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hey, my name's Leah. I've been on Advicenators for awhile now. I'm 15 years old and I live in New Jersey. I really love helping people sort out their problems, and I try to be as sensitively honest as possible. I'll answer any question that comes my way, I'm not timid.

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Leah

Gender: Female
Location: New Jersey
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
Member Since: October 18, 2006
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is the host of punk'd (the guy that always talks in the beginning) ashton kutcher? (link)
Yes Ashton Kutcher is the creator and host of Punk'd.


i really like old 80s and 90s shows and movies (boy meets world...empire records, breakfast club, sixteen candles....blah blah) do you know any really really good ones that i could netflix? and not all of the obvious famous ones, ive seen most. (link)
here are some i really like....

Romy and Michele's High School Reunion (1997) R
Wayne's World (1992) PG-13
Bill & Ted's Excellent Adventure (1989) PG
Election (1999) R
Heathers (1989)R
Ferris Bueller's Day Off (1986) PG-13
Clueless (1995) PG-13


ok well there is this boy and he likes my bst friend...and they have a lreadsy gone out like 5 times and im serios on that!!! Put my best friend has a boyfriend butidk if when thay brek up the guy that i like will still like my bf or get over her!!!

signed
confused! (link)
sorry this is late but i havent been on for awhile,

why did your best friend go out with this boy 5 times if she already has a boyfriend? it sounds to me like she either really likes him is just tired of her boyfriend. As for the boy that likes her and i think you said you like aswell, he probaly will like her when she breaks up w/ her boy friend. I dont know how old you are, but if your in atleast 7th grade, this relationship is destin to fail. First off, if they went out 5 times then they are probaly just going to start up w/ the phisical part of the relationship but once thats done itll be over. This is not a healthy relationship, they shouldnt have started while your friend had a boyfriend because thats just cheating. Her old boyfrind will probaly be very jealous or angry and i cant think of a good way for this to turn out. So, to answer your question, no he wont be over her right away, but once the physical stuff is over they will most likely become sick of each other and call it quits. Then you will have ur chance :)
hope I helped
~*leah


I have bad acne all on my forehead and chin and nose. It's really embarrasing and I don't want to go to school tommorow because i'm always scared to look at or talk to people because i think there thinking that it's really gross or they might make fun of me. and to make it worse im in speech and we have to get infront of the class allot and talk. im going to the dermatologist but i dont think im going to survive the weeks it will take for me to get clear skin. :( (link)
proactive


What excactly is friends with benifits?
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Friends w/ benefits is like say your a girl and you have a best friend who's a boy. You're not going out with this boy but you may occasionally make out or even hook up with them. It's like you use each other to release sexual tension even though there's no commitment. Boy's tend to like the idea of friends w/ benefits more than girls do.
hope I helped:)


i know your not suppose to have myspace trackers and im not planning to get them but i was just wondering if they really work. has anyone used one before? (link)
No they dont work! I wish they did though. I tried to get one and then all of the sudden there were the posted bulletins about the trackers that were posted by me but i hadnt posted them. I changed my password and I was fine again but id say dont risk it. The results may be even worse.
hope i helped
~*leah


do sit-ups really make your abs tighter? (link)
yes but if you to to many they will make your smomach look puffy. Like an early pegnancy. Leg lifts are better they will tighten your abbs and give you a flat stomach.
hope I helped
~*leah


did anyone see SNL and the first man to dance skit? does anyone know what the techno song is called that they played??! (link)
The song is called Sandstorm by Tunnel Alliance.
~*leah


can your hymen break using a tampon? because a penis and tampon go in the same spot and i know your hymen breaks during sex..im confused

thanks in advance! (link)
well, yes tecnically i guess your hymen could break but i doubt it considering a male penis is much larger than a tampon. Then again youd b surprised at what can break your hymen. girls who play sports or dance/gymnastics could break theres just from stretching to much. I wouldn't worry about it though I mean its not like u lose your virginity to the tampon if it breaks you hymen haha.
hope I helped :)


okay i just started my period and i went to the bathroom and this thing came out that looked like an egg, slimy clear stuff with yellow spots...it looked thick mucus. What is it? (link)
That is vaginal Discharge. Basically its your body releasing the liquids inside your uterus.
~*leah


whats the song from this iPod commercial.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0q4wf8xnlgc

thankss (link)
Who's Gonna Sing? by Prototypes

Haha I hate when I dont know a song in an add!
Hope I helped:)

~*leah


hey i was thinking of going christmas shopping tomorroww and i was thinking of buying a perfume for my self =] Do you have perfume ideas that would attract guyss =] and would make me smell good?? THANK YOU! (link)
The abercrombie perfumes a good choice. It smells amazing, guys love it cause its not to girly or flowery, plus its not that expensive! only about $40.00. Some other more expensive ones are, Chanel No. 5, Oilily, and Juicy Couture:D

Hope i Helped

~*leah


13/f

i have a geography bee tomorrow and i desperately need help.. i need t0 memorize capitals of each state in the US. can anyone send me a website where i can find it please? please help as soon as possible. thanks (link)
Well if you have to memorize them all by tomorrow thats going to be VERY difficult! But hear are some sites that mey help you:

http://quizhub.com/quiz/f-capitals.cfm

http://www.quia.com/custom/4main.html

http://www.50states.com/cap.htm

Hope I helped! Good luck

~*leah


okay well, honestly, im seriously thinking aobut killing myself. my life is horrible. i swear half of the world hates me. i have the absolute worst life that anyone could ever live. i dont want to kill myself but its the only way everyone will stop being rude and making fun of me and everyone will be happy if i am dead. i know that i need to talk to someone about it but i just cant. please help me. (link)
Well, I dont know how old u are but it sounds like ur probally around highschool age. Look everyone (whether they admit to it or not) thinks about suicide i mean We tend to think of it as the solution when we run out of solutions, but thats not the case. This may sound Frank, but Kids are As*holes, you shouldn't even think twice about what they think cause I can tell you right now, when they go out into the real world they will crumble. They are too used to people likeing them and have no idea what it's like to be the odd one out. Look at all the self made famous people today, Do you honestly think they were normal in school? No Way! I mean lots of them struggles w/ drugs, bullemia, family abuse..ect. No body's perfect and My personal imperfections just give me more drive. And Highschool is harsh! But if you can survive it while on the rubber end of the plunger, than you can conquer anything! What doesn't kill you will only make you stronger!

Hope I helped Hun!

~*leah


Hey! Well, I'm 14/f, like 118 lbs, 5'6, and am like a 34 or 36 A. I know that I fit into the clothes at Abercrombie & Fitch, American Eagle, Aeropostale, and Hollister, but I'm not sure if I fit into the clothes at abercrombie. So with the given information, can my size fit into clothes at abercrombie kids because I really like their clothes. Thanks! :) (link)
well, I'm 5'8 and although the abercrombie pants fit around my waist, They are WAY to short. Your 5'6 so they may not be too bad, but you'll have to see for yourself. As for the shirts, the XL tend to be short and wide on me. If you have a short torso though they might fit. I hope they do fit you though. abercrombie clothes are ALOT less expensive than A&F. Hope I helped:)


Okay so heres the deal. im 14/f and i had sex the 23rd with a guy whos 15 and we didnt use protection. Now its the 28th and i havent gotten my period. its late by 2 days i keep track. anyways i have been feeling sick around my favoite foods, i have been going to the bathroom alot, i have been eating alot (chips n stuff that i would never eat before), and i have been extremly tired. i looked up some facts on the internet about syptoms and those r common but then again a couple months back i thought i was pregante but i wasnt. i didnt have the same syptoms though. So i was hoping u could help me out. so what im wondering is when i should take the pregnacy test and if its even possible that i am pregante? Thank you, (link)
Yes you should absolutly take the pregnancy test because, do you really just want to worry and not know. I would recomend waiting a while though (it takes time for your body to let the test know your pregnant and I would take 2 or 3 so your sure because there are only like 92% accurate). If you think you are pregnant, you should consider your options (keep the baby, give for adoption, or have an abortion). I know that in NJ you don't need parental consent to have an abortion. And to answer your question, after reading this I think there is a very good chance of you being impregnated. Hope I helped. Good Luck!


ok, i need help before 8:30, people. if you can help me, God bless you! My mom rented out a dress that's humoungous! and i have to wear it tonight to a party at my school whether i like it or not because she said so. But, i really don't wanna wear that! please give me ideas. talking to her won't help because i already tried that. please let me know. thank you (link)
Try to pin it so it's not so huge. If that doesn't work just make sure you have gorgeous accessories to go with it so people will notice them insted of the dress. Or.... if you really want to u can take another dress you own or borrow a friend's dress and change in the school bathroom. Then change back when you go home. Hope I helped:) good luck!


My birthday is coming up in 2 monthes and i have NO CLUE WUT TO DO FOR IT! I usually make up a bunch of games and invite people and we play tehm but this year for my 15th birthday it seems like were getting a little too old for musical chairs and stupid kid games like that. I wanna eevryone to ahve a good time and maybe go somewhere but not too expensive. where should I go? this party will have around 15 people. mostly girls, thanks aLOT! (link)
Well, I don't know what there is to do in your town, but for my last birthday I went out with like 10 of my friends and we did habatchi. (you know, where they make the japanese food right in front of you). It was so much fun. we got to talk and be silly, then most of them slept over were we just watched dvds and gossiped. It doesn't involve any planning besides a reservation. Hope I helped:)


i'm ordering jeans from abercrombie and fitch and i can't figure out my size. i'm an xs in the a&f clothes and i think i'd be a 0 or a double zero in their jeans. i'm ordering off the website and i can't figure out what the 'L' and the 'R' next to teh sizes are. can anyone help? (link)
well, I'm a small and a 2-0 in abercrombie jeans so im guessing your propally a double 00. btw, the L means longcut and R means regular cut.


My cousin is 12 and is half a foot taller than me. Most people at school are taller than me, but I never seemed to mind or pay attention to it until my cousin moved into the state. I am 14 and am 5 foot. Am I short or is everyone else just tall? Please be honest! (link)
Well, yea your short. The average height for a woman is 5'4. But don't worry, I used to be insucure about my height (5'8, at only 13 years old!) but now I Love it. It makes me stand out as well as your height makes you. hope I helped.




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