reason at all. In middle/high school things can be crazy! I mean there's guys, bitchy girls, people you're not sure are your friends, rumors, drama, an extroidanary amount of pressure, and to top it all of crazy hormones. And thats not even the acedemic part. Everyone just wants to fit in and be liked. And don't fool your self kids are vicious, people who don't even know you can hate you and if they get to you, then they OWN you. I have to say it really helps to have someone to talk to, a sister or a cousin, preferably not in the same school (trust me it may backfire). At this stage in our lives we still are trying to figure things out. We are all rollercoasters of emotions! So, no I don't think you're depressed. Hope I helped:) Fell better. [ ulovelele331's advice column | Ask ulovelele331 A Question ]
juicyfruitluvr4ever answered Thursday October 19 2006, 7:09 pm: I went through a break up that I am still getting over... after 2 years. Sometimes when I see his picture in like the back of an old scrap book i'll cry. So I try not to be alone. I'll go on the computer and get my mind off of things, problem with that is i'll find the smallest word that will remind me. For a while I thought I was depressed to. When your depressed though your always sad, even when your around friends. I think that you're not depressed it's your break up. So if you feel like you want to cry, do. It makes you feel so much better to let things out than to keep them inside. Hope I help. [ juicyfruitluvr4ever's advice column | Ask juicyfruitluvr4ever A Question ]
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